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    Taylor Swift

    in Scoop The Poop

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    If she wore, she would never wear plain medical ones.

    On topic, if you really want to get a good taste of understanding Taylor Swift (and if you like Ed Sheeran you really don't have an excuse not to try :P ) I would recommend either listening to her "Red" album or "1989" album (Taylor's Version only because screw Scooter Braun). "1989" is my favorite of hers, but "Red" really shows her biggest evolution from good up-and-coming country singer to the Taylor Swift people know today.

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    Can I get kicked out for wearing a swim diaper?

    in Our Lifestyle Discussion

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    I have been to waterparks and public pools with incontintent friends before and nobody has ever said anything. Most people will not be looking at your butt to see if you are wearing a diaper, and if your diaper is secure and you are being mindful of your IBS so as to get out of the water and take care of it as quickly as possible, nobody will say a thing. If all else fails, and I really don't think it's likely things will get to this point, you can pull the ADA card. The waterpark will not want public word getting out that they are inconsiderate of people with medical issues.

    On ABDL-storyculture and Consent

    in Critiques and Writer's Discussion

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    20 minutes ago, LittleLion said:

    But that alone doesn’t sufficiently explain the difference if you ask me. For one because it assumes that ABDL-stories are automatically sexual content. An outsider might naturally assume as much and argue that the protagonists are automaticcaly sexualized / objectified. I can’t support that argument for two reasons, though.

    Firstly, many story authors are minors themselves. The vast majority of people don’t discover their interest in diapers on their 18th birthday, I’ve seen stories from authors as young as 13. As a minor, you’re unlikely to write adult protagonists. And as vulnerable as the younger members of such communities are, and need to be protected from those who would exploit them, they also need the opportunity to connect with peers and older like-minded people, who are more experienced and can help them deal with the often mixed feelings that come with these interests.

    But my second point is even more important: Most of those stories are about the author’s own fantasies and wish-fulfillment. Many write about the things they’d like to experience themselves or wish they had experienced (as kids). Sexual themes are, in my experience, the exception in such stories, and if they are present, it’s often in the context of things such as falling in love for the first time and/or coming out to, involving peers. So it’s the usual themes, just with this extra twist layered on top.

    In practice, if the rules I described were enforced like that, we would end up with a very paradoxical situation where sexual ABDL-stories are considered legitimate (if the characters involved are all legal adults, of course), but non-sexual ABDL-stories are deemed dangerous just because minors appear as characters or are the protagonists.

     

    I don't think there's a paradox at all to why stories focused on minor characters in diapers is frowned upon, especially when posted on an 18+ site. Correlations does not equal causation, but there is definitive room for skepticism when someone writes a story about a child wearing diapers, on a site primarily focused on diaper fetishism and the audience is 18+ in age. True, nobody here suddenly became ABDL when they turned 18. I was looking up stuff on 18+ websites as early as 14. I've heard others started lurking around when they were even younger. I think it's valuable to have that experience, to see that you are not alone, that you're not the weirdest person in the world, but I also think we have a responsibility not to interact, to portray our actions as those of reasonable adults, and that the same door will open to them once they come of age.

    It is not our place to "protect" vulnerable minors who have an interest in ABDL. Many will tell you that is the excuse of those in the community who preyed on minors. Teenagers who know nothing of the ABDL community, finding it, and then an adult says "you need to be protected, we'll take care of you"? Put politely, that sounds like creep central.

    You can reductively call it an "extra twist" or whatever, but there are real consequences about that "extra twist", not just for yourself but for the people who own the websites you post that "extra twist" on. And honestly, you shouldn't be concerned with minor authors on a website that doesn't allow minors to begin with. And if the story authors where you go are minors, and the website is 18+, you should be letting the mods and admins of said websites know for the safety of said minors and the safety of the website denizens.

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    Non-Kink novels with "kinky" themes

    in Scoop The Poop

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    Like most little kids in the 1990s, I was a big fan of the Goosebumps book series. The one I remember most vividly was The Cuckoo Clock of Doom about a kid who messes around with a cuckoo clock that makes it start reversing time and he gets younger. The climax of the book has him having been turned back into a baby. The book is literally Baby's First Age Regression.

    It was a formative experience, to say the least.

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    Gender is a very confusing topic for me

    in Sissy Room

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    18 hours ago, Cute_Kitten said:

    I've heard it said clothes know no gender, so I'd assume that would apply to diapers too. If you like traditionally girl diapers, then go for it!  Wear whatever makes you happiest and most comfortable! Life is too short to worry about what other people think, especially for something as personal as one's (absorbent) undergarments, so why not make yourself happy and wear what you want? 

