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  1. It is a right of passage each start of summer, my wife surprises me right after I get home and right after bath time.  The start of the shaving season starts.  I'm placed on the bed, right after she puts out all of the supplies and starts shaving.  I'm completely bare except for my head.  Every piece of hair from my chest, arms, legs, and groin area is shaved clean.  It is comfortable afterwards.  Of course, he applies baby powder afterwards to stop chaffing.

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  2. My bedtime routine is the following

     

    take a bath, with a shampoo and wash from J&J baby products

    My wife escorts me to the changing table.

    Ensure I'm all clean with wipes, lotion, and powder.  

    Right before the diaper is closed diaper rash cream is applied.

     

    Then diaper is closed.

     

    A paci is placed into my mouth

    Put into a onesie or footed pajamas and put into bed for the night.

     

  3. 10 hours ago, ~Brian~ said:

    @herb330

    for me, I’ve been a diaper lover ever since I was eight years old, and I guess it’s because of the fact that for most my childhood, I was either in school, at home in recovery from surgery after surgery, or I was in pediatric rehab 70 miles of my home. When I had to go into a place like that, it was told to me that the place was like “Club Med“. Unfortunately, that place was almost as bad as the place where my brother was, the only difference is where he was the place was airy the place was light. The people were nice, and they didn’t miss treat my brother.

    when they told me how wonderful this places, and how I could “swim every day, and have a blast, I could play with kids, my own age, and we could really have fun and I could go to school and I wouldn’t miss out on that“ I was not told that I was going to be in a position where I would be able to move around and do things for myself for about a week and then slowly, but surely they would take things away from me they wouldn’t allow me to go to the bathroom by myself, they wouldn’t let me go anywhere by myself, they wouldn’t let me make any decisions for myself, etc. etc. etc.

    basically, after a couple of weeks, I was totally diapered. I was totally wheelchair-bound, and I was being treated like I didn’t have a brain in my head, and I was being ordered to do everything they told me. If it hadn’t been for me being able to maintain my brain and be able to fight hard I wouldn’t be where I am today. I had to fight real hard, telling my parents everything that was going on down there, and they would miss treat guys like us because we had a disability. I just decided after a while that if they’re going to do that to me and they’re going to make me wear diapers, that I would let them do it because that way they wouldn’t be able to say much, but I still maintained my smart and my wits because I wouldn’t let them push me around.

    When I finally started having problems again, when I started having accidents and bouts of diverticulitis and IBS, I realize that this was not some thing that I could deal with on my own. I knew what I needed to do and I was worried that there would be something that would happen if somebody knew that I had to wear diapers again, or that I was having problems. I went to the doctor and asked his advice and asked him for help and then I got better diapers when I had to ask for more help. My doctor and my support teams have been awesome and so I have my case management team and other people that I work with, all of them have been very supportive and understanding.
     

    I found that I was having issues with having accidents and all of this, and I didn’t really want to worry about whether I was having problems because people didn’t understand. I was having problems and I was so glad after I got my mega max diapers that I was using, because it could deal with almost anything I could throw at it. Very soon after I had talked to my doctor I signed on here in August 2019, and I’ve been here ever cents, and the decision to make me go 24 seven was made by me, and as far as I’m concerned, it was the best darn decision that I ever made, and I’ll never second-guess myself again because every time I try to do that, I realize there’s a reason why I am wearing diapers and there’s a reason why they help me. My anxiety is gone, almost down to zero and everything else seems to fall into place. Because of people here on daily diapers, I have been a better person and I understand why I feel the way I do and I feel like a piece of me that was lost was found when I was 47 and I finally made the decision in 2020 to go 24 seven. 
     

    main thing I had to do was make sure that I had everything I needed if I was going to change my lifestyle to accommodate wearing diapers 24 seven 365. I had to have a way to take care of the garbage I had to have a way of cleaning myself up, and I had to have a way of having the appropriate things to deal with diaper rash, and all of that, so I ended up getting all these things because I was able to get that through with my home health agency because they can order the stuff anything else that Medicare and Medicaid would not cover the agency did. I finally realized that doing this was the best thing for me because my anxiety was running off a cliff and I couldn’t handle much more because it was just so hard. Now I feel like I can handle almost anything, and nothing can stop me. It’s one thing  to want to wear diapers, it’s another thing to have to wear diapers and need them, and I need them, but for some reason I wanted to wear them for some reason because of the way it made me feel, and I’ve always thought that something was wrong with me because of that feeling, but I’ve learned from being here that there’s nothing wrong with wanting to wear diapers or needing to wear diapers, and there’s nothing to be embarrassed about , because that is what happens. 

