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Lot of meat here. Thanks.

I'm just glad I'm not the only one who ever noticed this, and it isn't just that ad, there are a number of ads that have aired over the years where at least one of the kids were obviously too old to be wearing diapers, but just cute as a button, and able to deliver a line or two on cue, making me wonder if their vicariously-living parents weren't so desperate to make a child star out of them that they'd insist to the talent scouts the children weren't potty trained just to get them a shot at a commercial... Thankfully, we have yet to have a true "child star" ever happen out of a diaper commercial, so either these parents are chasing other avenues (junior pageants come to mind) or the companies have put their feet down and refused over certain age limits. I noticed when Huggies introduced their size 6, the kid was obviously just north of 3 and not particularly talkative - definitely a relief, considering the opportunity they had there to justify the "overgrown baby girl"...

Timing is such a huge issue for me regarding fitting sex into an ageplay session without it coming off like some kind of creepy pedo thing. I'd love to hear some thoughts regarding either how to manage it or just ways to get that (pedo thing) thought out of my mind.

Was it just that you didn't care for the prints on the Cushies and SDK's, or that you would have preferred no prints at all? As I'm awaiting a shipment of SDK's, and I've heard much about the absorbancy (or lack thereof) of the ABU house brands, how would you rank the respective samples? I think I can safely assume X-Plus to be #1 on that list, but the rest is what makes me curious.

Well, FWIW, I've had a kid, and I've been hit by the butt cannon while changing him at that age, and it didn't affect this component of me a bit.

If you really can't get hold of anything else and you need a fix, I suppose Depends work. Considering how easily they leak, I'd say anything else is an improvement.

I'd pay a nominal fee just to not have to sift through fecal fetish fap material like on dprtube. Granted, I wouldn't pay a TON, but I'd pay something like $5/mo.

That's a whole other wrinkle. The adults that are AT the ADISC site are people who aren't necessarily looking to network (myself included). And, let's face it, ADISC frowns on people trying to network, and have banned people for trying to troll for dates there. Horses for courses, is what I say. ADISC is a safe place for people (particularly teens) who are trying to find themselves. DD is a looser, more liberal atmosphere for people who are comfortable with themselves, including their ABDL component. No need to trash one or the other here or there. if ADISC isn't for you, don't go there. The OP chooses the words "freedom of speech" - yet fails to understand that, on any internet forum, freedom of speech stops wherever the site administrators wish it to, because it is a private venue. If I posted a series of pictures of me engaging in fellatio with 10-year-olds here, I'd be banned, and deservedly so, because my freedom of expression stops where the site administrators deem the limit of what they wish to stomach.

There are a mountain of potential psychological connections that could be made with diapers. I, for example, don't as much associate with the diaper itself, but rather the diaper being a symbol of extreme humiliation from my past, which triggers my already intense sexual response to submission. Hence, my ageplay with my wife is more a form of soft B&D, where the "child" in the submissive role is actually too old to wear diapers, and is being forced to as a form of punishment for some perceived misbehavior. You may have a completely different set of triggers involved. It might require some significant digging in your memory banks to figure out where there might be connections, but first you have to figure out WHAT exactly about it is a turn-on. To this end, I suggest surfing some DL-related video material online and see what evokes a response. There is a small amount of heavily censored stuff available on YT, and a similar amount of uncensored roleplay available on dprtube, though you have to sift through a lot of (literal) crap to get to it.

Funny. I used to get "the look" all the time - until I started buying the cute ones. My wife doesn't get the fascination with the institutional-looking things.

That's exactly it. Every banning I've seen has not been a result of someone not giving info, but rather giving extremely suspect or outright contradictory info, and being caught doing so.

I'm trying to figure out where all this comes from. It's not that they expect you to provide your entire background, it's that if you do reveal information, they expect it to be truthful. I've given very little info about myself over there. There's just no way I'm going to offer enough PII to where someone could Google-mine their way into finding out about this component of my life. The only time the mods (and the regulars) over there get up in arms is when someone gives conflicting information, which indicates they are lying about themselves. They're just trying to keep pedos off a site that caters to TBs.

I tried out a couple samples of the Teddies, and they were just damned uncomfortable. Both my wife and I had redlines up our legs from them after our respective turns in them, and the tapes on mine went to crap after 20 minutes of sitting upright in a chair. The samples maybe were bad, but I'm not inclined to buy a bunch more to explore that thought. They weren't as heavy as an Abena M4, yet the Abena was way more comfortable.

My wife and I do the ageplay (both directions, all a matter of who is in what mood) quite a bit, and it's usually centered around the humiliation component (diaper = soft B&D). I'm always on the lookout for new and different ways to: 1) Initiate. Good excuses for Mommy or Daddy to insist child be made to wear a diaper - or good way for child to initiate beyond the usual "accident". 2) Keep it interesting after the initial humiliation (i.e., the diaper's on, binky/bottle/feeding/etc has happened, what now?). What we don't do: - feces. Nope, not happening. Neither of us mess in diapers, neither of us have the stomach for it. - aggressive B&D. Neither of us are much for the whole ball-gag/bullwhip/insert rough stuff here thing. Restraints are fun. Bleeding welts, not so much. So hit me up. What have you done or wished you could do within the above parameters?

*Disclaimer* Yes, I just registered, with the same UN I use at ADISC. Yes, I know that looks like I'm coming over here with torch a-blazin'. I'm saying it isn't. I was actually getting ready to sign up on this forum because I had a post deleted that was about as delicate as I could figure how to put the question I was asking of the forum, and I got no response when I politely asked a mod in PM how I could have put it to make it suitable. Regardless... Anyone who is new to this kink (or their personal acknowledgement of it) will find ADISC to be an island of sanity amidst a sea of madness. Seriously. Imagine yourself as someone (doesn't matter the age) who is struggling with what you perceive as a deviant obsession with diapers. You don't fully understand it, and you're petrified at the idea of talking to anyone around you about it. So you do some googling. Let's say the first place you hit is dprtube. 80% of the front page videos are all about fecal fetish, with diapers as a delivery vehicle. That's sick shit (no pun intended)! Now you're completely freaked out, because you figure that's the road you're staring down, like the diaper is the gateway drug to shit-eating, golden showers, and all sorts of other nasty stuff that's completely out there on the perimeter where none but those one step short of pedo go. (Apologies in advance to any true fecal fetish people out there, I'm new to the place, I don't know how prevalent that might be here) Anyway, point being, ADISC is a great place for someone trying to come to terms with something they don't understand. What happens after that, well, hey, someone earlier in the thread mentioned people growing out of there and "up" to here. Maybe they are an excellent buffer zone for that specific purpose, and folks shouldn't be so down on them because they're serving a need - being a safe place for confused folks to sort out their feelings. Meanwhile, I have another post to go type. Just wanted to toss that out there, because, well, that's pretty much what ADISC did for me - gave me someplace and some people to help me sort my own head out, without all the excessive shit I saw in so many other places that just reinforced my belief that there was something wrong with me.