Nappied Dan

Hi there, I have heard about this development too and I was a little upset. I prefer plastic covered diapers. I guess that this will eventually mean the end of the regular plastic backed abenas. I look forward to hearing of anyone who has tried them

I agree with the ebay idea. ebay really is the place to go to buy stuff. A lot of the specialist websites and suppliers are very pricey. If you go onto ebay you are sure to find some bargains. Search under "adult baby" there are about 800 listings of goods to buy. I have never been burnt yet buying ABDL stuff. The sellers tend to be very good and discrete.

Hi Chris, Sydney here. Welcome to the board. My family is from up north, so I do get to Brisbane a few times a year. take care

Without a doubt in my mind this is the best diaper site on the net. Free chat, great boards and nice people. Am I missing something better?

At first I thought I was going to read a poem and then it turned into a question. I rather liked the poem part the story though. I have not had any experiences with blow up dolls myself, but I rather imagine that they dont mind what diapers they wear. But for yourself though, there are lots of discussions about diapers in the diapers only section. There are also lots of reviews of diapers in the diaper reviews section. I am sure that there will be something there that you might find useful. You could try getting in touch with a supply company and hitting them for some diaper samples. Many companies are willing to supply you with some free samples that you can try to work out what you like.

This is another interesting topic. This is such a great place to come to discuss these sort of things. As a bedwetter I have often found the issue of deciding to tell people to be a large burden. I myself have always thought it important to tell the significant partner such as girlfriends about it in the past. Only when things have become a little more serious than a few dates and laugh over a beer. I have always been a little more reserved in that regard. I have thought it better to work out if I am serious about the person before deciding if I would tell the person everything about myself. I guess it is like there is a bit of luggage that we carry around with ourselves that we dont always need to share immediately with even our best friends and girl friends. Take for example that you might have a parent that has a problem with drinking or gambling or the like. Well from my perspective that is a rather personal issue that a person is dealing with within their family. I would not expect that even my closest friends or girlfriends would want to share that immediately with me. At the end of the day for most of us diapers or being an AB is a fetish rather than being an all-consuming way of life. Most of us are balanced people with a wide range of interests, wearing diapers or acting like a baby is an important thing, but there is a whole lot more to our lives. To this end, I have always thought it important to not to spring this on anyone until they have had a chance to see the whole of me. On the topic of telling others, I also think it is important to keep boundries in my life. By this I mean, there is no reason why I need to share with all of my friends the fact that I like to wear nappies. At the end of the day, I just do not see any point in this. As much as I am sure it would not alter my friendships, I have no idea what kinky things they get up to in the privacy of their bedrooms, and I really have no interest. On the topic of telling parents. This is one that I do have a strong opinion on. That is why tell them at all. Our parents worked hard to get us out of nappies as babies. I cant see how they could understand a desire to wear them as adults. I really think that if you tell your parents, you run the risk that it will erode the respect that they have for you as an adult. Perhaps I have always felt more secure within myself and have never really craved parental acceptance of any aspect of my life, but I always had the sense that they would be supportive of me as an adult. I think putting this fetish onto your parents is not really a very adult way of dealing with it in your life. Imagine how you would feel if you discovered your parents kinky fetishes? Imagine your parents sitting you down over a cup of tea and telling you that they were into a fetish like BDSM? I just cant see how telling parents about these things would improve your relationship with them. I hate to sound like a selfish person, but before I tell anyone about this stuff, I always ask myself the question what is in it for me? Am I hoping to acheive something for myself? Perhaps some sort of comfort and understanding? Perhaps a willing participant? When I am done asking if there is anything in it for me, I always ask myself what the other person gets out of it. Is it something they really need to know because I hope to form a lasting relationship with them and they really need to know? When you look at things in that way, there seems to more selfish reasons for telling others than reasons in that persons interest. Sorry to rant on, but this is one of the constant topics in the ABDL world that I find interesting to follow what other people think.

Very sorry to hear that this did not work out for you. PeeHD those are very wise words on love. I agree with your thoughts that the reason you were dumped was not because of the underwear that you wear. The great (and often bad) thing about love is that it makes you blind to just these sort of imperfections in others. I suspect that if this woman had real feelings for you, then the diapers would have not been an issue. I dont know if you will take comfort in that thought or not, but dont despair too much over this. I have always treated these sort of experiences as learning time. You meet some nice girls and you meat some bad ones. If at the end of it all you have learned something about yourself and what you like and value, then the bad experiences can become good ones.