    As @Kawaharu as stated before, she was put back into diapers at 21. Like me, she is disabled, and she has decided to embrace the life of an adult baby. The way she handles things the way she handles them is because of that choice. This way she doesn’t have to worry about whether she has to use the bathroom or where she has to use the bathroom, she just does it because that is normal for her. Are used to worry about it, having to use the diaper, what would happen if I had to finally clean myself up or do whatever, but I quickly learned that it wasn’t as big of a deal as I was making it out to be it’s a part of life and it is normal . When you wear diapers, you are making a change to the way you handle your bathroom habits, but the idea is, there’s nothing to be ashamed of. There’s nothing to be worried about, because those who wear and use do it, because they have to, or maybe they want to, but the fact remains choice can be made , and sometimes it’s something that is not in your control. If you think of it this way, you’ll always have to use the bathroom, but I always remember that a diaper is like your friend because you are getting rid of stuff that’s in your body that junk that you know longer need, and that is a function of a diaper. 

    stress is one of the worst offenders: anxiety is another offender, and it can be quite disturbing if you were stressed out, and you have high anxiety. You have to have a way to calm yourself down in appropriate manner so that you can function as an adult, when you have to be an adult, and when you choose to be “in little mode“there are ways that you can deal with it also, but the idea here is, if you choose the lifestyle, there may be parts of it, that you indulge more than others, and there may be other parts of it, that you don’t, but the idea is, you can make the choice of whether you want to add parts of the lifestyle or not. 

    as I’ve stated one of the best things that ever happened to me, it was the day that I finally went to my doctor and said that I wanted to go 24 seven. My stress level is zero, and I love it, because even if there’s some thing that really really stresses me out, I’m calmer because I don’t have to worry one of the least important things that I have to worry about is whether I’m going to end up having to use the bathroom, because I can use it, I just have to be careful if I have to use the bathroom to do number two because of where I may be , and if I go somewhere where I need to have the ability to change, it might be some thing that I have to do. 

    I’ve dealt with being in diapers by excepting it. It took me a long time to get there, but I didn’t think it was going to be as short time before I excepted it, but thanks to people that are here and thanks to people that I trusted, and that cared about me, I was able to accept what, and who I am a lot faster, and I’m not afraid to say what I am and who I am, and I’m also not afraid to say that I’m damn glad that I am, who I am, because I wouldn’t be the same guy, and I’m glad that “piece of me” was given back to me when I was 47 and I’m glad I don’t have to look for it anymore. I am complete and I am who I am. It’s a credit to those on daily diapers that helped me become the person that I am and that accepted it, and help me to accept it it 

    I can tell you that I’m not going to change who I am: and I’m glad I don’t have to. Part of the anxiety was what people would think and what people would say, but it’s not that important, because those that love me love me because of who I am and not what I wear.. I’m lucky that I am excepted, and that I am trusted, and that people are very understanding to my situation, and because of this, it was a lot easier for me to be able to accept who I was.

    it is important to note that wearing a diaper is a positive, not necessarily a negative. I don’t have to worry anymore wherever I am, and I can usually handle most situations. My brother Richard wore diapers all of his life before he died in 1979 at the age of 10, and I understand and I empathize and sympathize with anyone who hast to wear diapers for whatever reason. You don’t necessarily have to wear diapers because you’re incontinent you could wear them for other reasons because of emotional reasons because of comfort reasons, or other situation, but don’t feel bad, because wearing diapers isn’t as bad as it may sound 

    Brian
     

    Brian

    Interesting history.  Thanks for telling me and glad to hear about your 24/7 

    10 hours ago, ~Brian~ said:

     

     

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  4. So the decision is made to be in diapers 24/7 by you and your partner.  It comes with a difficult choice. But the time has come.  The first item to go is the underwear.  Either have it removed or thrown out.  The next thing is preparing for the change and potentially having accidents.  Sometimes this can take time after a while one gets used to it.  It took me a few weeks to get used to it but have over time become more comfortable.  Of course, the first time one has an accident is the true test as that is when the change is real.

     

    How have others dealt with the first time in diapers 24/7

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  5. We are beginning to get into the cooler weather days.  It is now the case that after the occasional shave down from chest to legs and backside I'm placed into a nice diaper and then placed into a full onsie to  stay nice and warm. It makes it really more comfortable to snuggle up in the full onsie.

     

    How do others change their attire for the cooler times?

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  6. As a child, I also had many accidents and also was paced back into diapers.  Thankfully the school nurse would change me during the day and as soon as I got home I was cleaned off and then placed into a new diaper..  It became normal after a while.  My parents took away my underwear so that not allow me to try to put them back on. It wasn't punishment it was just easier

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  7. Sometimes while being home my wife would either do a diaper check or smell that I had a accident.  If their was a diaper check which was the norm.  I was first walked up to the the room and changing table.  Normally had soft music in the background  After that I would be given a baby botte of warm milk.  while the diaper was being removed.  I was then cleaned up and then right before closing my diaper I would be given a paci to stay into my mouth for the next hour during my nap.

     

    Others have a process

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