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I like in the San Francisco East Bay. We complain that too cold when it's under 65 (18 C) and it's too hot when it over 80 (26 C). But we get almost every day between March and October. November to February it gets cold (even below 60 for high!)
Today pushed it because the wind pick up about 5:30 so it was just a bit of cooler cooler than 65 we want. it's was also a little cloudy. It wasn't overcast, but more clouds than sky. It was decent weather, but below par compared to what we expect.
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6 hours ago, MinnesotaWriter said:
I'm 1 for 2 with stories being removed so far.
"The Girl Who Wanted to Wear Diapers" had been shadow banned, but it's all good now, so it seems at least that maybe not all diaper related content is being eliminated. But that story is also completely PG, and in the Wattpad version I've also censored out any bad language.
"Diapers Never Lie" got removed last week. I can't say if that was because of any ABDL content in it, it was a pretty dark story (even though in my opinion it didn't violate any of Wattpad's rules), so I think it's removal could have been unrelated to the diaper aspect of it.
They seem to be working their way backwards, starting with newest stories, so will see in the coming weeks/months if "All My Mother's Rules survives. It's hard to say, it feels very much like a lot of this is at the whim of whoever the specific reviewer is.I looked after you posted it, and sure enough Diapers Never Lie was not in my library. I don't understand the arbitrariness of the decision. Both portray abuse, and it's hard to say which character suffered the most.
However I've noticed that most of the terrible stories (which is vast majority of Wattpad content) is still there. I'll also not that AMMR never showed up when I did a search for diapers on Wattpad before this happened. I only could find it through your link, or putting in a direct search for the tittle.
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Mom clearly doesn't know the first rule about buying diapers. Don't go cheap! Trust me, cheap diapers don't work nearly as well as good diapers.
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1 hour ago, MinnesotaWriter said:
That's a good question about what her parent's reaction would be.
I have a story that I've started the shell on that will follow that plot. I'm not stealing your story, because it's been in my head for a long time. In my story, the parent assumes the teenager is doing it on purpose.
Maddy's parents seem like ideal parents. They are supportive, and not overly emotional. It appears they have high expectations for their children, but not through fear. As somebody who deals with a lot of parents, I would say Maddy's are very good.
My only criticism is that they are a little over-protective of Maddy. They are so afraid to let Maddy screw up that they are keeping her from growing up. She hasn't earned that based on her maturity, but trust me- some kids need to pushed out of the nest to grow up.
Case and point, the sleepover. It might make sense to forbid her from going on a sleepover if she was too young to understand the consequences of an accident at her friends house (or the consequences of staying up all night). IMO, unless a parent is uncomfortable with the arrangement (IE- other parents, history of sneaking out), they should let Maddy assume the risk of potential embarrassment. As long as she understands the risks, let Maddy go to sleepover. IMO- a 12-year-old is old enough to assume those risks.
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7 hours ago, A_Pale_Spirit said:
Happy that finally someone mentioned "protection."
I know this is just a story but even in real life, I never understand why parents would be so reluctant for such an obvious solution.
I've read statements from parents where they say, "Well obviously, we're not going to put him in a diaper, but the accidents are every day." In some cases, they would likely choose protection themselves if they were having the same level of problems. At some point, it might be the logical move.
This story begs the question, what would happen if Maddy's parents discovered these were intentional acts to get diapers?
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10 hours ago, ValentinesStuff said:
I never did understand tucking your shirt into your diaper.
He's obviously not an adult baby
The original owner had a bit of a hoarding problem. I would use them as I buy them. I can't imagine having that many diapers in storage.
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I would take some of those diapers off his hand
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13 hours ago, Little Sherri said:
I used to offer to help my mom by dashing off to other aisles to get this or that box of crackers or cereal, or paper towels, and I would always divert up the baby aisle.
