DLenforcer

I agree with BOTH statements! And I also agree with what Rob9 said. Communication is the cornerston to any successful relationship. You might be pleasantly surprised how much of a good experience you yourself can walk away with if you discuss things that you both want from the situation/scenario/scene. If they are just too shy to open up, then throw out a suggestion or two to let them know you're comfortable with it. Usually, most DLs have some level of AB to them, whether its small like a pacifier or more than that; but there is usually some interest in the AB world. My best suggestion, if you aren't already doing this: hands-on cuddling. This is a very tactile and multi-sensory fetish/lifestyle. There's a good chance that if he's ok with being in diapers around you and you love him, then some hands-on cuddling while you watch a movie that you both enjoy could really bring you two together. ​ best wishes and good luck!

I have never felt more glad to live so close to the ABU warehouse. I seriously don't know how I got so damn lucky! And not trying to rub it in too much: The entire warehouse smells like their baby scent ! It has to be what walking into heaven fells like. I should also say about their service: Nice people. I have met most have the staff and every one of em where/are very nice and helpful. I was trying to pick up an order one day, and after being told that their warehouse was open until 4pm I went down around 2pm trying to pick up my order only to find a closed warehouse (this is why they have you call and and set up an "appointment"). I literally drove by them entering the business complex as they where driving out (didn't know it at the time). After a quick call to the number on the door, one of the business owners came down from their house to get me my order! Not a single problem and she was VERY NICE about it! Customer service can be different when you have a real person standing in front of you versus over the internet or text, but the fact that one of the owners came back to full a customer order gets a 5/5 star rating in my book. It's an honest family business, doing their best to serve a community they are a part of!

That's a very tough question, and as a warning, you might not like the answer. However, your sition and my situation are VERY close to the same especially because of our age. This is going to be a bit long-winded, But here's what happened to me: I met a girl in high school and feel madly in love with her (high school love, surprise surprise). However, instead of lasting 5 weeks our relationship lasted 5 years. Well into college life. She had known about my love for diapers since about year 2 of dating, possibly even sooner than that. And from day one she told me she was fine with it. She didn't have to warm up or put any restrictions on it. So the next few years, our relationship continued like most others in all aspects. The problem was that she wasn't 100% honest with me about her comfort level with diapers. So as the relationship progressed, and after I was feelin more and more comfortable with diapers and in love with being in them and around her, I wanted to explore the AB side of things more. It started out with small things like pacifiers and bottles. But after one night, we woke up and she didn't know I had been sucking on a pacifier he night before so when she had found it on the bed (it had fallen out in my sleep) she broke down into tears. When she finally told me what was wrong, I didn't know what to do. For a solid week, we talked about it and the possibilities of our relationship continuing. I came to the decision to have the quickest purge in my life to try and save the relationship. It worked... For about a day. When I finally came to my senses and realized what I did the night before, I broke down crying telling her that I didn't think I could give them up. Eventually we came to a compromise about when and where I could wear them, but I found myself more distant from her. Fast forward a year later, after a pleading letter I sent to hear about wanting to wear and feeling like I was hiding it from her lead to a "mutual" breakup. Here's where all of previous chain of events lead to: we are still friends to this very day. I've never stopped caring for her (i can't speak for her, but I really don't think she's stopping caring for me either). I couldn't date for over a year because it was too damn hard. Some nights were so damn hard, I just wanted to quite. There were only a couple of nights like that, but I thank god that I have family that cares for me. That relationship ended three years ago, and here is the conclusion I came to after two solid years of honest-to-god thought: diapers make me happy; they are a part of me that I can not get rid of, wish away, forget about, or put into deep hiding. If diapers are not something that she wants in her life, i respect that and won't get angry about her lieing to me. But it took me two years to come to those conclusions. After I did, I was a MUCH happier person in life and then I found someone who actually didn't mind being a mommy. That relationship ended for other reasons, but it let me know that there are in fact other people out there that I can love and who can love me for my ABDL side. Now after that long-winded story, here is my advice from my experience: you can give all of your love to someone, but in the end, you HAVE to make sure you know what YOU want. When YOU know, you'll know the answer of whether or not to approach her about your AB desires. Just keep in mind, it takes TWO (at least in a monogamous relationship) to make a relationship fully work. If something isn't working for one person, communication is the only way to find an answer for the problem. Just be preppared that if she doesn't see AB in the relationship and you do, will you be happy settling for no AB play? I agree with turtlepins in that if you are willing to give as much as take, you both can find satisfaction. But she HAS to be willing to do the same!