    I couldn't agree more with this.

    To paraphrase Eddie Izzard, they aren't women's clothes, they're YOUR clothes. Whether you identify as male, female, or nonbinary, none of that should affect what clothes you wear.

    Can anyone relate?

    in Stinky, Squishy & Proud

    Posted

    You probably don't want to hear this, but I'm going to say it anyway.

     

    That's gross, and I'm glad you felt ashamed because you should feel ashamed. They are going to have to throw away the display chair now. 1-2 workers are going to have to put on sanitation gloves and carry the chair covered in your filth that you purposely leaked in out the backroom into the dumpster, having to smell it all the way to the trash.

    Retail workers do not get paid nearly enough to put up with this kind of stuff. What you did is the kind of thing that makes all of us look bad. I hope nobody else relates to doing what you did. We need less people doing this kind of stuff, not more. If you ever do this again, I hope you get caught.

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    Thoughts on what happened to me this week.

    in Diaper Lovers

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    A good story can have a very strong emotional effect. There have been movies and TV shows that I've watched that left me emotionally drained for the entire day. Star's comics are based on her own experiences as an ABDL so they touch on things that are both personal but also universal of the ABDL experience and a lot of people who read them come away with that feeling of being heard, understood, and not alone, and I imagine if this is your first experience with an ABDL story like this (not just a fantasy one about being forced back into diapers with sexy results) that you may feel strongly about what you've read as a result.

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    Ben Shapiro on the ABDL community

    in Diapers in the News

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    I can't stand him. He just oozes with punchability. ABDL is a part of our identity, whether he agrees with that or not. Anything that defines you as a whole is part of your identity.

    That said, the poll doesn't really reflect what he talks about in the video. His point is about how he feels it is ridiculous that ABDLs want to use this part of their identity to gain public mainstream acceptance, but the poll is a hardline between "keep it to yourself and don't share it with anyone" or "we have the right to be openly ABDL and the public must accept that". Neither of these I feel are the right answer. We have the right to spaces with people we love and trust where we can explore and embrace this part of our identity AND we have the responsibility to keep this part of ourselves private with those people that we love and trust and not to walk around in broad daylight in a t-shirt and a boosted Megamax like we're Tommy Pickles.

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    Dry Wipes. :(

    in Scoop The Poop

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    3 hours ago, Little Spider said:

    I LOVE using wipes all the time, especially for diaper changes. I really love the kind of wipes that come in boxes rather than tubes because I think it's more babyish like Huggies or Pampers baby wipes for example, especially if they're scented.😁😃 The only thing I wish that they made the wipes bigger for adults. But I know that would never happen. LOL!😂😂😂🤭😏😉♥️💯😇

    I miss when baby wipes came in boxes instead of the smaller plastic bag packs...

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    Yay I'm famous...sort of

    in Scoop The Poop

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    I was wondering if someone would notice the DeadwingDork video(s) where he comes here to people-watch on his stream. He's not for everyone, and he does have quite a few negative opinions of ABDL. He's never judged anyone for being ABDL by itself, but he does have a real problem with ABDLs who do this stuff in public and who use it as a cover for more unacceptable and illegal behavior (he's made quite a few streams about an ABDL whose name rhymes with Pikachu and he is not shy about calling him out for his behavior). Actually, the DailyDiapers segments were great in that respect because he came in thinking that's what he'd find but he ended up disappointed at how normal it turned out to be and how the people here weren't worth criticizing so harshly compared to other ABDLs, so I see that as a victory for this site :)

    If you can tolerate someone who isn't okay with the entirety of the community and is vocal about it as such, he's a fun watch, though I do prefer his non-ABDL stuff. The Nikocado Avocado stream, the multiple Jaystation streams, and the informercial stream are my favorites. Most recently, the Bad Chef Bingo streams are also really fun.

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    Time magazine adults

    in Diapers in the News

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    “Stuffed animals are kind of like an adult pacifier,” says Lennett. “Adults are going back to their childhoods to forget what’s going on in the world. Maybe it’s the pandemic, maybe it’s politics, maybe it’s war.”

    That sums it up right there. The world sucks and everyone knows it and millennials and Gen Z are not afraid to care for themselves and do things for themselves that feel good and make them happy. Even if most boomer-age adults would say "that's not proper adult behavior", we are adults now and we get to dictate what is proper adult behavior now. And enjoying hobbies and collecting and caring for your mental well-being IS proper adult behavior!

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