Well Robert had a great idea of trying the diaper companies for free samples. You could always try more suppliers, you would be surprised how many are prepared to give free samples. I once got a box delivered that had about 15 samples in it. Some companies are very generous. Take advantage of it! Another thing that worked really well for me when I was a poor university undergrad was paid work. I know that it is not that much fun for some people, but it kind of works. It goes like this - you give up a small portion of your time to do a task for someone (called your boss) and then at the end of it, this boss gives you some money. Some of the time the boss was prepared to pay "black money" meaning that I did not pay tax, this worked out the best. Some of the things I did to earn this money was waiting tables, working in stores and cleaning jobs. Not very glam, but these bosses were nice, I met nice people and got paid money so that I could buy things (like drinks and diapers)! Good luck!

Interesting question and one that I have thought about too! The diaper companies are very smart ones. They know who their main audience is and unfortunately folks that is not us. In fact really when I look at their main audience is not even really the people that really do need their products. I think in reality their main audience is the institutions such as nursing homes that actually buy loads and loads of diapers. Some of the companies such as Depend do focus on consumers, but being the intelligent company that they are, there is no way that they are going to alienate their main customer base by pandering to ABs and DLs in producing a product that would really cause embarassment to their "real" customers that would be horribly offended by people who enjoy using their products. If you go over to the depend site, there is no way that the company would be unaware that there are people that like their products a little more than they should. And you only need to see the reaction of people on legitimate incontinence forums to see what their general attitude is to this lifestyle. It is something that a lot of them are very embarassed about. It would take a brave diaper company to really go after DLs and ABs as customers I think.

Hi, Another great topic. I have been recently wondering about this too. The differences between people that classify themselves as AB or DL. I would have always said that I am a DL, but I find there is a big grey line there. Recently I had acquired a couple of goodies from ebay that would fit into the AB category of things. A few pairs of pants and a onesie. I never really experimented with being an AB before, I dont think it is for me, but I do like wearing those things. Of the many people that I chat to in the room, you dont need to scratch too far below the surface to realise that there are a lot of people that say they are DLs that do have some AB interests. It is my thought that everyone who is into wearing nappies must have at some time really considered AB type stuff. I really have never met anyone here that I would say is a pure DL. I think however I have met many people here that have a really strong AB side.

Yes I have worn a nappy to my university lectures. It is even better to wear one during exams. No need for a visit to the bathroom!

Hi Rhezz, This is another interesting topic. Sorry if you think that you want to quit permanently. This is not the right place to come for support (chuckles to self). Looking at your age, at 18 I can sympathise. At that age I often was torn between my love of wearing nappies and leading a normal life. At that age spent a lot of time with other people. Not really ever spending too much time by myself to reflect on wearing nappies. I always knew that other people would not really understand my desire to wear nappies nor would it ever be an acceptable thing with my friends or girls. I think that not allowing these desires to overtake leading a normal life is the most positive thing that you can do. Make sure that you spend plenty of time doing normal things and leading a normal life. It is really all about having a balance in your life so that any one aspect or vice does not take over.

Hi, I purchased a pair like those Giraffe print pull on nappies. I am very happy with this purchase. It is without a doubt the best AB type thing I have ever purchased. So very thick and comfortable!

Perhaps it was deleted by accident? I dont think there was anything unsuitable in the original post. The question was about whether parenting had changed your attitude toward diaper wearing fetish if I recall correctly? If this is an unsuitable topic for discussion, I am sorry, please remove my post. But to answer your question. I am not a parent, but there are plenty of children in my family so I feel I am in a position to post some thoughts on the topic. From my perspective, being around children in nappies is just nothing at all, I just feel no connection between my cousins/neices/nephews in nappies and my own desires to wear them. My experience is that I am able to totally seperate the two things. I never wear nappies when I am around them and to be honest I find their nappies a bit gross. I sort of think that their nappies are just another part of them being a baby. I have been peed all over when they leak and puked all over heaps of times. But then again, I am a DL rather than an AB. It would be interesting to hear the thoughts of parents and people that are ABs.

