I started wearing diapers about 9 years ago. I got a disease called intercystal cystitis. It causes painful inflammation and spasms in the bladder. It was a struggle to find Tue right diaper in the beginning. Because of the frequent voiding of my bladder, I expelled a lot of urine! Not knowing about better diapers o the internet, I started using Depends. They are terrible. I was changing diapers every 1 or 2 hours, and they leaked. Unhappy, I turned to the internet. I found some great diapers out there. I don't consider myself a diaper lover, but I have grown to like them. I think they are very cute and I don't mind seeing other people in diapers. I don't mind the printed diapers, but my wife has a fear that I might become an AB, so I tend to stay away from them. Of all the diapers I have tried, my favorite is the Abena X-plus. I also use the dry care max. Absorbancy. I would really like to find something between those two. The Abenas need a softer plastic covering, stretcher leg gatherings, and more SAPs. The Dry Cares are just too thick and bulky. I have tried the wellness and the Secure/Bambino, but I am in between their medium and large on sizing. Is there anything that fits those needs? I look forward to hearing from you. Thanks.