BowsAndRibbons

I realize this post is over 2 years old, but if anyone is reading it, I’m in Appleton and would love to find diaper friends!

Does anyone know if there are actual stores in Wisconsin that sell ABDL diapers and not just the low quality store brand diapers? Due to my living situation ordering online is risky, and the products I can get at places like Walgreens just aren’t great.

I just got a pack of these and currently wearing the first one! I love it. It’s the softest on the inside that I’ve ever felt. I’m used to only wearing the store brands, so this is a huge change. The plastic seems discreet enough that I am going to wear it to do my running around this afternoon.

So.. fun fact 8 years after I made this post, I finally got around to wetting my pants in a place outside of the shower! I really appreciate how supportive this community has been

Today was a very bleak, rainy, Friday the 13th, and I wore black dress slacks. My client let me go about 15 minutes early, so I took a walk down by the river and I found a nice spot under the bridge. I had an accident.. on purpose. This was my first time ever doing something this bold. It felt so wonderfully warm compared to the cold rain. Everything ran down the back of my legs, and then out the leg of my pants, which I wasn’t expecting at all! I guess because I’m so used to wearing a diaper, I expected the wetness to absorb more into the pants. I really want to do this again!

Maybe this was a reply meant for the roleplay subcategory? I appreciate your input, but I feel like this was way out in left field in terms of on topic. We were having a very adult conversation about some intense feelings and vulnerability and coming in with the baby talk fantasy makes a mockery of what was honestly scarring enough to turn me away from the lifestyle entirely. That’s a very real possibility! Thank you for bringing that up. I’d have to ask my mom to be sure, but it seems likely. I potty trained super early (mom said it was self lead) and I’ve never been one to like getting my hands dirty.

You brought up some good points. I think it might have been the embarrassment that came with messing myself (even though I was alone) and it might have triggered some deep repressed feelings from my childhood because I did experience a lot of neglect and abuse in the time of my life right after diapers like 3-13. That’s definitely something to think about and work through. also, I’ve never been one who enjoyed anything sticky- play dough, mud, or batter have always freaked me out. I don’t like getting my hands dirty at all. So I think when I felt the mess on my backside I just went into sensory overload.

I messed solely out of curiosity. Using diapers has been a fetish for me for over 10 years and i thought that I wasn’t getting the full use of the diapers. It was a spur of the moment thought. I didn’t go in with any expectations, except I thought because I enjoyed wetting that messing would be fun to try. I really don’t know what changed, but as soon as it happened it just felt wrong. There was just this huge emotional release and I don’t know where it came from.

I tried messing a few weeks ago for the first time. I was well padded and had protective pads all over, and I was nice and relaxed and I thought I was ready for that moment. But then as soon as it happened, I sobbed uncontrollably for like 20 minutes. I immediately got cleaned up and showered but I kept crying. I really don’t know what happened or why. Has this happened to anyone else? Idk if I want to mess ever again because I felt so bad afterwards.

That makes more sense.

What’s the point of them if there’s no adhesive to keep them in place?

I was given these pads, and I’m not entirely sure how they work. They look like diapers without tabs, or really pig pads without adhesive. Do I use these as incontinence pads and stick them in my underwear, or do I put them inside a diaper? If I put it in a diaper, will it flow through like a booster pad? I’ve never seen anything like these before.

No shit Sherlock. I’ll have you know I’m down 40lbs from Christmas, and already feel bad enough about myself without you being an ass about it. That was the least helpful comment you could have made.

The part of my stomach that hangs over my jeans- like how muffins spill over the muffin wrapper

I have tried several types of diapers, and I keep running into the problem of the muffin top. My hips are much narrower than my thighs and belly button area, and this always causes a gap in the front or the back depending on if I’m laying or standing. I usually wear a XL, so there aren’t a lot of options to go up a size. Do you have any ideas for a closer fit?

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I bought the plastic pants from the medical supply store. There was not a thigh measurement, just a waist measurement.

That was rude. I can read just fine, thank you very much. The size chart included in the product I bought didn’t have thigh circumference listed in the measurements. I figured plastic pants were like underwear where thigh size isn’t important.

Update: thanks for the solid advice! I did wash the garment twice with the regular laundry, and dried it. I purchased some plastic pants, but they were not wide enough in the thighs, so a garbage bag with leg holes cut out is providing a similar support. I am in love! This is bar far the best diaper experience I’ve ever had. I feel so much better protected and the material is amazingly soft!

My partner and I tried a hypnosis video on YouTube and it didn’t work outside of the 20 minute video making us realize we really needed to pee, and the relaxing voice telling us to use the diapers

I just bought my first cloth refastenable diaper from Amazon, it’s a Rearz overnight something or other.. the label and description were vague. anyway, in the description it said wash twice before wearing. It also says machine wash and dry. I have a couple questions 1. when it says wash twice does that mean wash>wash>dry>wear or wash>dry>wash>dry>wear 2. Why do I need to wash twice? 3.will I need to wash twice after every use? 4. How do I determine if this is the type I need plastic pants with? thanks in advance! Things are crazy in life right now, so it might be a few days before I get to respond

My fiancée and I just moved from Wisconsin to the Atlanta area. We both enjoy watersports and wearing diapers. She is much more into the baby aspect that comes with wearing diapers, whereas I enjoy the sexual aspect. We are hoping to find some likeminded people to maybe meet up with.

Why am I being called out on this?

Could you send this to me as well? A diaper for two is something I’ve dreamed of.

I’ve been wearing disposables for a long time, and I’m thinking of switching to cloth diapers for a change of pace and to hopefully save some money in the long run. I’ve been looking at different sites, and some of the terminology is confusing me. Can you tell me everything you learned about cloth diapers, that you wish you had known before buying?