the-dude

I'm somewhere in between lucky and unlucky on this one. I told my girlfriend (of 4 and a half years now, who has lived with me for the past 4) about 2 years ago about my diaper fetish, One night, we got hammered together and started talking about weird kinks and stuff. I told her, but only after I made her promies to at least not freak out about my fetish. She agreed, and took it well. She actually kinda chuckled a little at the thought, but I'm really comfortable with who I am and she is completely accepting of that. We have an awesome relationship. BTW she does love her line of work (aside from the obvious...) The unlucky part for me is that she happens to work with an agency that takes care of and houses developmentally disabled people, many of whom must wear diapers and be changed by the staff. So, because she has to do this stuff for work, she really doesn't like it when I do it when she's around. Her job requires her to manage houses for 2-3 days at a time, so it's pretty common for me to wear diapers for a good 3 day stretch, usually once a week, weekly. (That's usually when I freqent this site, he he he) So she just ignores my now huge stash of diapers. Yay for individual closets! So yes, I do have someone that really, really loves me, but bummer, 'cause I'll respect her wishes to get away from the crap (lol) she has to deal with on occasion at work. Life is give and take, you'll find a balance somewhere :-) Just be yourself. The Dude abides.

Just wanted to suggest www.northshorecare.com to anyone looking for good diapers at good prices in the US. I buy most of my diapers off of this site and have had nothing but good experiences. I don't know if they're the cheapest around but from my searches I have found the deals to be fair if not good. Excellent customer service, whom I have spoken with in chat and on the phone. My order is right every time. Had one goof up once, but they fixed it and were very nice to work with. A+ diapers A+ service A+ product availablity / ratings A+ no junk mail / spam / pestering - very discreet and respecting company. The-Dude

On road trips, I wear Tena Supers. They can take a decent flooding and you can continue to dribble or slowly release until you can find a rest stop. They have worked out great for me. They're moderately thick but are really comfy, have a woven shell and velcro tabs that work great, and are fairly discreet with loose pants, but at the same time offer great protection. I have used them on many a road trip with great success. Haven't had much success with any kind of pullup unless you fill them *really* slow. They're just not reliable for sitting mixed with lots of peeing. I do use them at other times, when I am out and active and need something to use very discreetly, but the capacity is no comparison. I have had the best luck with these, here are some links where I buy them from. Tena Super http://www.northshorecare.com/tena-super-night.html The Tena Extra Pull up http://www.northshorecare.com/pullons-tena.html I also like Tranquility ATN's because of the capacity and feel, and Tena Flex Briefs. The flex I would not use when sitting for extended times, but they feel great because of the style. http://www.northshorecare.com/tranquility1.html http://www.northshorecare.com/tena-flexi-briefs.html Overall, I have to say the Tena Supers are the only diaper I can rely on for hours of driving comfortably and dry.

I like the interior feel and type of material MUCH better in the Underjams than Goodnights. Goodnights are a tad roomier and the leak guards are better but, imo, the material isn't as good as the pampers product. If the damn sides were just better... I fit them snug with a 34 inch waist. The sides hold up for an hour or 2 before they begin to rip. I wear a tight pair of cotton briefs over them to keep them in place if I decide to wear them. A fresh pair of underjams is REALLY comfy. I wish they'd make another size up. I even went as far as emailing pampers co to suggest making them larger for larger people, that people in my family like them yet they are a tad undersized. Aside from the side panels, they're awesome. I buy a package once every few months, I like them that much (I have a ton of different kinds of diapers in my stash). Maybe if more people emailed them... hint hint...

For starters, Marijuana is awesome. It shouldn't be illegal - it's something that people should be free to use if they decide, since it's less harmful than alcohol and overall better with groups of people. The pretenses upon which it was made illegal are downright silly. I've smoked for years but have had to give it up for employment opportunities. I've tried a bunch of other things as well... Dextromethorphan hydrobromide [dxm] once - a mild neurotoxin available in pill form (don't take robotussin - not good for you) Coke ( 3 times - that was it. not for me - turns your body clock up waaaaay too fast, and the crash SUCKS) Mushrooms a few times - I used to grow psilocybin cubensis (cambodian gold caps) in my closet shroom lab... there's nothing like picking and eating fresh, still growing shrooms. Hold on to your hat... because it won't be a hat for long. I have manufactured Lysergic acid amide [LSA - like LSD - lysergic diethylamide] from Ipomoea tricolor Morning glory seeds but never used it... passed it to friends who confirmed that it worked ok. Booze of all sorts, of course It's been years since I've touched any of that stuff. Those were my wild party days, and they've long since gone. I suppose I might have to move to cali or europe... I can honestly say that weed is the best stuff out there. I'd be happy with nothing but smoke, but for now those days are over for me. /cry These are the few things I chose to try with my body. KNOW YOUR BODY and KNOW YOUR SUBSTANCE before you do anythying!!! At least my diapers are legal!!! I don't think I'll ever give them up. That would be sheer lunacy! I'd be happy to entertain questions if anyone is curious. http://www.hulu.com/watch/68615/family-guy-bag-of-weed Peace, love, happiness, Diapers! -The-dude

Answer # 2... now that's just awesome. That's my new answer!!!

Diaperbook was around for a lot longer than three months. I was a member there, and it was indeed like facebook. They had an amazing diaper encyclopedia to which many members contributed. Forums weren't as good. Granted, it was nowheres near as large as dd, and was definately to facebook as diaperspace is to myspace - the layouts were very much the same. I'm a member of ds (the_dude) and was a member of diaperook until it died. I would love to see it back in action but regrettably I don't foresee that in the near future. I believe the webmaster of db was from france, in that never once did they answer any of my email requests for various things - not one response. I believe because of this, it had a large international population. It was ancient, free ad-less hosting from lycos as far as I can tell, and since lycos felt they should no longer be providing free services to such bandwidth consuming sites, they shut down their free "unlimited" hosting. So that was that - and I have yet to see that they have transferred the domain, because I check back with them once in a while. I wish it was still there. I frequent DD but I suppose that my reg. here was due to the disappearance of db. Well, nice to meet another forum's members. Hope to stick around for a bit. I'm sure DD won't be disappearing any time soon.