Diapered6249

I'm currently lucky enough to enjoy both, but if I had to choose, I'd probably want to be diapered. I'm a switch, and although I tend to be the more dominant partner, I wouldn't want to give up wearing.

Like many others, I feel awkward when the word is used unexpectedly, as I'm unsure how to feel internally. Around my girlfriend things are much easier, and I feel comfortable talking about AB/DL stuff with her.

I don't smoke nearly as much as I used to (something of a weekend warrior now) but still a few times a week, I'd say. It often goes hand-in-hand with diaper time, it just enhances the entire experience.

I'm trained, but I've always had sort of a "weak" bladder. That is, I feel the urge to urinate either sooner or more frequently than other people, so diapers help with that. i

for me, there's no other way to do it. I usually wear a massive (doubled- tripled-) diaper for hours on end, just slowly filling it until it's puffy and swollen. it feels amazing physically and mentally it puts me in the perfect headspace

the same exact thing happened to me, but my mom never confronted me about it. I'm sure that some people in my immediate family know, but, meh, it's their fault for snooping.

I wear in public on occasion, and I don't think that people take notice. Typically I'll wear to lectures, the grocery store, errands, etc. I do it sparsely enough that there's still a rush associated with it, but not actual anxiety or paranoia. I've worn around family before only when the situations were rather impromptu - I'd never wear around friends, whether or not they're actually as perceptive as I think they are I just am not yet prepared to risk it.

I still haven't gotten over it, though I'm trying. I find it helps to put on a fresh diaper before sleeping - at least don't try to wear a soaked one, after I ejaculate I lose interest in the discomfort of the wet diaper, but if I can get myself into a fresh one I fall asleep "alright".

I feel like I'm always in control, sort of autonomous, in my life, and diapers are a way out of that. I get to relax. I enjoy the submission of being encumbered by a thick diaper, the humiliation, and also the physical sensations. It's psychosexual, but it's not only sexual, I also derive a lot of asexual comfort from wearing.

Echoing what other people have said, it's really not that hard to remain inconspicuous. I had terrible anxiety when I first wanted to start wearing out in public, but its mostly subsided. The thing is, nobody cares what you're doing, nobody cares what you're wearing and for the most part isn't even looking. I go out in impractically thick diapers sometimes, so much so that they actually encumber me and make me waddle a bit - I dress properly and go about my morning errands, interacting with cashiers, tellers etc without drawing any attention. Even if someone begins to have inkling that someone around them is wearing a diaper...what are they going to say? Only close friends/family are going to notice something "off" about you, maybe your gait or your attitude, acquaintances and strangers won't care in the slightest. Have you ever noticed anyone wearing a diaper in public? Probably not! Or if so, it probably wasn't a big deal. I've gotten to the point now where I don't mind wetting in public, in line, at class, etc - I have faith in my diaper and change when necessary. Everything from odor to crinkle is mostly imperceptible to people (unless you're messing, in any case, don't subject unsuspecting people to your fetish).

Sometimes. I still have the inexperienced misfortune of occasionally doing a bad tape job, which can really detract from the great feeling of a new, dry, diapering.

I've been trying the whole doubling thing...I've only got M3s, M4s and boosters. Each time I diaper solely for pleasure I've tried out a different combination, just to see how they compare in thickness/absorbency/leak liability/practicality/baby-ish-ness (between you and me, no thick combination of any of these is really "practical" for wearing in public). Right now I'm wearing an M3 with the tapes cut off, slits in the front, inside an M4, with two abena boosters between me and the M3. I usually use scissors or my knife to cut the slits, seems to work fine.

An M3 (with the tapes cut off) inside an M4, with two Abri-Let Maxi boosters. Hard not to waddle

If I'm lounging around, definitely - I love thick diapers, and nothing's better than a thick soaked diaper clinging to your hips. I'm the same as Loveable_guy, I like to wet as much as possible, right up until a leak is imminent. If I'm wearing in public, I'm more like lightningXIII, prefer to change when my diapers get clumped up.

I'm not sure if I'd want to be on the receiving end of this...but I wouldn't mind nuzzling my own diaper down just enough to get into/wet someone else's. Interesting (and kinky!) thought.

I live in a pretty typical two-bedroom college apartment, store my diapers in a plastic trunk in my closet, with some stuff stacked on top to make it an undesirable target, even for snoops. I store my boosters in duffel bags under my bed.

Abena X-Plus with 3 boosters, my preferred set up! The boosters hold a TON, so I get to enjoy a thick (and wet) diaper for a good while without having to change.

I wish I had a better opinion. I'm really mixed about pooping, it's not that I don't like it in general, or think that its gross, I just haven't experienced it enough, having messed only a handful of times. Personally, I try not to take a diaper off until it's either almost leaking or messy (if I can afford the luxury), it just seems like a waste of a good diaper! The flipside is that, living in an apartment with someone else, I just don't have the ability to get away with it. I wear pretty much whenever I get away to my room whenever the roommate is gone or I'm busy, I keep my used diapers in a trashbag within a plastic container under some boxes in my closet, but I usually only wet. I'd like to mess more. It's quite a turn on how humiliating and immature it is, and clean up is not that big of a deal. I've only messed once in the past 6 months - goes to show how often I have the place to myself. I'm pretty sure the smell is just too overpowering. My diet is meh, but unless I go all vegan (not happening) I can't see myself leaving neutral smelling waste in my diaper, even behind a closed door. Doesn't bother me, but I don't want to get found out like that! That all being said - I love when I do get to mess, and if it's in a fevered state (not too much time to myself) I usually change pretty quickly. If I've got the time I linger and enjoy it for a while, because it is a rare occurrence.

