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however if you have an abkingdom account there is a diaper photos section they have a few allbums called "real girls in diapers" the "real" girls name does not mean anything about the other ones not being real it's just those ones have photos which are not ab/dl related. unforruantely most of them are of women wearing the pullup kind of diaper, which sucks. It's annoyingt how people who are not abdl when they have those diaper nights they buy the cheapest diaper I have heard stories of people wearing and wetting them for fun for an evening at a party who are not abdl but they buy the cheapest ones and they leak if i was invited to a party by a group of my friends who don't know about my abdl side, i'd make up some story that my neigbour works at a medical supply store and ships them out of his house or something like that.. then i'd go and get good ones lol.

i do a lot of goggle searching and unfortunately most of those posts are from lonely ab/dl's.. i was curious myself about how often diapers are talked about online and did a lot of google searching and there were some legitimate posts but yahoo is full of fake posts probably mostly all from one person if you look at some of the diaper posts on yahoo, you will see a variety of similar questions asked by the same user but each claiming to be different people and in different scenarios. I really don't think there is a diaper fad.. the ones that wear diapers now are not part of any fad. I really wish people would stop making those posts online because they really make us look bad.

well i think he meant the 50 dollar price as just a ballpark figure, other prices can be worked out, until he makes the business plan he will not know how much of a cost is actually needed This really could work actually, it would consist of all ab/dl supplier sites (diapers, clothing, accessories) integrated into one. if I manufactured adult baby clothing and I knew that by having an agreement with his business, that he would get me so many extra customers per month, I would sign with him and cut a deal.. it would be up to him to decide how much of that discount to keep for running his business and how much to give to his customers. I think the 50 dollar price-tag was really just meant as an example. it was really not the main point of his site.. so people attacking that number don't worry about that. that number is highly likely to go down,during his market research he will see what price it has to be for his business to work and still get a lot of customers. 50 dollars a year is not that much at all,, that's 4 bucks a month.. don't be so cheap you guys.you will definitely get the benefit back 4 dollars a month is far from being manipulative as one person said.

That is a good idea! If done right, this can be very profitable for you!. I don't know how the ABDL sites work but if I owned one and you were going to offer a discount, i'd either want you to pay for the discount or.. if you can get me x amount of subscribers per month I would allow an amount of discount for each x amount of new subscribers (and so much for renewal)..(and i'd give you a certain amount of money for every subscriber that i received from them getting to my site from your site) I don't know if you could pay for the discount with such a low yearly fee (which you should keep low) but you should definitely arrange something with the pay-sites, that would be a really great model. I am a business student, I have excelled really well in all areas of business in my studies, I am currently working to complete my masters in business. (MBA) if you want to talk about this in PM, feel free to message me.

congrats on coming out! it was never a big deal for me, everyone i came out bisexual to never made a big deal out of it, but I never made friends with people who I knew were close-midned/ignorant, they don't interest me.. the more you see others accept you, the easier time you will have accepting yourself

I enjoy the exposure but i am subtle about it, I don't over do it - I don't make it obvious but I don't hide it either. but I do like the idea of someone knowing i wear diapers

That's good to know!!!! :-) that announcement just made my day - I have yet to try Bambino and I am happy to hear that B4NS will be getting more now, it's about time!

I picked this up the other night, I love this stuff - although, when I first got home I was so excited I sprayed way too much and it was hard to breathe lol - overall, I love to have it though. even though I am "male" I think I will use this as a scent for fun, and see what happens. thanks so much to the original OP for sharing this information!