Wow, That was one long story and very well written. Interesting to see how someone could ever get to a point in their lives when wearing diapers and acting like a baby becomes an obsession that takes over their entire life. Good luck to the guy, but the story of how he got to this point in his life is a rather sad one. I think for most of us this is just a fetish or pass time, not a life filling every moment thing.

Yeah, I often wonder about those nappies with the prints on them as well. I have seen a review of them that said they were terrible nappies but that the printed tapes were really nice. I would like to think that the products were targeted at AB and DL customers, but I really doubt it. Most of the company's customers really need to wear them and are probably very embarassed about it. I really doubt companies are going to target people that get a kick out of wearing their products. The DR P ones come from Asia, they just do funny things there! No one could really work out why they do it, they just do. Anyone here ever try the nappies?

Yes welcome, I am new here too after being a regular at DPF for years. The DPF chat sux, the message boards are over run with idiots and the wetset message board is beyond redemption. I agree that there are so many nice people here. It is a refreshing change (no pun intended) to be able to come here and post topics without getting flamed for no reason. The chat is just fantastic as well.

Hi Samus, I am from Australia too. Sydney DL here. I know the nappies you are talking about. These are called Tena Flex super. These are not the very best nappies that you can get, but are surprisingly good. These are the Tenas with the cloth cover and the belt system. Go to the diaper reviews section and see a review of the Tena. They have been in Coles and Woolies for a couple of years, and I suspect they are not the biggest sellers. You can often find them on special often. My local woolies was trying to get rid of them for $5 per pack! Very good luck to me! Funny thing is even at $5 a pack they could not get rid of them. Seems that in Aust, people who genuinly have incontinence just wont wear anything that looks like a real nappy.

This is a great topic, My earliest nappy memory is from when I was about 2 to 3. I was with my parents and a friend of the family. My parents were cleaning this house for the friend if I remember correctly. Dad was cutting the grass and mum was washing the windows. I remember that I must have been getting potty trained at the time, but for some reason, I was wearing a nappy that day. I remember sitting on a little kids seat on the back of the house, watching the grown ups do all the chores. I remember that I was bored and kept being bad. My parents were busy and told me to sit down and play. The most vivid part of the memory is the part where I was standing up holding onto the rail and I was pooing in my nappy and weeing at the same time. I really remember at the time how good it was to be doing it. I then sat back down with a huge big poo in my nappy. The next part of the memory is when mummy found I had dirtied in my nappy. Boy she was not happy about that! I remember her taking my overalls and the plastic pants and cloth nappy I was wearing off and putting a new nappy on. Then I remember her at the hose in the garden hosing off my poopy nappy as I was sitting on the seat again watching. It kind of goes a bit blank after that, but I wore nappies well lpast the age when I should have been potty trained and especially for bed time.

I have had 2 UTIs in the last few years and they were both very unpleasant and one time I really wet my pants on accident. The pain is very bad when urinating. It feels like you are peeing fire. One thing that really helps when you get an infection is an urinary alkalizer. You buy them from the pharmacy, they come in sachets and you disolve them in water. They neutralise your pee right away and make it not as painful.

Hi again, If you are going to ebay them, it would be great if you posted a link to the items in here! thanks

Here is another idea. You could fake getting a bladder infection. Do a little research on this one. If the infection is severe enough, you will have some leakage. Tell her that you went to the doctor and he told you to drink cranberry juice and wear a diaper. A little strange perhaps, but hey it might work!

Hi Pampersboy, Do you know of any place on the web that sells H&M? I have heard they are good, but could not find any on the web. thanks

Hi, Just wanted to know how many other real bedwetters are out there. I never really stopped wetting the bed. Tried to stop using meds once and hated it. Would much rather wear a nice thick nappy to bed than take the meds. Who else out there is a real bedwetter?

Hi Paul, I am from Australia here. I get them from one of the local suppliers. Just walk in, order, pay and pick up! The local supplier here sells all of the brands available in Australia, they are very reasonably priced and the service is great. Sometimes I even buy them from Abena Sanicare direct, their warehouse in Sydney is very close to where I live as well. I have also ordered them direct from Abena over the phone and had them delivered. You pay the same cost, but they send them the next day by courier delivery. Very handy if I know I am going to be home all day during the week. You will not be able to order any decent supplies through the pharmacies here. Some of them sell Tena, but that is as good as it gets. So if you want the good stuff, you need to go to a special supplier. Unfortunately we dont get attends here at all though. Good luck