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I'm in the Peoria area... a small diaper party at some time sounds like a fun idea. Daddy Rick in Illinois

While I'm in central IL... just not looking for a baby boy. sorry. I do hope you find someone (or have found someone). Daddy Rick in Illinois

While not in Chicago, I live a few hours away (Peoria area), and wouldn't mind a get together at some point. I might have to plan long term to get there, but we'll see what happens. Daddy Rick in Illinois

My two cents as to why women aren't quick to talk to guys in our community... As best as I can tell, people who are into diapers for pleasure -- which is what this largely is about -- fall into four categories which are not mutually exclusive: fetishists, escapists, dependants, and submissives. Within this context, fetishist are those for whom diapers, either just the clothing (a Diaper Lover) or the appearance and act of being baby like, are a sexual turn on. Escapists are those for whom wearing a diaper can be a catharsis, a way of letting off steam and/or relaxing. Dependants are those who are forced, usually do to medical reasons, to rely on their diapers, yet they have come to enjoy them for whatever reason, be it comfort, feel, whatever. Submissives are those that wear as a sign of thier lace in a relationship. This last group is about as rare as they get. I know, I've looked. It has been my experience that most girls that publically admit, be it through Myspace, Yahoo, Daily Diapers, etc., fall largely into the escapist camp. Women are not as biologically driven to have sex as men. It's a fact. Women also have to invest more in the reprecusions of sex, e.g. pregnancy. Woman thereby have different priorities then men: emotional well being, safety, security. The gathering of wealth is also a biological response that is inherant to all females of most every mammalian and aviary species. I digress. The point is that a woman's needs are not inherantly driven by the need to guarentee the continuation of one's on gene pool. For most women who are escapist, the escape is a fantasy, and they don't want anything to break that fantasy of being a baby girl. When someone else is being a baby, it makes them feel less special, thereby taking away the importantance of thier taking that role, of the security and freedom they find in it. Our fetish can be a very dangerous combination: desire combined with (pretend) innocence. It's no wonder a lot of people are frightened of it. As loath as I am to admit it, the line between pedeophilia and infantilism is thin to most of mainstream society. Our sexual attraction is toward __other adults__ who only __act and/or dress__ like children/infants, compared to pedeophilia, which is toward children specifically. Women, my apologies for how 1940s this next sentance will be. Being that I am not woman, I would guess that, as human females have tended for children as long as their's been a recorded history, a woman who finds sexual pleasure in acting like a baby would not be interested in a male who also is stimulated by a man who likewise enjoys being a baby because of the fear of having the maternal role forced into her deviant sexual fantasy. Note: deviant isn't bad, just abnormal by definition. I also think that it is plausable to believe that for most fetishists, there are latent self-worth issues involving thier parents or childhood, and this is a way to tie self-worth, via pleasure, in with the earlier mentioned catharsis of escapism. This being said, there is also the small group of women who are "Mommies" and find sexual pleasure that combines with thier maternal side. I'm guessing mostly that they are the opposite of those women who enjoy being babied, but not allways. I can count on one hand how many women I know who like being mommy and baby girl, and all of them are happily married. For those who are dependant, the simple fact that a person wears for pleasure when they _must_ wear can be a turn off. Most people who wear diapers are not, nor ever will be, infantilists, much less diaper lovers. In these cases, I'd be surprised if mentioning your fetish is thier disability doesn't get you ignored. Last but not least are submissives. I can tell you from experience, that if Your sub likes being treated like a baby because it puts You in control, nothing shatters that like wearing diapers Yourself. The point, to them, is that diapers are a way for You to control an aspect of thier lives. Now, there are varying degrees and combinations of all of these. To answer your question, as to why women who wear don't like guys who do for sexual reasons is probably for the same reason most straight "baby boys" want a mommy: they want to babied, not to baby others. Women aren't as sexually driven by men. Rick from Peoria, IL

I'm actually worried about getting a sleep study done, as I have been leaking at night consistantly. I know I need to, though. My problem is two fold. First, when I was around 8-9, I was still having wetting problems. For what reason only my mother and the doctors know, they shortened the tube running to my bladder. Second, when I wake due to my sleep apnea (and it's like clock work, usually every two hours), I need to pee URGENTLY or have allready started leaking. A breather has NOT helped. The only reason I don't think this is prostate problem (I suppose I should get it checked, too) is I only need to pee maybe twice a day, three if I've been drinking heavy, and don't have any problems leaking during the day. Also, I don't have insurance... not sure if I qualify for government medicaid or whatever it is. Rick in Illinois

Over the last few years, due largely to what I think is sleep apnea, I wake up having to pee. Over the last year, I've found myself leaking, or wake up leaking. I am DL, but I'm also a Daddy, so it's kinda rough looking for a baby who understands (which, I'll never understand the double standard) that I'm starting to need them. It would be nice to find a diaper that could take a laying down waking wetting without leaking, so I could just go back to sleep.