This is exactly how I am! I have to pee so much (maybe I drink a lot of water) but I pee in small amounts so when I am diapered I never have to worry about flooding. I find I have to pee more often when I am diapered, but when I am diapered I think I trained myself to go involuntarily, I don't even have to think about it, it just goes. I think I may have trained myself to go like that - it's fantastic When I am not diapered I still have to pee often and I cannot hold it for very long so diapers are a major convenience for me. I go through phases where I will wear diapers all day every day for a period of a few months then I will stop and only wear when I am going to be away from the toilet for a while (exams, long drives/bus trips, movies, concerts)

you really think wearing/wetting a diaper in public is that daring? you wouldn't be the first one to wet a diaper in public, but it does take someone time to have the confidence to wear diapers in public. (even if they are covered up and hidden well) I am a pretty crazy guy (in a good way) I have worn a big green dress in public with a diaper underneath The dress I wore looked like this: The public does care though, people look make comments but my friends are all open-minded people who just like to have fun.. so we just laugh it off. Even if I did put work into passing as a female, it's not a dress most people wear in public so it would still attract attention - There is not much that I'd be afraid to do, but I don't think I'd ever wear a diaper out in the open in public (unless it was a public change room at a gym) - I wouldn't wear a diaper out in the open at a costume party either because I know I would wet it - plus my friends know about my diaper thing so they'd probably just wouldn't want me to wear it out in the open knowing that I would wet it and it'd show on the front of the diaper I love my dresses!

Actually, technology has evolved a lot since the 1950s They don't take up a lot of space at all http://en.wikipedia....wiki/Chatterbot an interesting article from Scientific American Mind about a man who was conned by a bot http://drrobertepste...Oct-Nov2007.pdf here is a online i guess additciton therapist. have not really tested it out yet, but it's the same idea. and it does not take up a lot of space at all lol http://nlp-addiction.com/eliza/

yeah haha, these are bots - they are fun to play around with and try and figure out it's code though. I remember when I used to get these on MSN, some random address would add me and it'd be like some girl who would start off talking then tell me to go to some web page to watch her webcam. I at first thought it was a friend messing with me, so I would say some really psychotic stuff. It is interesting though how well they are able to program these bots that some of them seem pretty real. I think it's pretty cool that there are mommy bots out there, if only they weren't trying to get you to buy something.

I do wet them but I have heard of people who do not wet or mess them, some people just wear them. Perhaps it will take you time to get used to the idea of wetting them, have you tried wetting them?

don't people who don't normally wear diapers.. know how what real diapers are? every pic i see, people always seem to buy the cheap-pull-up kind. they should buy the real re-fast enable briefs.. those are real diapers lol if they did, they may like them, and realize how good they are.

I used to be afraid of telling people but now i am being more open about it, and only had one negative reaction, (was positive at first, but later this "friend" ended up getting angry at me for something else un-related, and then used this to attempt to insult me which didn't even insult me) I have told several people and always say "that's cool" or 'interesting" I think how you say it, will affect how they will react to it. I will usually start the topic by talking about how normal is over-rated and most people have something unique about them once you get to know them.. Most of my firend's are open-minded individuals, I would not be friend's with anyone who is close-minded.. I sometimes try to, and try to get them to be more accepting, but eventually we clash. But when I am going to express me being an A/B I first tell them, that they may think it's weird It's never something I would tell someone as soon as I meet them, but as they get to know me, I will be more comfortable and telling them. I will usually talk about how I think children, have a lot more freedom than we do, because they not afraid to be different. I am always honest about it and I tell them how I still have stuffed animals and how they help me relax and how I find sippy cups to be fun. I talk about how I find certain items that we as humans use for comfort, create an imprint and that stays with us.. Some items of comfort change and some stay the same. I have a long history of drug and alcohol abuse (I am doing better now) I talk about how stuffed animals give me comfort and that sippy cups help relax me, it reminds me of a time when things were more peaceful (even though, my childhood was not that peaceful) I will mention that i have ab/dl tendancies and I ask if they know what AB/DL is, and if they don't i explain it. Depending on how they react, i will decide if i should keep talking about it or stop talking about it for now and bring it up later.. but I always get postiive reaction so then i express my desire to wear diapers, use pacifiers, which make me relaxed and give me a sense of well-being Most people who I have told have said that it was cute, and all have said that it was interesting and that it wasn't that weird at all (before i tell them anything, i say that what im going to tell them, they might find weird) My friends would much rather I do this, than do drugs - I feel so good expressing this to my friends, it makes me feel very accepted and makes me realize even more that there is nothing odd about an adult wanting to sleep with a stuffed animal or wanting to use a sippy cup In general everyone sees me as a unique person, so telling them about this, is just a tiny part of what makes me unique. If you want to tell someone, tell them about how it makes you happy and how AB stuff makes you relaxed.. If they are goign to insult you and say you are a sicko, and you did express it in a very understanding way, then they were never your friends.. your friends should want you to be happy and accept you for who you are - being an AB does not change who you are, they would never have known if you didn't tell them, so a true friend should never abandon you if you tell them. They all understand and most of them are not even suprised when I tell them, because i often drop hints about it.. I tell people how I like to stay connected with my inner child, how I miss being a child and the freedoms that go along with it. Since AB/DL is not usually sexual for me, I tell them it is for some people but it usually is not for me and that it has nothing to do with real children. I also tell them, that if they have any questions, to not be shy to ask.