I eventually scraped up the nerve to ride my bike up to the drugstore in our local strip mall, so that I could drop my saved-up allowance on a cardboard card of diaper pins, which I then used to turn towels and pillow cases into diapers. They were not very effective "protection" - I made plastic pants out of plastic bags but the fit was very ad hoc - however I wore them to bed a lot, and occasionally around the house under my clothes - I loved how they felt even if I couldn't use them very often. I even wore a homemade diaper to school a few times in the 6th grade, which I now realize was bonkers, but at the time was a very exciting prospect.
I was living in a boarding house when I was in High School, so I couldn't risk such things. I also was a little spoiled in college and never had my own money until I was out of college (22 years old). Goodnites came out at roughly the same time, and the day I got hired for my first paying job out of college was the day that I bought my first package of Goodnites from a store.
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44 minutes ago, BabySofia said:
Your flashback here could have been my own from my childhood. I remember looking through the ads for diapers, magazines for goodnite advertisements, and also the huggies and pampers sites as they became a thing. Enjoying this tale, looking forward to seeing more!
Why did you copy what I did? I used to open the coupons just to see the coupons for diapers. I also tried to make my own diapers. It didn't work.
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15 hours ago, willnotwill said:
Unable to defecate alone? What does she have, shitting parties?
As somebody who enjoys my alone time, I don't understand this. I don't mind other people, or even peeing around other people, but that's one of those things that I very much prefer to be by myself when I do it. I don't poop in my diaper, and I don't like pooping if somebody is in the stall next to me.
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On 4/14/2024 at 11:59 AM, ValentinesStuff said:
I was going to say not to this, then I thought about it and I really couldn't say either way. If it hasn't swapped over to more in diapers than not, it will soon.
I wore diapers for the first four years of my life, and a little bit into the fifth year. I went all the way to 24 before I ever wore another one, and then only sporadically for the next twenty years. That's a lot of years of wearing underwear in public.
For the last 10 years, I'd would say I've worn diapers in public far more than underwear (although I do wear boxers over my diaper).
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Emma has me fascinated as a character. She presents as an absolute miserable self-absorbed young teen, but she let Hannah join them, she tried to remind Hannah about her potty watch, and she gave Hannah her water bottle. She is way more complex than simple than a 12-year-old who is hanging out with a same-age cousin who is 'special'. Remember- she doesn't know what Maddy is thinking, and she has keep up appearances.
Hannah reminds me of student we had in the FLS class (highest level of mod/severe class. We had evacuation drill, and we were supposed to line up on football field based on our class. One of us didn't pay attention to where we supposed to line up on the football field, the other lost her class but recognized me a responsible adult. she found me, and never left my side (even if I didn't know WTF I was doing). I choose to stay where I was and let her class find us. She's has 2010 hardware, and trying operate Windows 11, doing the best she can.
PS- your genius of character development is letting Hannah school the two middle school soccer stars.
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1 hour ago, MegaChar said:
Interestingly, they seem to be the ones who do all the talking and when someone else has a different opinion those folks get shut up. Humans are freaking hard to understand.
You mean like you are doing all the talking when somebody has a different opinion than you.
FTR- we don't know if she is wearing diapers (I don't see it). We do know that Greta is very serious about climate change and started at a relatively young age. It's just my opinion, but I think getting all twisted and horrible over somebody who expressing concern for climate change is pretty stupid. The reality is, whether you're willing to admit it, is that we aren't doing enough to combat climate change. It's manmade, even if that fact upsets people.
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For somebody who people accuse of being an attention whore- she is does a great job getting their panties in twist. People making those type of disgusting comments should be embarrassed for yourself.
I don't think there is anything diaper-related to in the picture, and it's become an outlet for people to behave like immature kids who need a time-out.
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Emma is not a very nice person. That typical for kids in middle school, they are awful people. They are mean, self-centered, narcistic monsters (a bit like politicians).
When I was teaching middle school, I heard a theory that middle school is like another version of the terrible twos. They are ready to take on the world, but still think they are the center of the universe. FTR- by 10th grade- kids stop being mean- they are just stupid.
