[Getting Surgery in Mexico]

And yes DAQ. I will say again if you have a surgery on purpose that is a do harm surgery they will do as little as possible so they will not be sued

[Getting Surgery in Mexico]

I do really think you go to a hospital and admit you had a surgery out of the country That no one will do in the USA....... They may patch you up and say go back to the place you had it done. Dr's in The USA Are a Do no harm that means not to do a surgery that is doing you harm.......

[Getting Surgery in Mexico]

I hope it goes well, but I have been to Mexico . We went there to build homes yrs ago and I would not trust surgeries or some place there . But I am not you . My hope is you get back safe and no problem with it. But I have had at least 6 major surgeries and had issues even a month after one of them. I can't imagine having to drive to Mexico in an emergency situation a few weeks afterwards . And the local hospital will not even treat you if you say you had the elective surgery done out of the country . So if you have a major issue you will have to have an experience air flight bat to the hospital ..

[Getting Surgery in Mexico]

I ask is it that much more to stay in the hospital until they are sure you are ok?? in a hotel and one nurse a day? a lot can happen out of the county . I would see what the cost is to stay in a hospital to have them check your wounds until it heals up? unless they are doing it ottoscopic . Then it's not as bad. But if they are cutting my body I will stay in the hospital no matter the cost. But its your life..

[The purpose of making yourself incontinent]

At least with my age it's a little easier if anyone finds out. I can just say I have leakage this is my way to do it. I take enough pills 💊 , And don't want anymore pills. Or any more surgeries .

[Out of the nightmares comes...]

Can't be a real diaper 

[Tapes When Doubling]

I would say if you pop the tapes when an over sized diaper is full and I have had a bunch of them full of pee and I have split the seams of the cheaper diapers. Anyhow I like the pic of the wide tape that Dartplayerinwvc posted very vice job. 

[In front of family? (Not fantasy, family and friends only)]

I wear 24/7 so I wear in front of family , but I keep it covered, with clothes . I even used to wear to work, I have been retired for about 8 yrs now, so don't have to do any of that anymore .

[how to get state medical insurance to pay for diapers]

2 hours ago, rusty pins said:

If you are an actual bedwetter with some form of incontinence and wet without knowing at night and nothing you have tried has helped you to stop, discuss it with your doctor or urologist who should be familiar with your situation.  They will most likely have you try different options to stop bedwetting, but if they fail and run their courses, diapers may be your best or only options.  They should have office staff that can help with a prescription and interact with Medicaid on your behalf to see if prescription diapers for bedwetting can be approved.  Most likely the cheapest and most worthless brand there are like Coviden Wings (useless in my opinion).

On the other hand, I will say this and most people here will agree.  If you are not actually incontinent or a bedwetter but just want to wear diapers to bed as part of your fetish, don't be a douche bag and fraud medicaid into thinking you medically need diapers if you don't.  We taxpayers are here to help people who need it, not people fraudulently looking for free diapers for their diaper fetish.

I agree you make very good points. Maybe Medicaid will cover if they need them, with the Drs people I have talked to and read about .... they pay more often. Medicare will not pay unless you are really persistent . My Drs that I have talked to say Medicare will not pay

[This Is Strange]

I have been addicted to almost any smooth Plastic as long as I can remember . I can lay in plastic and pee,,,,,, etc play etc.

[Is this lifestyle compatible with children?]

Freta Thanks . You have said a lot. I have said to be careful that the young kids don't see any of you fetish. And you have said it Good.

The issues with it and having young kids are a lot. Kids see and they will talk. And next thing you are in jail for sexual abuse, and you are Not guilty. But before it's all over you lose your kids and respect of anyone , family etc. I held out and hid my secret till my son was an adult and as far as I know he still has no clue.. It's very tricky. I like the idea of the basement bedroom with a good lock. Thumbs up.

[Looking for advice]

In summer time you can also wear the noisy short? and I have seen the nylon noisy long pants they wish when you walk. Just a thought 💭 

[Looking for advice]

1 hour ago, pamprdguy said:

I am looking for advice.  As much as I am not a big fan of cloth like disposable diapers, can anyone recommend a brand that is not too thick and doesn't have a lot of crinkle?  The reason I am asking is that I would like to be able to wear diapers under my pants during the day, especially when my son is around.  He doesn't know about my love of diapers.  I have walked around with a Pampers diaper in my pants and have no issue hiding that.  I have one on right now.  The issue is, the Pampers don't fully fit.  I would love to be able to wear around the house without being detected.  I have always and will always love the plastic backed diapers with a bit of a crinkle, but would love to walk around knowing I am fully padded when he is around.

