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The way back machine has most of the site archived.
https://web.archive.org/web/20130322004148/http://www.foxtalestimes.com/
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15 hours ago, Diapered Dave said:
Just googling around for inflammation remedies, I found several places that recommended nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory medications such as ibuprofen and acetaminophen. Of course, you don't want to over-due it with these, because to much can cause problems with your liver and / or stomach.
Only problem with that is many of those cause blood thinning. Is that a good idea while still recovering/bleeding?
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2 hours ago, Reddy said:
He didn't really comment on that, other than to say even if he thought there was something in that area, he wouldn't want to go close to it because "that's where the external sphincter is, and if we damage that in any way you can become grossly incontinent." Lol
You didn't correct him and say deliciously incontinent?
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@BabySofia Thank you! Your post made me remember that I had actually written a story a number of years ago. I went back to reread it. Consider me inspired to start writing again!u
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On 3/4/2024 at 6:56 PM, LilHotRod said:
I have and I can second comments from above regarding the issues that make me hesitate to wear cloth-backed disposables. No sagging or odor with these.
My only complaint was the wings feeling rather thin. I like my diapers to be very snug and I was afraid of ripping the tapes off of the wings or pulling holes into the wings as I was affixing them.
I do enjoy the wetness indicator most though. Rather than a fade when wet design, the stars fade to water droplets when wet.
Interesting. I haven't had too much issue with tearing with them but they definitely feel like they stretch more than a standard plastic backed diaper. Not enough to make them unusable but enough to make mention of it.
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57 minutes ago, PuraVidaDip said:
Hope everything works out for you! I wear 24/7 and I have to change way more than it seems some people do. 1-2 diapers per day? Not sure what's going on there but I suspect they use the toilet for #2 and pee at the same time. More realistic for a 24/7 wearer is 3-6 diapers per day.
You're using 3-6 because that is how manh times you are messing?
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For anyone who hasn't lurked around the forums for half a decade. A quick recap. Hi, I'm DAQ and I have been trying to become incontinent for over four years. I started stints of 24/7 lasting usually a monthish in 2019 and like so many during covid went 24/7 and never looked back. To my dismay I did not become incontinent in the mythic 12 months and my plateau was basically at square one. Fast forward to today and the last year has been mental health year with psychiatry, therapy, and hypnotherapy. I have learned more about the human psyche and myself in the last four months than I have in the last 30 years. All of this has helped clear up doubts and understand what I want from incontinence and diapers moving forward. It is through this understanding that I have a newly formed confidence in my decision, cast aside all doubts and redoubled efforts to becoming truly incontinent.
With my newly informed psychological approach I thought back to a post I recently saw a post that referred to Milton Erickson's bedwetting protocol on how he got a married couple who were bedwetters to stop. It seemed strange and extreme but according to the literature it worked.
I was wracking my brain trying to figure out how to adapt this to our purposes. During this process I remembered a post on Tumblr by Serah-in-diapers that outlined how she became a bedwetter in a month.
https://serah-in-diapers.tumblr.com/post/184830904104/how-i-became-a-chronic-bedwetter
Seem familiar? Looks remarkably similar to me. So today I committed a cardinal sin in diaper training. I took off my diaper on purpose and used the bathroom. Originally I had intended to do this for at least two weeks and beyond but today made me realize I am far more psychologically diaper dependent than I thought. I made it maybe twelve hours before I came waddling back. I was in the bathroom at least once an hour and was miserable the whole time. However, I think I am going to continue going without as long as I can. To remind myself why I wear diapers and want incontinence and provide my unconscious mind a viable way out from the torment of running to the bathroom constantly, I just don't know if that will be hours per day or days or weeks yet.
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4 hours ago, Reddy said:
Hi Everybody, I'm sorry for being absent, work was busy and then I spent the whole weekend out at my parents. I got blocked up pretty bad during the week, but I associated it to restarting caffeine and quit that again yesterday (I even noticed my tight esophagus was much worse the days I was on caffeine). I also used a catheter here and there just to pee, and then for a few hours at a time too. Dr. Ivan said to go back to a catheter if I'm blocked, and also that we might need to see if I have developed a urethral stricture. Obviously I don't know, but I feel pretty sure I have the stricture. Over the weekend at my parents house I was blocked multiple times in the night and used a catheter once or twice. Since the afternoon I've been back at my apartment. Not wearing diapers. Just relaxing in boxers. Nothing is leaking whatsoever. I want to find out about the stricture and also might ask Dr. Ivan about another surgery. But first I'll see how the next days go.
Thank you for being open about the problems and/or complications that have occurred post op. While I am rooting for you and the option it presents, I think being realistic is important.
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39 minutes ago, Diapered Dave said:
My guess... He's out buying more diapers.
Or least out using more 😃
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15 hours ago, Davidevens87 said:
I used to wear nothing but megamax, I haven’t bought a case in almost a year. ABDL diapers are more affordable and are as durable if not more in some cases to MegaMax. My wife noticed the baby prints and wasn’t a fan but when I told her the price difference she, like me, no longer cared.
Great Writeup
I think that is my disappointment w/ Megamax. I focused primarily on cost/liter, but as some people have said, they don't need more than 5000ml there are cheaper per unit costs out there even in the ABDL space and especially once sales are taken into account. Rearz and Bambino regularly have sales of 20-30% and some of the holiday sales get crazy. So it doesn't matter if it is unit pricing or capacity pricing, they still lose imo.
