Hello,
I found this board and thought I would join even though I am not really into AB/DL. I need to wear diapers for medical reasons (interstitial cystitis, crohn’s disease, and a bunch of other auto-immune diseases… possibly SLE but getting a diagnosis for complicated systemic issues takes forever). I started wearing diapers when I was in grade school to manage wetting incontinence caused by the IC, but with crohn’s I also have occasional bowel accidents too. So I guess I am getting my money’s worth in using them
My intestinal cystitis (IC) causes my bladder to spasm (much like crohn’s disease causes bowel spasms) and results in a full void. I have tried a number of medications which either worked for a couple of years and are ineffective now, or never worked at all. I have also tried tons of diets, timed voiding, stress reduction techniques, all too little or no change. So I was frustrated for a while (a still am a bit). But I found taking to people who have similar issues, or at least don’t think I am a freak for wearing diapers, helps.
When I first found out about AB/DL I was in the 7th grade (and in diapers at the time). I was very upset at first. I felt like the way I had to treat my incontinence had been perverted. Imaging if you just found out there was a fetish group into leg braces (oh, and by the way there is… in case you were wondering) and you had to wear a brace for medical reasons. Might make you upset too when you first find out. But after some time I found that it was not all sexual (and if so, it really stopped bothering me) and that a lot of people I met online were very supportive and even envious of my problem. It is somewhat novel having a horribly embarrassing issue that someone else whishes to have (kind a weird too). I have tried to explain that having accidence when you can’t control when and where is horrible, but I have yet to convince any AB/DLs I spoken with of how much a pain to deal with it is.
Aside from being people who I can talk too about diapers and medical issues (a lot of people that are incontinent don’t want to talk about it at all), I found the AB/DL community has been really helpful in recommending and creating demand for high quality and heavy capacity diapers. Because I have complete voids (instead of slow or partial leaking like most people with incontinence), the usual thin medical diapers leak. Since I am a guy I need a diaper that has a high rise in the front padding (where most diapers are made for girls/ women and the rise does not need to be that high anatomically speaking). So through trial and error and a number of recommendations I found a great set of day time and nighttime diapers and combinations of booster pads that prevent leaks (even when I am on predisone – water retention issues that umm… are not so retentive at night) and do not dissolve after wearing them for a couple of hours (hate store bought diapers!).
So I guess this a thank you to the community... for being full awesome!