I use a small garbage can. It is a lot less expensive than those "adult diaper pails".
If you use cloth diapers, use a solution of water and Ivory Snow detergent. If the urine smell is strong, and some white vinegar.
I wore the Salk pants back in the 70s. They were hot but held up well.
I used towels for diapers back then. It was hard to find adult stuff.
The disposable diapers, in the 70s, were bad news. It was leak city.
I have been there and done that. I do sleepwet.
They see diapers all the time. In fact, there were multiple stacks of diapers on the supply table in my room. I wore cloth diapers to my sleep study.
I wound up getting a CPAP and it was one of the best things that I ever did for myself.
There are probably many people that wish they could wear baby diapers.
I would also speculate that many people say that they wear baby diapers but in reality they don't.
I have to admit that I would like to be smaller but not small enough to wear real infant attire.
I have my diapers made to fit me.
I have used cloth most of my life. The adult disposables in the 70s were a joke.
I remember wearing Salk brand pants. They were really hot and uncomfortable.
Been there and done that. If you want to cover up the diaper, don't wear boxers. The prep nurse said they see diapers all the time so dont worry about it.
I went to the hospital for knee surgery. I wore boxer shorts over a disposable diaper. The prep nurse told me that i would have to remove my boxers. I then told here that I was diapered. The reaction was "no problem, we see it all the time".
They wheeled me into the OR with a yellow tee shirt and a pruple diaper.
If you find a woman that really loves you, the wetting wont matter. My first wife tried to make an issue of my wetting in divorce court and the judge told her to be quiet.