I'm in my second year at college, currently living in a two bedroom apartment off campus with one roommate. I wear pretty much whenever I want to - I get diapers delivered from XPmedical, and he doesn't question it, we both buy things online pretty often or receive packages from our families. If you're in a dorm, I suggest just forgetting about it for a while. It will be rough but in the end you'll feel better knowing that you didn't have to compromise that part of yourself to potentially cruel hallmates. I didn't wear at all my first year, only at home on break when I had the opportunity. I can't wear around close friends (no real desire) but if I'm gonna have a stressful day, lots of studying etc, its nice to be able to sleep in a diaper or sit down for some serious work. Disposal is relatively easy/inconspicuous. I've got a really tall/thin frame and I often wear Abena M3's out, though I've started wearing M4's (cold weather = thicker clothing, thicker diapers!)

I figure I'd ask here to get the least flak. I have nothing against messing, and enjoy it myself on occasion. But when I'm out during the day and have to mess, I don't use my diaper. If my stomach gets upset from coffee or dairy or something, I'll end up making a few trips to the bathroom over the span of a few hours. I don't have the desire to stink up a room and it'd be impractical for me to shower so often. I'd prefer to just use the toilet. Now, my question to any of you with more experience: what's the best way to go about doing this? Do you just sort of shimmy the diaper down your thighs, or do you untape/retape? I generally wear abena M3's out, and in my experience abena doesn't have the best retaping system. I wouldn't want to be out in public and suddenly have a usable diaper just fail on me because the tapes suck. The flipside is that shimmying it down seems to break up the gel considerably, though I'm not sure it affects how absorbency.Should I look into other brands? Sorry if this seems like a silly question.

though it certainly didn't spark my fascination with diapers, I don't think enough can be said about the convenience. My bladder is a little bit weak and I have a fast metabolism - the urge really builds unless I go quickly. Diapers give me the peace of mind to just keep doing what I'm doing without that constant nag of worrying about going to the bathroom. Plus, that great feeling of having a thick wet diaper between your legs!

Abena X-Plus with two abri-let maxi boosters in - I'm doing a lot of sitting place, studying, making music, desk work tonight - staying hydrated and well protected.

Thanks for all of the responses! You guys have been very helpful. I went ahead and ordered some M4s as well as M3s and a pack of boosters. I figure that going 24/7 is untenable for me right now, but, on the bright side, I will be 24/7 a good amount of the next week, my roommate will be in the city and out of the apartment for around 8 days. I went with the M3s because I see them as an investment. If they're too thick for my daytime taste, they'll still make a good diaper and I'll try the M2 next time. I plan to wear in public a bit, like rusty said, at least to build confidence. If the weather complies I may be able to wear an X-Plus out to a large lecture hall or to the library. If I can't get away with an X-Plus, I'll settle for an M3. I've set a personal goal of wetting in public, at least once, and I'm pretty sure I can pull that off without hassle (looking forward to adding more goals).

Hello fellow DLs, as the title states I have a few questions. I currently live in a two person apartment and am attending college - I'm ready to begin wearing "regularly". 24/7 is a bit of a stretch I think, unless somebody here can persuade me otherwise given my situation. Shipping is not an issue, I've ordered from xpmedical in the past and have no problems receiving packages discreetly. My main concern is that I'm a pretty slim guy, 32 inch waist and a couple inches over 6 foot, and I don't want to attract attention to myself with diaper butt or excessive crinkling, so any wardrobe tips you can provide would be grand. -what would you recommend in a daytime diaper? I'm currently debating between the Abena M2 and M3 (with or without abri-let maxi boosters). I want something that can hold a "decent" amount of wettings, and I'd like to go as thick as possible without it being noticeable to the "general public", I don't want to subject anyone in my classes to my weirdness, and I have no intentions of public messing for obvious reasons. Would you wear the same thickness/a thinner diaper when around friends? Changing won't be an issue, my class times have given me a pretty flexible schedule and I don't plan on needing to change between when I leave for class and when I get back. 24/7: -those of you that go 24/7 voluntarily - is it worth it? Do you always mess (even when not in public), or do you use discretion? -do people notice, do you have to go to great lengths to hide it? The only "real" diaper I've bought before was the X-Plus, and I've only used it in private, so I have no other experience . Great diaper, I plan on getting more, but they're definitely not a daytime diaper for me. -I wear diapers for comfort (physical/emotional), but there's also a sexual element. How do you deal with arousal? If I'm going to start wearing regularly, I don't want to be aroused in public just because I'm wearing a diaper, as I said, I also want to experience the platonic comfort they give me. Does this just sort of go away as the novelty wears off? thank you, in advance.