I think you've shared that you're writing Maddy as a bit on the spectrum. She doesn't appear to be neuro-typical, but after 23 years in biz- I'm not sure what neuro-typical means. It just some students less typical than others.
Based on how you've written her, I don't think she would have an IEP, but she is not like Sarah (AMR) either. She strikes me as a C+/B- student. FTR- that was me. I got an A in Geography (I'm a bit of savant) the 1st quarter, and my dad said "why don't do that all the time?" I made sure not to make that mistake again. I was OK C's, My dad wanted B's. I shot for a B, but aimed low. By my senior year- my aim was really good. I had that C+ dialed in.
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I don't see it.
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22 hours ago, Cute_Kitten said:
Lady is way over reacting IMO. As long as the ABDL event is kept seperate from the kid playtime I don't see a problem. And the article made it clear it was kept seperate. 🤷♀️
From the lady's viewpoint. I'm not shaming their kink, but something that happened when I wasn't there and know nothing about disgusts me. I'm almost certain children do far worse things with those ball than the adults will. Very few would put those balls in their mouth, but little kids might.
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On 3/30/2024 at 5:59 PM, ValentinesStuff said:
They were advertising playing on the front porch and in the yard, walking trails in the adjacent forest, access to a nearby beach, shopping, and trips to that local park as things to do. While inside might have been private, at lot of the activities were not.
In that case, I agree. If it is visible in public, then it is not private.
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14 hours ago, horrorfan said:
From what I saw poking around online, it looks like that spa was shut down or will be.
Keep your clothes on in public, dress normally in public, don't draw unsolicited attention (bad publicity is bad), and don't give people reasons to be wary of us. Acceptance is earned, not a right.
AFAIK, it was in private. It's a spa, which is private.
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I have a sense that Maddy wetting the bed after taking the pills will give it away that she is doing it on purpose. I'm not 100% certain, but I think those pills suppress the function of the kidney so that you can't produce as urine overnight. It's a powerful drug. I think Maddy's hopes of getting put in Pull-ups are looking bleak.
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The parents strike me as one of those who will do anything to avoid going to d-word. Sarah's mother would have put Maddy in diapers by now, but Maddy's parents aren't going for it.
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Maddy had an interesting realization about peeing her pants.
BTW- why haven't her parents contacted a doctor yet? I mean a sudden change is not normal.
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3 hours ago, ~Brian~ said:
I Second what @spark says! I am disabled, and through school, I had an IEP that basically laid out things that I was supposed to do, and it also laid out what the school was to do to help me succeed. They would always have us use "passes" to go places, and that also means when you use the bathroom. They would INSIST that the pass be returned by the person who used the pass last, and we used to get in trouble if we went without that stupid bathroom pass.
I also agree that students are usually on the run from about 5AM in the morning until maybe 10PM at night. Throughout the day, they have to get ready for school, and try to eat something, and then go through 7 HOURS or more of school, then do work or practice, then homework, and then it repeats. You basically are busy from early morning to late night, and that is a challenge in and of itself. Most students that attend school want to follow the rules, and they want to be able to do the things that their peers do, like their peers do it, but sometimes that is not possible: because of the limitations they face, and even with those limitations, I try to do what i CAN do, and NOT worry about what I CAN'T do: The problem I had in school was that I was WAY behind because of having to understand things that the same pace as my peers, and most times I was trying to make my mark on the wall, but some fool would ERASE the mark, and that made me have to redo and relearn everything at least twice. It is hard work to get through the school day, but even harder when you have to do things over and over, or when you just don't get it, and you lose your cool: I've done it myself, and I can tell you it is awful to have that happen, and have people laugh because you don't understand, or THEY don't understand why you don't understand. That's what makes school harder for those who have challenges: but, you learn ways to cope, and I am very fortunate to have friends that helped me, and I am grateful for that
As @sparksays, there is not enough time between classes to be able to even GET to the next class, let alone the time to be able to use the bathroom. I figure if a kid is not responsible enough to be able to move about the building and USE the facilities or be TRUSTED that he will be where he is supposed to be when he is IN the building, than he should have to deal with the consequences of those misdeeds. This should NOT take rights away from students to use the restrooms or any other place in the school. Appropriate sanctions can be fashioned so that you are NOT taking rights away - Everyone needs the bathroom. and as spark says, he will go to the restroom for a breather, and it does NOT matter whether you are Students, Staff, or Faculty: They all need the bathroom!