@Horndog, that's very interesting. I remmeber as a child asking a lot of questions and trying to learn as much as I could - I still do that, except with easy access to information with the internet being readily available, i can research things much easier. @diaperred jackson, that's a really good point, it takes certain characteristics to want to explore certain areas of work, when you are a small child before the "ego" and "identity" is created, the child doesn't have the software (which gives us our ego) it's just the basic behaviour that the ego and identity evovles from. (I'm having a hard time explaining what I mean.. but i think you get what I mean) but it's like a child that takes things apart and puts them together will most likely be an egineer, a child that loves to sing or dance or play with clothes might seek a job where self-expression is a core part of it; a child that plays with a lot of dolls, action figures etc and makes them act out scenes and creates stories for them might be more likely to enjoy writing as he/she is older. @lovelylitte, I really love how a child can be so fascinated by things such as a worm, i remember that as a child and just staring at it and being interested in it.. I was also interested in ants and how they work as a group and all work together.. I still have strong interests in sociology and anthropology - I agree we should take much more time to appreciate the beauty of this world, there is so much beauty and intricacy in everything. I am very interested in anthropology and psychology, however, currently i am studying to be an accountant (but i do question if that is the right career path for me at times) as a kid I did dress up in a lot of costumes, had some play dress-clothes (shirt and tie, jacket) and walked around with a briefcase fully of play money lol. I also experimented with dressing in dresses and ballerina outfits since I was 3 or 4 I really try to live my life as the life of a child, as we get older we develop ego and identity and I do believe that these things are limiting behaviors, they are filters for our core-self. Many adults will limit themselves in order to protect one's own identity (I believe that our "identity" as in what we think our identity is false and is a learned behavior).. for instance, one adult who identities oneself as an accountant, will adopt and act the behaviors as an accountant; a football player will adopt the behaviors as what a football player is expected to act like.. I think we should do away with all archetypes and realize what they are, which is filters and pre-designed behavior settings (it's pre-programmed software) if we can live life through the eyes/mind of a child (not the archetype of a child) but re-learning the world of a child, living without archetypes, focus on realizing that our identity and behavior are what limits our beliefs, behaviors and ability to evolve. And just free our selves from that self-made prison.. we will be much happier - some might oppose us doing that, and put you down, but people who oppose people who go against the norm, are just simply jealous they don't have the guts to do so. They are sad because they spent a lot of time following and living up to archetypes and trying to protect their mythological identity.

We are lucky Canada has it at 3% but with the 7.5% is that per item or is that combined? In Canada it's combined - but in the US without govt. healthcare your medical expenses shouldn't your expenses be higher? It doesn't seem like it should be that hard to reach the 7.5% of income threshold in the US (considering how low income a lot of people are making)

well i am going to school for accounting, so the more I learn the better I am not entirely sure on that, what i am trying to figure out is what documentation is required to prove that you are incontinent. I am not even sure if a prescription is required, if a prescription is required, the only thing that would prevent you from claiming bambino diapers would be if your doctor said you only have "light incontinence" and would suggest you use something for light incontinence.. and it does say, "llness, injury or affliction" you can claim it's from affliction the fact that people use diapers for non-medical reasons and wish to claim them is probably not a huge concern for the Canadian Revenue Agency (or if they are even aware people wear them for fun) the amount of people purchasing and claiming them for non-medical reasons, is probably small enough that it's not something that needs to be addressed. I'd have to check the Canadian Income Tax Act for 2011 to be sure (i don't have it with me, it's at school) but i am pretty sure, you shouldn't run into trouble claiming bambino diapers (provided the invoice does say adult diapers or adult briefs)