There are days when I feel like spilling the beans and tell him.  I would like to think he would be discreet about it and not tell anyone.  Unfortunately there have been times where he has said he wouldn't tell anyone something I have told him, but found out he let it slip to someone.  It is just him and I since my wife passed just over a year ago.  If my in-laws ever got word I would not feel comfortable around them.  My mother-in-law has let her feelings be known about adults wanting to wear Pampers or other diapers.  At this point my wife had known about my love of diapers and wasn't accepting of it.  I just fear my son finding my stash, but he really isn't a curious person  and I know he won't look in my closet and find them.

So, if anyone can recommend a brand or two for me to explore in cloth covered disposable diapers, please let me know as I would love to open myself to more opportunities to wearing around the house.  Thank you in advance!!!

I really Love the ATN plastic backed, and I used to wear them to work around people , co workers. If the heard any noise they never said anything . But my wife said on a couple of occasions that she heard a slight noise. But if you wear underwear over them, you will cover up a lot of noise . Your son may know already but is not wanting to say anything to embarrass you. The in-laws I am not sure of. Now I don't know what brand of cloth backed to say. But you will need a good pair of non plastic pants over them. Because they will leak, And some of those make noise. Because they still have plastic with a paper on the outside ... I even wore cheap depends and the paper made noise.....

[Not a creature was stirring...]

The cool weather is when the rats and mice find a way inside . I keep the little rat poison stuff in places where our dog is too big to get into. I need to put out some fresh stuff. I put it under the floor of our shed, under the bottom shelves in the garage, only 2 inches off the floor. We haven't had any raccoons ourselves . But we get skunks that make a bed in the leave pile, and under the shed if we don't close it off. Our first year in this house we had a family of skunks and I kept scaring them away and closed it in. Let a newborn deal with them..

[How to tell my Christian girlfriend?]

42 minutes ago, spoonchicken said:

You have a simple choice to make:

#1: Abandon your fetish forever.

#2: Tell her the truth, and immediately. If this is gonna be a deal-breaker it's best for everyone that this information comes to light sooner as opposed to later. The longer this lurks in the background the harder it will be to get past it. She'll ask the inevitable question "Why did you wait so long to tell me?" And no answer you give will be OK.  And if  worst comes to worst, better to break up now, BEFORE there's a legal marriage and KIDS to be considered. That would just make a bad situation even worse. 

And as far as trying to defend / explain The Life...fetishes are defined as "getting sexual gratification from inanimate objects". So strickly speaking, it's no wierder than men getting unexplainably turned on by....not just any miniskirt, but specfically a black leather skirt...or a pair of 3" high heels...or...a certain hairstyle. OR whatever. These reactions are too intangible to explain with tangible words .Instead, just go with the flow (pun intended!). So that's a fair answer that defends fetishes in general.   

   As far as diapers?  They make us relax and feel better. They make it possible for many of us to re-capture ( or in the case of many people here, create for the first time)...a feeling of a stress-free mindset. Relaxed, comfortable, feeling "warm & fuzzy" in body, mind and soul.  Every human shares the desire to feel that way. Some people turn to drugs and alcohol. Some folks immerse themselves in sports. Others turn to religion. Many folks utilize a combination of things. The ABDL community focuses on diapers to achieve this goal.      

That's it...that's really all there is to it. And yes, it's harmless. The "vanilla world" (as we describe outsiders) views us in less than complimentary terms. They mistakenly believe that we're a danger to society (i.e., children).  *gasp* "Just because some of us enjoy wearing diapers is bad enough, but to engage in sexual activities that include diapers ?!?  Heavens to Betsy, they must all be a bunch of closet pedophiles just waiting to do evil sick things to & with real children!!!" Or so they typically say and think.

NOTHING could be further from the truth. ALL we want is to be left alone to live our personal lives AS WE SEE FIT TO DO! And since we're not "exporting" ourselves upon the rest of the world, we are harmful to no one. 

Good luck  🥄🐔  

You make a lot of really Good points. But if his fetishes are real and not just a passionate phase. No matter what he will do to try to forget forever . That most likely will never happen . He can read some of my stuff . I waited over 10 yrs to tell my wife and 29 yrs into our marriage we are still married . But had I found a person with the same fetishes I would have been in some ways happier . I do really Love my wife. But now we are old and kinda stuck. No sex life at all. I get to play by myself some. I say Please have the conversation NOW and save you both a hardship . At least you will know. You can talk about it with her if she is interested in you enough to keep you. But the only thing you gain by saying you will quit is Nothing. When you have kids and get really jealous by them in the fun wet diapers . You will take one and pee in it and then it's over only the beginning of the rest of the lies, for the rest of your marriage or the end with a sex pervert label on you for playing in a baby's diaper. Just let her know now.

[to all DL's, how do you like to wet your nappy?]

Well I think I have fewer leaks if I wet standing. But I sit a lot and I wet very easily sitting . But when I sit I feel the pee go down to my balls and it feels very good

[hi!]

