Baby Drew

Hi all, Well last night I told her. I was stressed and so I wore a nappy to bed. Whilst we were laid there I then decided to come out with it. I told her the truth that I find wearing the nappy and clothes relaxing and that it stems back to me wanting to be the innocent baby who has nothing to worry about. There was silence for a min and then she said she was fine with it all. She had heard of AB's and can understand why someone would want to regress to that age. She is interested to see all the stuff I've got at some point and said she will accept that occasionally I feel the need to indulge. I just hope that once she has seen all the clothes she doesn't freak then although it doesn't sound like she will. Officially she is the most amazing person ever.

I was early 80's. Apparently my parents had me in cloth and plastic pants. Now though I prefer the cloth backed disposables. Plastic disposables are fun but I prefer the cloth ones. I've never tried cloth nappies yet.

Unfortunately my workplace doesn't come under this ruling hence my original question. However I do agree that most workplaces should provide easy access to toilets.

Apologies all, I should have stated that I work frontline EMT.

Hey all, Just a quick question for you. If you wear nappies/diapers to work what is it you do for a job? Are you incontinent and have to wear or do you wear out of choice? Also what brand do you wear and do you have to change during work time? I ask because I have a job where wearing a nappy would be helpful as I don't always have access to a toilet when I want. However I therefore wouldn't be able to have anywhere to change either. Today is one of those days and I could do with wearing. Will be interested to hear your thoughts.

Oh and I meant to add that one day I'd eventually like her to play as a mummy to me. Although I know that is unlikely it's a possibility of something to work towards? I guess I need to get her to accept this side of my life first?

Ah, good point. I was typing on my phone on a break at work and couldn't think of a better way to address it. I will avoid calling her emotions baggage. What I meant to say was that she only has her ex, no kids to worry about and no other concerns. I agree that the major stuff has been tackled. I just need to elaborate. It's just how and when to tackle it and get the timing right. Oh and I would love to see where it's written that you have to be single for a year before starting another relationship. Surely if two people are happy and it feels right, that's enough?

Thanks, she does have baggage in terms of her ex. I'm tempted that when I tell her I tell her what I like and how it came about. Then a case of gauging her reaction. If she shows major objection I drop the subject there and tell her I will still enjoy it when I'm alone and that it will never be talked about again. If she shows interest or doesn't get offended or has questions I deal with that as it happens. For me, it started that I wet the bed as a teenager and realised how safe and secure I felt in a nappy. I then began exploring more and realised im an AB. Thanks for all the help people. It's appreciated.

Hey all, Thanks for all the advice. It's much appreciated. Just to clarify a few points. She knows I wear when stressed but doesn't know I like to wear. I was 'stressed' last night and wore and wet and she wasn't grossed out at sharing the bed with me so I think that's the first hurdle over with. I think now I just need to broach the subject of I actually enjoy them. From there I can hopefully slowly introduce the whole AB side.

Hi all, Well I have a problem and i'm after some advice. I have just started dating this girl (about a month now) and we've been friends for a good 6 years or so before that so I know her reasonably well. I consider myself a part time AB and would love to tell her this so we can share it (or at least I can enjoy without having to hide it). This girl is just out of a marriage (technically seperated, going through a divorce) and part of the issue with the ex was that he spent a fortune on bondage toys and forced her into things she didn't want to do for his kicks. Obviously I don't want to be that person. She does have a kinky side as she has already tied me to the bed. Also from our first night together I told her that I occasionally wear nappies to bed as if stressed I have a tendancy to wet the bed, which is the truth. What I failed to elaborate on though is that I enjoy the wet nappies and would like to wear more often and act as an AB every so often. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I can tackle this please? When I told her that I wet the bed if stressed, she stated she was fine with the nappies and the occsasional wet bed as "It's part of you". All suggestions appreciated. Thanks.

Yep, I sure do. Haven't done so for a few months now but still have an account. Must get back into it.

I love the feeling of laying down to put a nappy on. However it's just not practical for me and so most of the time it's standing up. Shame really as I prefer to lay as I feel more babyish.

Unfortunately I probably did. Oh well, at least I know that I tried to pay the VAT and I can live with a clean conscience. I just worry too much, that's my problem.

Thanks for the helpful reply. I have just been into the store and purchased the nappies. I told them that I was going to use them for polishing the car and they still failed to charge me VAT. I told them that I was expecting to pay the VAT and I was told not to worry about it. She didn't bat an eyelid. However it's useful to know the exact ruling in future. Thanks.

Hi all, I have a question you may be able to help me with. I am in the UK and I have found a disability supplies store locally to me that sells Kendall Lille nappies. However when I went to purchase them the first time (a few months ago) I went to pay and they asked me to fill out a form that would allow me to get the nappies without paying the VAT (sales tax). The form asked for name and address and brief description of the disablility. Caught on the hop I put down 'Incontinent'. Now I need to go and buy some more but feel guilty about not paying the VAT as I am not incontinent and don't actually need nappies. I am an honest member of society and am more than happy to pay the extra few £ in VAT. What I need though is a reason I can give the store as to why I would be buying the nappies and still need to pay the VAT. The best suggestion so far though is telling them that I am going to cut them up and use them to polish the car as the softness of the pad is great for that extra shine. Anyone got any better suggestions? Thanks in advance.

They have one at this nursery in the UK. http://www.happy2nappynursery.co.uk/ Once you enter the main site, follow the link on the left. They have pics of a baby using it. Looks cool to me.

I have just been down my local Primark and brought a blue one of these. It's great and I love it. It fits me well, is comfy and warm and covers my nappy ok. I am sat in it while I write this and I am all snuggly. I went to Primark a few weeks ago but was too slow to pick one up. Am glad they got them back in. Can't wait to go to sleep in it tonight.

I went to see the film yesterday lunchtime. Unfortunately I was with my parents and they don't know about my AB side. Thus I was wearing my adult clothes and no nappy. I had to cross my legs. Could certainly have done with a nappy on.

If you use diapers on a daily basis and mention this to the surgeon I can't see that they would have an issue with it, as long as you go down the heavy sleeper and not fetish route. They must deal with people in diapers all the time.

For those of you that don't know, the UK is currently in the grip of a heatwave (well it's warm for us). I am sitting here in my wet nappy like a good baby, but I am wondering how I should keep cool? It is a disposable with a plastic outer. I am wearing just the nappy and nothing else and I am still sweating something chronic. Anyone got any ideas for keeping cool? Drew

I don't know but have always wondered myself. I guess if you are in a nappy as well as the cage then it makes no difference to urinating. I think the idea is to stop you getting aroused.

Or both restrain the occupant and lock the top.

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