Nah, but I WAS looking at it from a more business side of things. Note the other AB related businesses I'd LIKE to start. Gotta give Bill credit where it's due. The man has a good, successful business, and, even if he WAS willing to sell it, I'd at least try to hire him on to run it and KEEP it successful. That being said, it IS just a pipe dream. We'd all be better off with Bytemine in Bill's hands and me with a lifetime membership instead. Of course, I'd be happy if I get enough cash from my upcoming birthday (apparently, I have a few relatives who think a grandson/grandnephew who visits regularly are great things) to pay for gas and a... well... membership for both Bytemine (ok, enough free press) and iluvdiapers (I think that's the site that helps keep this one, for whom we are al much appreciative of and I'm done brownnosing now) and gas for the rest of the semester. We'll see... Daddy Rick in Illinois

First about the odds: 1 in C(50,6)... Not substantially better then 50^6. but anyway.. As to what I'd spend it on, and I know some of us act like children, I'm presuming we're all adult enough here to not judge other's fetishes. Set up a trust fund for one of the local churches (tithe 10%... it's not just good business sense, it's the right thing to do) to help with feeding the poor. Pay off the miniscule dept I own and the tiny bit my father, mom, and step-dad have (we're talkin lower five digits). Pay back my grandfather every cent I owe him with interest. I'd buy my grampa a house in montana by a lake and pay the taxes ahead of time. I'd by a place in Texas by a lake and do the smae for my dad. Mom and step-dad can live in IL. Move back to the Dallas area. Set up a gaming store, just to have something to do when I feal like working (it DOES happen). Set up an arcade next door (same reason, and it's cool to share your toys). Donate enough money to Illinois Central College to set up wi-fi in EVERY classroom. Buy a ton of Hasbro and WWE stock. After all, he who owns the most and coolest toys... Buy a house for me somewhere in the Dallas Texas area... close enough to a highway to get around, far enough to not be bothered by my neighbors. Not a HUGE house, either... maybe a three bedroom with an indoor hot tub, a huge living room and a fireplace. Buy the property to both sides and build small house for my cousin Justin to move into next door and my friend Jose to move in on the other side with his wife and kids (the guys both need to get away from it all) Hire a cleaning staff to come in once a week. Set up a small press company for young adult poets and gamers. Enter in the world series of poker. Buy three copies each of every White Wolf and Wizard of the Coast book in circulation. Send one set to my cousin Justin. A music studio somewhere in Plano, TX. Ok... NOW for the odd stuff Ponder trying to buy DPF and change my mind (I think I could do better). Set up a fetish clothing store in NYC and Chicago with thier own AB/DL section. Hire my friend Danielle to work there. Set up a fund for research into gender disphoria. Set up one of the rooms as a adult nursery. Would save back some money for clothing as I don't HAVE a baby girl yet. Once I did, drop 40k in clothing (costumes, diapers, basic clothing, etc) Go to Vegas. Set up a once a month contest for a year where a woman has a chance of getting breast implants, so long as she also signs an agreement where I can't be held at fault and her cup size, when done, must EXCEED DD. Buy a tour bus. Set up the inside as a gothic night club. Travel across the country, then to Australia, then England, Ireland, and Austria. Hit every Cam game I can in a year (don't know, don't sweat it). Take a cruise with my dad to Hawaii (to feed the dolphins) and then to Archorage (to feed a polar bear). Hold a big AB New Years party. Hire a personal trainer... I need to drop about a hundred pounds or so. Buy my own AM Radio station. Start up a talk radio show. See if I can get into syndication. If the jackpot was big enough, buy White Wolf Publishing via hostile takeover. Purchase clothing manufacturing company. Hire designer to make affordable, adult sized, baby clothing. Purchase Bytemine (come on, don't tell me you've never thought about it) Set up a trust fund for my neice for college, large enough that she can go to harvard, yale, AND UCLA if she wants to. As far as cars... meh... I want a '79 mustang, a 2006 Scion (decked out by West Coast Customs for the video game freak that I am), and two custom hogs from Orange County Chopper, one for me and one for my pa. Oh yeah, and last, but not least, get pro-wrestling lessons. Just cause it's sweet. Daddy Rick in Illinois