Forced2wet

My Mummy (OH) wearing satin panties

Wow, really sorry to see such things said by someone who’s supposed to love you. I honestly don’t think anything you say to her will change her mind.

One mug of tea in the morning will keep me peeing all day

I think the issue with us being intimate when I am wearing is that she likes me to be a little AB rather than DL, she calls herself “Mummy” and me “Baby” so I think that’s why sex and nappies never overlap. Im still very good friends with my previous partner who did this thing with me and she once told me that she struggled with me wanting to please her after she had dressed me, she told me that she thought “I wanted to be a baby and that it felt all wrong” I have not yet ‘forced’ her into a nappy, it’s something I’m considering ? I’m not sure, it’s why I posed the question here. I left my wife, who was the first partner to do this thing with me, and because of her dom personality I’m not sure she would have ever got bored with it, in fact I always imagined that we would have gone deeper into it together. It was the relationship away from that side that caused the split I understand what you mean about having no people to speak to about it. That’s why this place is so great! Do you think if your wife joined in that you would wear more? And that’s what she may be worried about? I wish you well with your conversation. What will you do if your wife turns to you and says that she’d rather you didn’t wear at all? (fingers crossed that doesn’t happen) All of us here know that it’s not something that you can stop and forget easily.

It seems that you are obeying her wishes and not wearing around the house so would she also have an issue with you wearing at work?

Pretty much the same reason as above about sharing with the community. Helping me feel that I’m part of the group in this thing we all share. And maybe showing off how lucky I am (or was) to have a partner who joins in ?

We do nearly everything together, the current restrictions that have caused working from home has only increased our time together. We go out regularly, county walks, meals, meeting our friends in fact the only time we’ve been apart for any long period recently is when I go and play golf......which makes it very hard to understand that when I have very occasionally dressed myself in a nappy at bed time that she’ll say “I thought you’d like to pay me some attention) She has a very sub attitude in life and especially in the bedroom, I take care of all the bills and make most of the household decisions as a rule and when we’re intimate she likes to be told that I’m in charge and she’s a good girl for climaxing. It’s very rare that she will initiate any sexual contact as part of her sub nature. Perhaps that’s part of the issue, if I get the urge I like to be ‘forced’ to wear and wet, taking a submissive role and I don’t think my G/F has the ability to make that switch. Thinking about it, that was the same with my previous partner who couldn’t take charge either. I have toyed with the idea that when we are indulging in some light bedroom bondage ( she’s always the one tied up) that I use the opportunity to slip her into a small disposable and make her use it whilst ‘pleasing’ her as maybe the reason why she’s so against it now is that she wants to try it and is too afraid to ask....,,,although when we first got together she told me she had tried it on her own (after she met me but before we lived together) and she didn’t get anything from it. I do know think that she equates love by bedtime action, if she’s being ‘serviced’ it means much more than meals or holding hands and kissing during non bedroom times. Has your wife ever mentioned that she missed the extra affection you gave her in bed when she joined in with your nappy wearing? If your wife knows your wearing does she ever touch your nappy? As in a playful swot of your rear or hold your waist during a cuddle? Obviously she is comfortable with you wearing around her so her joining in again doesn’t seem to be that much of a big step.......,,fingers crossed.

Thanks for your reply. Sorry to hear you had the same issues, I hope nothing was ever said by your ex to others about why you split up. if you don’t mind me asking, has there been any regret on your part for ending the relationship over this thing? Are you happier being alone or have you now found a willing partner?

Thanks for your reply. TBH it was a post you made which mentioned your wife decreased interest in another thread that made me wonder if this pattern is something that happens often with partners. It sounds to me that your down time is spent with your young family (as it should be) and that means your wife doesn’t have much interest in your wearing. You have at least got the bonus of being able to wear without any judgement or backlash. I had a similar thing with my previous partner, who had young children from a previous relationship, we’d plan weekends away alone and she’d pack nappies and plastic pants to put me in but I always rejected the idea as I felt that was precious time alone for US to enjoy and not just ME. As I said above this time around the ‘rejection’ feels worse as it’s only the two of us who live in our cottage (our kids are all grown up) and I know if I get the urge to wear and dress myself that it will start an argument that I’m selfish and care more about nappys than her......even a conversation about me wearing will end with that same accusation. Perhaps, for the sake of the relationship, I’ll try stopping but I think everyone who has these urges knows that that will not end well. Quick question, does your wife know when you are wearing to bed? And does you wearing in the marital bed change any cuddles or affection you’d normally have when you’re not wearing?