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16 hours ago, Don Incognito said:
I've wondered how removing the lower sphincter through the abdomen (instead of chewing up the urethra to get to it) would change the risk factors there. Though it probably wouldn't have any real advantage if the muscle can't easily be separated from the urethra.
That or leave the sphincter muscle alone and sever the nerve that drives it. Though tampering with the nervous system obviously has its own risks.
I think the other issue maybe the muscles response to severed nerves. I read a story of someone who had botox into the spincter for UAB and instead of being relaxed open the muscles were forced closed until the botox wore off.
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29 minutes ago, Reddy said:
I will keep you updated! I think the day to day experience will probably have unexpected elements.
I think over the next several months you will have many firsts and interesting experiences. Should be a fun time relearning who you are.
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She has a youtube channel.
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I bought a case recently. I am impressed. Very solid diaper and I like the cloth backing even more than the alphagatorz or little kings. The cloth backing is much tougher than the latter.
I would say the Try Agains are comparable to the Tykables Animooz. I haven't done a detailed analysis or anything but having worn both I would say they are identical in all but price and and style. So if you care more about price I would go with the Animooz. If you care about supporting an upstart business and/or the pattern, go with the Try Agains.
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12 hours ago, DailyDi said:
Lately I have grown tired of taking my mental health drugs and struggle to force myself to take them most days. Some days I don't take them at all, other days I literally choke them down. I know it's bad to skip doses and would be worse to stop altogether, but I just don't feel like taking any more pills.
Anyone ever feel like this?
As I am in the process of some major life choices I was left with a thought that I could not shake while taking antidepressants. "Are my thoughts my own, and how much of them is chemical driven?" Was a hard feeling to shake and I almost stopped them cold turkey because of that and a couple other reasons
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@Reddy so when the cath comes out tomorrow are you going to change the name of the thread?
"Got Surgery in Mexico"
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35 minutes ago, Ineedboth1994 said:
Agreed. The mega inspire+ is hands down the best product out there IMO.
Northshore aren’t nearly thick enough or absorbent enough around the waist IMO.
Not trying to distract from @Reddy peeing his pants but since we’re all playing jeopardy music and waiting for Saturday we might as well talk about something.
Going to throw the Str8up and Tighty Whities from Tykables into the fray of premium diapers to consider. If one is going to spend $3 on a MegaMax, the world is their oyster as far as options are concerned. There are not many diapers that are more expensive and none at the case quantity that I know of.
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2 hours ago, cathdiap said:
I really hope that Reddy will soon experience the same incontinence as I do with my stent. Pain free and a complete absence of control. It's the best feeling ever for me and I assume it will be the same for Reddy too.
But if he does, I'll be a little jealous at the same time, because out of the two of us, only he will experience the mental impact of it being irreversible, and not me. Part of me really wants to experience that too, but then I remember all the times I promised myself to wear my stent for months and I just couldn't do it. It's quite a struggle I'm going through right now.
I think Reddy is brave and I wish him all the best.
I think that has been what is so alluring about the surgery for so many people. That choice and on the fencedness of untraining, hypnosis, stents, or even botox feel like temporary and possibly reversable measures. By physically destroying the muscles it is a one way street.
I think that once someone becomes truly incontinent that they will adapt and if you became permanently incontinent that you might get those feelings every once in awhile but they would pass, rather quickly even.
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Currently living vicariously through Reddy until I can gather funds, PTO, and be appropriate BMI for surgery.
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8 minutes ago, Diapered Dave said:
He's probably been "Put under" by now... And when he wakes up.....
I am sure he needs the rest. I can't image he got much sleep last night. I know I wouldn't be able to sleep waiting for something like this.
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Does this person need to stop and listen as well?
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13 minutes ago, Don Incognito said:
There has also been discussion of the idea of injecting Botox into the lower sphincter muscle, which should theoretically be much less expensive. One shot is only temporary, but I had also heard that repeated injections can render a muscle permanently inoperative.
Someone on the DD incontinence only forum posted about Botox for underactive bladder. They did not have a good experience. Apparently the muscles became paralyzed closed and they had to cath to go at all for over 3 months. I was excited about trying Botox before all this and still may try that route but it is not without its risks.
If anyone follows this link please keep in mind that it is a medically incontinence support forum.
https://incont.org/index.php?/topic/210-botox-for-under-active-bladder/
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13 minutes ago, Diapered Dave said:
Reddy... When you're there tomorrow, ask them about a group discount. 😂😁😆 Maybe you could earn a referral commission, like when you get a friend to join your cell phone plan! 😁
If everyone was down there on the same day I could see a legitimate reason to discount it. All the equipment is three and setup. Just need to do a cleaning between procedures.
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16 hours ago, Diapered Dave said:
That would be nice.... But here's the email they sent me:
Yes, we also specialize in incontinence procedures.
Currently, this surgery costs $24,899 USD. This procedure can be done at our location in Guadalajara.
You can return home in about 10-12 days.
Sincerely, Paris (Patient coordinator - MTC
With as much interest as this post has generated we should all get together and see if there is bulk/Groupon pricing 😁
Have the sales finally fried Bambino?
in Scoop The Poop
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They've gone full Kohls.
Just waiting for Bambino Bucks and a Bambino credit card.
Maybe they should have never gone full Kohls.