What they should not do is to control when a kid can use the bathroom. Schools that would do things like putting up locking gates, or anything placed there to stop the use of that bathroom are, in my mind, VIOLATING the Law! You cannot deny children (or adults) the right to the bathroom, and you cannot ignore when someone needs the bathroom when you are teaching: The ADA protects the disabled, and I am quite sure that in America, NO ONE can do this to a student. Also, being a former IEP student, I know that you basically can add/change/delete things to your IEP after a meeting with those on your team, and your parents and teachers.
I am not sure what other countries laws and rules and regulations say, but I would LOVE to take these rule making people, and MAKE THEM have to do a whole day without using the bathroom once. I'd go one better to have them use a wheelchair like I do, and live a month in it, and use the bathroom with aides and help, and/or use diapers during that month: IF these rule makers could NOT use the bathroom at times it may be needed, and they were inconvenienced because they had to use the bathroom and couldn't and used a diaper instead, they'd understand that you CANNOT deny that we have to use the bathroom. I taught that lesson to a couple friends when I had to be in a wheelchair, and they were saying how "cool it was to be able to ride in a chair, and all this....." I reminded them that I have friends that have to use chairs, and they need assistance in bathing/toileting/dressing,etc. When I said that they wore diapers, they QUICKLY change their tune, and they then understood that others have challenges too.
My Point: when you are disabled, and have mobility challenges, you have to do things with your classmate and friends: When you have to worry about a stupid PASS to return BEFORE you can use the bathroom, it adds an UNNECESSARY step to the process. It became a problem when I had to RUN to the bathroom many times WITHOUT the pass, and then would get PUNISHED for doing it, because I was expected to HOLD it, and that was a problem a few times: I wet myself a couple times in school BECAUSE of these insane rules, and the school was MAD, but I TOLD them that "When I SAY I have to GO, I MEAN I have to GO!" I had to get my case manager, my teachers and support staff to listen to me and my MOM who said EXACTLY what I said, and I actually had to have it WRITTEN into my IEP that I could go to the bathroom when I NEEDED to go, without fear of punishment, without the pass, and without question.
I already understood that I had a responsibility to myself, and I was NOT gonna deal with a bunch of foolish idiots that thought I was lying or trying to get away with something. With the help of the IEP Team, they "educated" my teachers that a pass is NOT always required, and that sometimes, rules like this can and should be modified or not enforced. Me wetting OR messing myself in school is and was embarrassing, and it takes time away from me being able to get stuff done, and so, I am glad that when I was RIGHT, I pushed it, so that I had what I need.
The idea here is NOT really to start issuing diapers to those who don't need them BUT for this ridiculous rule that makes bathroom usage and availability at the discretion and whim of the administration. I say that this is WRONG and is a violation of rights! Who the hell make rules like this?
Kids do what kids do: They will do things that are illegal or things that peers push them to do, they will do things that are good, they may do things that are wrong, but if they have an appropriate role model, they usually do OK. You also have to use your HEAD: If you know what is RIGHT and what is WRONG, you do your best to stay clear of those issues, and you always TRY to help others steer clear of them as well. I'm not saying that all kids are troublemakers, but the vast majority of them are good kids, do their best in school, and they follow the rules, and are role models for others to look up to. I had a few friends that I looked up to, and i still do that today - we all have challenges and I have had mine too, and I have helped many work through them, but I always knew that my friends always had my back
Brian
I have a few students who have bathroom privileges written into their IEP, and for the most part it not a problem. The good ones will usually tell me why they took a long time, and some of them just need a break.