Yes Welcome Froggy, you are very welcome here. And very Lucky to have a Partner  thats willing to participate with you I have been married 29 yrs and my wife wants nothing to do with any of my stuff .. Welcome and I really Hope you make a lot of good friends here as I have done..

 

I haven't said it much , but my pic I use is my long lost BEST ever cat I ever had.

[Always wash your …produce]

6 hours ago, rusty pins said:

"Try the new Banana Cleaner!  It cleans, slices and dices!"  

Ouch!!!

[I'm THAT old]

11 hours ago, Stanley_19802 said:

How about these two. My first cell phone back in 1999. And if you lived in a poor household like me you might remember paper food stamps. Back before the current EBT cards. Man time flies. 

My first cell phone was a BAG phone it was about 10 pounds, from Radio Shack we had to pay $125 for it then we paid about $100 a month for 20 mins and 95 cents a min after and I was just glad to have a cell phone because my boss wouldn't pay for one and I did a lot of traveling for work .. the phone looked and was as much as my ( shower strap)  oxygen portable, I use now. 

3 hours ago, Babygeebee said:

I remember having to carry travelers cheques when travelling. 

Don't they still have these? If so it's much safer than a credit card, when you get robbed on vacation .

[Always wash your …produce]

3 hours ago, DailyDi said:

Love it, I may have to try one....

[Husband is into DL and more]

I am now married 29 years in a few months . I thought I could just not do my fetishes , I am not really AB, I am DL with a hint of AB. Anyhow . We were married about 10 yrs and it wasn't till she got cancer ,, I needed my fetish. I had horrible , horrible timing telling my wife. But I just had decided I was cheating on her by having my private diaper plastic , pee play etc. And I tried to tell her.  We are still adjusting soo many yrs later. Now after she got through her cancer and mostly good. then my cancer showed it mean ugly years. We thought first hers and it was bad, then mine and it was bad. A few yrs passed after all of that, .  And we neither one had any hope of having sex. And we She had issues and then before the cancer's we were into that phase in a marriage the got used to each other and sex was getting boring . We still haven't had any sexual relations . I have just done me and she has done what she needs. 

Well I rambled , what I am trying to say we have our moments of wishing we were normal . And now afterwards many yrs I need diapers because of being old, so I don't flaunt any diapers stuff I cover my stuff up and I am thankful that she is forgiving of me lying for soo many years, we Love each other , but even now sometimes it is not enough . And we have both in bad moments have said if we could afford it we would separate . But there's a sometimes big part that we are like roommates . But with Health problems . You may just start to accept more of each other . I would set down the ground Rules for him, think about it and figure out the amount of what you can be ok with. Now with you having a kid, maybe in diapers . You will have to say he never shows his Diaper or AB stuff around the kids. I would have concerns that the schools and Police will get involved if your kids when they get older slip and say something , he can end up in jail or accusations that he is a bad influence or he did something . Say he changed his Diaper and a door open just a crack. the baby now will be a Toddler and just may see and say to a neighbor kid?? See my son from my first wife that passed away was a teenager then, and now an adult . He never seen anything of my diaper stuff to this day. I say with kids he needs to be really careful ..

If you want to talk ask me anything . If it's much more personal then MM me. I will let my wife know about you if you decide to MM. I do talk to her about  a few long time friends on here. Its like I will comment on a guy and she will say how's he doing etc.

I hope you can work it out. Any marriage that can be saved should be. But each have to give 100%. And it sounds like you have given 200%

[What diaper are you wearing now?]

I save my ATN for when I can enjoy the plastic back of it and not just a plastic pant. Well I have a couple packs that are maybe a year old, but kept in a cool dry closet .  I had a tape separate from the blue tab, but not a big deal, unless I wanted to re fasten it. But I was able to pull out the inside stuffing that I use for nite,,,,, and play in the left over ATN by itself , for my morning ....

[I'm THAT old]

17 hours ago, ValentinesStuff said:

I remember when I was the TV remote.

I was one of the TV remotes it depended on what kid was the one that didn't want to get punished . Back in those days we got it when dad took off the belt we knew it, and the pain started in our head beforehand . And also the schools Principal had a wooden paddle and he spanked us for what ever he decided we needed it for. I for one was a daydreamer , and when I floated off while I was supposed to be paying attention to the teacher and I couldn't tell her what she said?? I had to go to the principal and got another ass busting ...

[Any good bed wetting hypnosis tapes eta]

If you start wearing a diaper to bed, you may end up liking it. There are a lot of people on here that started off wearing out of need and ended up Loving it and were hooked. Because from your post you really have a bedwetting issue. I say give it a try.

[how to get state medical insurance to pay for diapers]

Yes I would think the state or ins will not give a crap if you pee the bed. If you can't control your pee and bowels out of the home you may have a slim chance to get some help.. But depending on the state you are in. Some state will pay for the cheap stuff,..

 

But I also agree with FretaBWet check in in new and let us know a little bit about you..