Well in Canada: It is classified as a non-refundable tax credit (which means, it goes against your income, but not more than what your income is - can only bring your taxes payable to a maximum of zero) "The cost of diapers, disposable briefs, catheters, catheter trays, tubing or other products required by the patient because of incontinence caused by illness, injury or affliction are qualified medical expenses under paragraph 118.2(2)(i.1). " you are allowed to claim the amount that exceeds the lesser of $2,052 (for 2011) or 3% of your income so that means, any amount of medical expenses (all of them combined) above $2,052 or that costs more than 3% of y our income (whichever is lesser) is eligible to claim under Canadian federal tax. so let's say I made $22,000 in 2011 and incurred $1,560 that year in diapers, I would be able to claim, $900 worth to my income. 22,000 X 0.03 = $660.00 1,560 - 660 = $900 EDIT: as in the OP's case he would be able to claim (if he had gross income of 22,000) $540.00 You can also claim it on your provincial tax return, that amount varies province to province so I won't bother listing it here.

there that should be good. yeah i am curious about that too.. for me, I mostly wear diapers and I don't find they turn me on, I love AB stuff, but I have my paci or my teddy with me in public so i can only do AB stuff in private, but I do consider myself to be AB

I'm from Ottawa

i am stuck with tranquility ATN until B4NS gets more shipments of bambino's.. so yes Tranqulity ATN is great, but it does leak after a bit I was at school in the computer lab and my diaper leaked a little bit (not sure if it was noticeable to other people but I could tell it leaked) it didn't leak that much, but i was a tiny bit nervous getting up and hoping nobody i know saw it.

I am curious how many people find AB/DL to be more of a sexual fetish - and how many find it to be something more on the therapeutic side (or both therapeutic and sexual) I read a lot of posts from people and people are saying "Why should we tell anyone that we wear diapers, you would not tell them you are into chains and whips" but to me, I do love chains and whips, but I do not find the two to be related (for me) I do actually read quite a bit of people saying that this is a sexual fetish, and they accuse other people of "forcing their fetish on other people" when they are not necessarily..Some people just assume that it's entirely a sexual fetish. I don't get turned on by wearing diapers or doing any AB stuff, it just relaxes me a lot and cheers me up when I feel sad. AB/DL used to at one point in my life be sexual, but in the last few years it has turned more into a much more therapeutic thing for me, I don't have someone to play the role of my mommy but if I did, I believe that it wouldn't change things, I would still find AB/DL to be separate from sex.

well someone did say that he shouldn't have diapers delivered that often, or that he should only wear them in his room and that's it.. he was attacked and being told he is just trying to "force his fetish on other people" when this isn't a fetish for everyone. why resort to insults? you really think I will be in a therapists office by the time i am 40 complaining my life is empty and meaningless? it's possible, but even if that were to be true..that has nothing to do with anything we are discussing. Pretty pathetic if you can only argue back with hypothetical insults and not facts to the OP: Just tell the staff member you have problems with night-time wetting and need them and that you get them delivered because you can get them for cheaper. there is nothing wrong with telling the staff members that at all

Speaking for myself, sometimes my life gets really tough and I am in counselling right now for various things, but when things get really hard in life i get the strong desire to put a diaper on and lay in my bed with a pacifier and hug my teddy.. it's not sexual at all.. but if i had to go live somewhere for a while in a special-house and wanted the diapers for the emotional comfort (and maybe carry my teddy around with me).. would that be considered forcing my "fetish" on other people?