Since this is a week late, youve probably already done it. But, If it's ballet you really want to do, then go for it! However, if it's dancing in general that you want to do, there are just as many opportunities there. I did projections design for a dance piece and there where just as many guys as there where women. In fact, the piece as a whole wouldn't have made sense without the men there. It takes a LOT of discipline though!

I am not, nor have I been. But I'd love to see any cool photos of your area if you have em! I'm not very well traveled out of the States, so I love learning about different areas around the world.

Browsing the Cheezburger today and enjoyed this little comic: http://cheezburger.com/6563165184 If only

Did auto retail for 5 years while going to school, then I got into theatre and love it! I still love and want to do film though

I've come out to more people than I probably should. A good friend of mine from high school was the first find out. She's an "out there" kind I an artist anyway so I figured she'd be understanding. Then I told my fgirlfriend at the time and she was very open and understanding about it (at least for the first few years anyway). Then when that girlfriend and I broke up over diapers, there where a select few of my friends that I told why. Since then, the number of people that know has snowballed to about 9. All (except for girlfriend #1) had no problem with it. No one has her brought it up with me again, but I have a feeling that instead of making things awkward by asking me questions, asking the Internet questions suffice

My longest stint was three solid months with maybe a 1 day break when I went home from college. I'd have to say that it was quite the experience. I know now that I would love to go completely 24/7 somewhere down the line but the simple fact for me stopping was that it was A LOT of maintenance and it's not the right time in my life. Though, I now have a lot more respect and sympathy for those who have no choice but to wear 24/7 and how limited their day to day activities are. As far as effects on me, my urges came very frequent and the amount of how much I would go shrank drastically in just three months. However, I never got to the point of feeling "out of control". But it is different from person to person so I might have been having to do more mental untraining. The one thing I would have loved to happen but never did (because of time I day I still consistently wear) was night time wetting. I knew it would take several solid months of retraining, but I never felt one iota of change in this area. I always just woke up with a sore, full bladder. My advice: If you really wan to do 24/7, just wearing a diaper will not be enough. The moment you try to hold ANY urine in, you are potty-training yourself and going backwards for your progress. As with almost everything in life, it's 90% mental and 10% physical. Though in this case, it might be 60% mental, 10% physical, and 30% time and money. Unless you make a solid change over to wear cloth diapers in most parts of your day (and move into a situation where this isn't a situation) then you're gonna have a very hard time with the last part. Good luck, and I hope you come to the right decision for yourself! ~Dlenforcer

A $4,200 HD video camera. Nicest camera I have had the luxury of using/owning (though I did get to work with a crew that was using a RED ONE).

I'm sure there is a live web-cam system you would be able to set up as a Pay Per View system. Depending on the cost, I would consider paying a fee to remotely view the seminar. I've never done such thing, so I'm sorry I can't be more helpfull here, but just a thought for something to look into -Dlenforcer

That's pretty creative. Whenever, I would change at work, I would pick a time, just like Bettypooh at lunch, and change then by smuggling a new diaper underneath my uniform. Changing at the jobsite can be tricky (depending on the job). On the subject of them knowing, the key things to remember are these: 1) You're in a professional setting, not high school. So most people will typically keep to themselves about this knowledge. 2) Beyond having a cold, flu, or somthing painfully obvious, knowing anything "medical" related about others puts such a HUGE level resposibility, that most people wouldn't touch the issue with a 40ft pole (not in every case, but in this era where people are sued for discrimintion for practically anything, people would just rather "not know" than bring it up). If you dont mind me asking, what is your profession? My guess is business since you thought of using briefcases and messenger bags. Another reason why I ask is because the type of luggage you carry around with is relevant to your profession. I wouldn't carry a briefcase into a bathroom if I worked as a cashier for a grocery store

I agree with JBonn. ATNs are a good alternative to your list. If I don't go through XPmedica, I sometimes go through www.dmponline.com. DMP always has free shipping on all orders over $25 and they have a decent selection. Hope this wasn't too late to help Enforcer