LilX

I am a little concerned because my gf and I have a long distance relationship right now, since I work in a different state than she goes to college in. It makes talking the on the phone one of our main forms of communication. It is not just like something we do on the weekends necessarily. It has become a bit more as of late, since she has started wearing almost full-time and using her diapers occasionally (she doesn't wish to become incontinent, but enjoys being wet).

I have been a member of this site for some time now and I have read a lot of things and seen members come and go. I have a loving girlfriend with which I share my wants to take care of a babygirl, and she is very open to new things. In fact we try new things all the time. However, I am concerned that what was once a fun thing to do over a long weekend is turning into a secretive lifestyle which will harm my relationship with my girlfriend, and our relationship as a couple to others. (Right now no one knows of or suspects our AB/Daddy relationship.) My girlfriend and I wish to continue exploring the AB/Daddy relationship. We don't wish to give it up yet. We are a young couple and she is finishing up school and I just started my first "real" job. Has anyone had this problem before? If so, how did you deal with it? If you need more description of my problem, please post and I will be more than willing to clarify.

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I live in Tulsa Lexi... sorry I don't make it Kansas that often... PM me if you would like to chat sometime...

I agree with BobbyC. My girlfriend and I have tried golden showers and the likes... lots of guys actually find it a turn on and just can't admit it.

I'd like to know if anyone has an answer to this one as well. It is a cute idea for a sweet babygirl who maybe doesn't feel like going poopy in her diapers... at least it saves on clean up...

If you just joined today, I think you need to realize that the group here is not about talking about "kids" and if you are looking for that type of thing, you should probably look elsewhere. However, many members do wear and talk about their experiences, but I could see a great deal of them taking offense to a message such as this. Otherwise, welcome to the site...

My babygirl usually falls asleep on me and then I usually get her up to go pee before she goes to sleep. We do the bedtime diaper change and then off to night night land... But most of the time she falls asleep on me by 11 or 12 at night.

Lots of people wear full time, but how many people are actually able to use their diapers the way they really want to? Like do you pee, mess, just wear... what does everyone else do?

Welcome to the wonderful world of diapers and the likes Princess... Enjoy your stay...

Thanks for all the support and understand. I have told my girlfriend to go ahead and to do whatever makes her feel comfortable, whether it means wearing a pad, diaper, panties... etc. I am very understanding of her problem and try and make her comfortable with the whole situation.

Thanks for the insight Nappy, I guess I did not think of it that way. I have never had any problems myself and so I guess for me it is hard to understand her change. I told her I was okay with her wanting to wear a diaper or a pull-up, but I told I wanted to understand her feelings more. She also has some other problems, with family and friends and such, and I guess I was trying to make sure that everything was okay with those things too. I love my girlfriend very much, and I am just trying to be a better boyfriend and support her at a difficult point in her life. Any other comments and insights are welcome still...

I had a question for all who are incontinent people and how you deal with the feelings involved with being incontinent. My girlfriend is NOT incontinent, however she is paranoid about wetting her pants in front of her peers. In the past she has had some problems, and she occasionally wets the bed at night (probably about once a month). Currently she wears Poise Pads to school and work, but she has been under extra stress lately and says she would rather wear a diaper, in case she has an accident. She has only had one daytime accident ever and of course many close calls, but I'm trying to understand why she wants to wear diapers for a problem I hope she doesn't develop and I really want to try to help her overcome the fear of wetting. So I'm here asking for some advice and how to deal with the feelings involved with the matter. Thanks in advance, Lil X

Was watching TV yesterday and saw a show on TV called the Starting Over House, and there was a woman who needed to grow up up because she was 40 and had never held a job. So in order to help her find reality, they dressed her up in baby clothes and took her out to a play date with young children and made her drink from a bottle, wear diapers, and wear a bonnett, etc. It should be on again this afternoon... it was the first time I have seen the show, sorry I don't know more about it. Lil X