We're not supposed to let more than one kid out at a time. My classes are so small that it shouldn't be a problem, but it does happen. I once had a girl ask me to use the bathroom, but I told her wait because one kid already out. The kid who was away got lost coming back to my class and was out for at 15 minutes (it's a big campus). In case you wondering, getting lost is a euphemism I use when a student goes galivanting around the campus. To be honest, that kid being out of the classroom was perfectly fine with me because I didn't have to deal with him for those 15 minutes. My inner clock told me to let the girl go to the bathroom, and she went, came back, and asked me if she could wait in my room for the first part of lunch because her mom was going to pick her up. I didn't ask what happened because it's none of my business, but whatever it was- I don't want it to happen on my watch.
It didn't happen in my class, but one of my SPED colleagues (SPED have the best stories) had a student away for 40 minutes. He came back with Chipotle and then got upset because he wasn't allowed to eat in class. FTR- I don't know how he made it to Chipotle, got his food, and made it back to class by the end of the period. If you could do that, why did he choose Chipotle?
Here is the thing: there are natural consequence for missing 1/2 of a class, and if you constantly do stuff like that and still do well in class, we're wasting their time. I get the idea that some kids don't care about the consequences, but if they don't care about the consequences, they don't care about school. I can't make them care about school. I can help them care, but not if the environment is so toxic that it looks like a prison. Sadly, some of those kids will get that eventually, but that doesn't mean we have to do it for everybody.
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14 hours ago, Little BabyDoll Christine said:
I get the "why". By age 8, you should be able to hold it for a full period if nothing is wrong. Also, kids can find a way to use such a break for making trouble and it is a good idea to learn to hold it. However there may be times when you just gotta go and most kids, at least when I was in grade school, did not abuse the practice but schools are now required to accept some pretty crazy disruptive kids. Also, maybe if parents did their job this would not be happening. Even in high school I had to VERY occasionally hit the head during a class. There are two sides to every story unless you are dealing with a self-absorbed rotter. Then too, back in '62, we did not have drug deals going down in the john, let alone in middle school. Smoking in the boys' room meant Windstons, Marlboro or Pall Mall; not blunts
Here is the problem with that attitude: there are a lot of kids in a high school. The high school I teach at has almost 3000 students, and kids don't have enough time to use the bathroom during passing period. Especially if there are a lot of students trying to use the bathroom at the same. Ok, some kids abuse the privilege, but I'll let you in on a little secret. I frequently head to bathroom when we have a professional development, and it's not always that I need to use the bathroom. I do it because I need to get up and stretch, and need a short break from the boring stupid stuff that they are trying to teach me. I'm an adult and professional learner, so I shouldn't expect my students to do better me.
FTR, students are no worse today than they were when I was in high school. They less self-reliant, which is because we don't foster independence in our students anymore, but kids did bad stuff in the bathrooms when I was kid and they still do.
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The Girl Who Wanted to Wear Diapers (Ch. 26 - 4/30/24)
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I wish my 12/13 year self had as much guts as Maddy. It took me until I was nearly 20 before I peed my pants, and I still don't like to pee my pants. The pee running down my legs. I don't know what my parents would have done had I suddenly started to wet the bed and have during the day at 12 years. I know my mom kept me diapers longer than normal for the early 70's (potty trained about 4 years old), but after 8 years of no toileting issues- I think she would act similarly to Maddy's parents.
She is so over analyzing stuff, and kind of missing the big picture. She wants her parents to think she has an issue controlling her bladder, but only having accidents in convenient places will probably give it away.
PS- Maddy needs some advice when it comes to purposely wetting yourself. Waiting until your bladder is bursting is a rookie mistake. It is far better to pee every 20 minutes until it becomes second nature.