? I think my avatar image was taken over 10 years ago, when I first properly got back into wearing nappies & plastic pants

Hi, I’m a middle aged straight male looking for chats and maybe meet ups with anyone in the Herts area. I have been into this thing as long as I can remember and have been lucky enough to have partners that have been happy to be my caretakers. Please feel free to PM me

Great to read some of the replies here. I like my partners to wear satin bikini pants 24/7, if they’re kept on during sex it excites me more

I’m just wondering if any member here has experienced the same situation that I have found myself in with the last two of my partners who have joined in with my ‘thing’ Ive told my story many times before (so won’t bore you again) but the two gfs who knew about my AB/DL side before the relationship got serious both said they were happy to get involved and take care of putting me in nappies and plastic pants as well as changing me when I was wet. This they both did for a period of a couple of years but then seemed to cease enjoying it, pretty much to the point that they stopped it all together. (I should add at this point that I don’t wear every night....or even most weeks) The rejection I then start to feel makes me hide away my stash and if I get the urge to wear I’ll dress myself which in turn makes the partner annoyed about me wearing and makes me feel like I can’t wear at all. All of which then makes me question the initial interest they showed and therefore the relationship. I met my current GF online after declaring my kink and she said (in her initial messages) that it was that side of me that drew her in and she was keen to explore how it had made her feel. Her withdrawal hurts even more than my previous partners because it makes me question whether our relationship is based on a lie. As a result of her/their actions I can’t talk to my OHs about the issue because I feel I’ll be accused of caring more about that side of me then caring about her/them.(As has happened before) Im just interested to see if anyone else here has found the two patterns above happen to them? Did your once keen partner lose interest? Did you feel rejection and start to question the relationship?

My first memory is me telling my Mum that I’d rather wear a nappy & plastic pants than use the toilet (I was around three years old and she was packing them away as my little brother was clean) I had this interest from that early on and if I had been allowed to wear them then I don’t believe that it would have ‘cured’ me......once a DL, always a DL ?

Talk???? I’d rather find a new relationship ? The thing was, I hadn’t said anything about nappys or wearing, although I was on my phone viewing this site & my DL twitter account. I know she feels like I keep things about this side of me secret, which I s’pose is true, but we had a joint account here that she had full cessation too and never used. has your argument lien over? Have you ‘dressed’ for bed since?

We talked about it the next morning, she was so apologetic but since then I haven’t worn at all, although I don’t really dress up much these days, maybe once a month for a couple of days stint. We’ll see what occurs when I next get the urge. That is a partial truth. When we met she was aware of this side of me and so was quite clear that it wouldn’t go away nor would I want it too as it makes me happy. So I do feel a little betrayed that she now obviously has an issue with it

Sorry to hear that! if you don’t mind me asking was it the ‘request’ that caused it? In my experience, even the partners who take part as caretakers in this thing sometimes gave their moments. Only last Monday night my G/F was spoiling for a drunken argument which I wouldn’t rise to and she ended up throwing loads of disposable nappies, a pair of plastic pants & a onsie at me accusing me for caring more about nappies then her. Like us, I’m sure it’s just a blip ?

So? How did your birthday ‘present’ go?

Does Amber know about your wearing? Or will your ‘report’ will be a surprise?

The best part is the care and attention I’m giving during the change and the look on my g/f’s face as she does it. Not sure there is a worse part ?

Of course, if you’ve had that upset previously then you’re probably right to talk about your birthday ‘treat’.....and sooner rather than later. I hope it works out well for you this week and of course you must let us know how you got on. It’s interesting that your wife allows you to wear (and I assume wet) in your marital bed but not ‘take part’ She is obviously comfortable with it to a certain extent so you are one of the lucky ones to have found a partner who allows you to be yourself where many here have failed ?

Yeah, it was a day to remember (I think I posted pix in the photo section here/ Twitter) As I mentioned before, she knew about this kink before we got together and she said it was one of the things about me she that interested her. That said,, her involvement has lessened over our years together which made my birthday request a little more special. I was always told that if you don’t ask you don’t get. ? I’m sure you know your wife’s boundaries by now so you’ll know what requests she’ll find acceptable and even if it’s something she feels she is unable to accommodate it’s a good way to express your desires. I hope it works out well and obviously let us know how you got on.

Nice, I hope it works out well for you. I asked for something similar for my birthday last November, I sent my G/F a text saying what I would like because it was important to me that I didn’t verbally ask so I could imagine/pretend that it was her idea. Below was the text I sent her and whilst it wasn’t perfect it was still a great day ? ********* Birthday Present. With my birthday coming up please don’t spend any money on me for a birthday present, I don’t need anything bought for me as I don’t need anything but if possible, what I’d love for a birthday treat is I would like to have a baby day. By this I mean a ‘proper’ baby day, rather than the usual dress me in one nappy and forget about me until I leak day. A day you don’t take a submissive role at every opportunity and stay in charge of me for your pleasure. I’d like you to take real control for a day, the only conversations we have are you treating me like a little kid, teasing me I’m your nappy boy, you feed me all my food & drink from bottles/cups with a bib, you let/make me play like a child with toys or colour/draw whilst you watch. If (when) the initial nappy change gets me hard, tell me why you’re going to wank me off, how nothing I can do will stop you making me wear nappies and plastic pants. Encourage me to cum so you can get me padded up. Do the same for every change if I get excited. I hope at some point I’ll go soft ) Talk to me throughout the nappy change process, tell me the powder is for making me smell sweet and stop me from getting sore. Tell me about the thick nappy you’re putting me in and what you’re going to make me do in it. Talk me through the plastic pants choice and why you’re making me wear them. Tell me you’ll Keep my nappy/plastic pants on show all day so you can see/hear them because you want to keep an eye on your big baby, just put me in a ‘special’ t-shirt or onesie. Tease me throughout the day about how I’m wearing a nappy and plastic pants, that I’m just your nappy boy, tell me that I must let you know when I need to pee and encourage me to use my nappy because that’s what you want and why I’m wearing it. Cuddle me until I fill my nappy and tell me I’m a good boy when I do. Rather than ask me, check to see how wet I am and if I need a change by either standing me in front of you, pulling my plastic pants down and testing inside of the nappy or doing it as a surprise when I’m not expecting it by sticking your finger in the cuff of the nappy. Give me cuddles, stroke my hair and pat my padded bum, even offer your nipple for me to suck whilst cuddling (if you’re okay with that). Act like it’s what YOU want to do, for YOUR pleasure and enjoyment rather than you’re doing it for me only because I like it and want you to. If you decide to give me the experience on my actual birthday day and want to go out in the evening to the pub/club, to get ready to go out bath me, dry me with a fluffy towel and dress me in normal clothes. (Maybe put me in my silky knickers so whilst I’m out I’m constantly reminded that you’re in charge) But throughout the night, whilst we’re out, remind me that as soon as you get me home you’ll be putting me back in a nappy and plastic pants for the night and then when we do get home carry out your threat/promise. Tips that might help I really like being constantly reminded I’m being MADE to wear a nappy by you. I really really like being constantly told I’m wearing plastic pants and the reasons why. (Because I’m going to wet my nappy and all babies need extra protection against leaks etc) I like being gently teased and embarrassed in a caring way but I’m not keen on being verbally abused. You can threaten me with a spank if I don’t do what I’m told but I’m not into physical punishment at all. A loving gentle spank on my nappy bum by hand is the maximum and would be quite cute. The idea is that I don’t want to be a nappy baby, but you encourage/ tell me to be. You encourage me to wet and eat like a baby, all with praise and cuddles because YOU want me to. I’m sending you this via email (not discussing it verbally) so it feels like all of the above is YOUR idea and not me asking you yet again to indulge for my pleasure and benefit. If you feel like all the above is too much for you, that you can’t give me the experience I would like it’s really not a problem. The last thing I want is for you to feel disgusted taking part in something that is out of your comfort zone. But if you don’t think you can manage the above just please tell me either verbally or reply to this email, I promise I will understand, not get annoyed or feel rejected, we will just continue with current night wearing. I will always love you and nothing will ever change that x

I’m glad it worked out for you. Does your wife join in? Changing you etc? Or are you just allowed to wear around her?

I look forward to reading. Since I posted my tale in the story forum I have got a new partner (in the photo) who knew about my ‘interests’ before we got together (we met online)