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For me there a No I grew up wearing the 80s plastic backed disposables. For me plastic pants bring back memories of potty training. Which was of course awful times

Well I dont wear 2 separate diapers but I do combine 2 diapers. I use the depend tape on diapers and add the padding from a depend adjustable underware to the inside of the tape one one. Open up the adjustable underware stretch out flat (I use chair legs to help) and cut all the way through around the padding. Flip this over and peel off the backing. Now you have just the pad and inner lining to put inside the brief. Open up the brief and rub the inner lining to loosen it from the stock padding. This is where the add a pad will go. Between the original pad and the stock inner lining. Just cut a small slit through the backing or inner lining near the back. The tricky part is putting it in without bunchin everything up. I fashioned 2 sort of paddles from that craft of foam board stuff They make it easy. New pad between them. Slip in and remove one paddle at a time. Reach in and unfold new pads wings. Tape up the slit and bingo. Stuffed depend Lasts me from 630 am to around 5 pm every day.

Maybe someone just dosnt know how to properly shut the back door on a truck. I actually witnessed this once. I'm driving along with one of those trucks with a roll up rear door in front of me. As it goes over a bump the rear door begins to freely roll up and down about half way open at times. Turns out the truck was carrying tons of newspapers Notice I said WAS. Every bump deposited dozens at a time all over the roadway. And the driver. Clueless! I wonder if the door happened to slam back shut on it's own did the driver even realize a thousand newspapers were missing. Perhaps he thought he was robbed. Lol.

1 it is a crime 2 I'm not threatening to sue any one Your correct, to sue you have to prove damages Greater than emotional 3 I have reported it to YouTube because it DOES violate there terms of service 4 I made this thread just so others would flag the vid. As that's the only way yt takes anything seriously. Mass complaints 5 I didn't make this thread to be a civil rights debate. That's been done to death. 6 I understand the point of just not letting these people get u mad or youll always be mad I'm not it's just not that big of a deal. And I even support tcbys1 right to put up a vid saying were all sick and weird. But accusing us of being criminals. That crosses the line 7 I'm not campaigning for ab/dl rights to openly practice in public that would cause more Bad publicity and is just kinda weird if you ask me. 8 I'm shocked that this is the response from people here. Remember. This person is accusing YOU of being a CRIMINAL

Ok I'm not saying we need to start some public campaign for ab/dl acceptance. But when someone is publicly accusing me of being a low life criminal then yea I feel a need to defend myself. If it was someone publicly accusing a police officer or politition or some celebrity of a horrable crime you can be sure they would have an ensloth of sue happy lawyers there to defend them. This tcbys1 person is just a rebel without a cause. He/she wants to make themselves feel powerful an important by starting a crusade against anything they don't like or understand. We've been chosen as a target Why. Because were different ? If someone stood up in public pointed their finger at you and shouted out this person is a murder or a rapist or a thief would you just sit there and take it. I'd probably break their jaw. I dont see this any differently just cause its on YouTube

Does it really matter. Well does it affect my personal life No. Does it even occupy one tenth of a percent of my time. No. But it's just the principal of it. We get enough bad publicity from corrupt media reporters and those unfortunate incidents where one of our own community commits a crime. We certainly don't need any further bad rep from hate mongers like tcbys1

Well. It's not really in the news but it's in the social media. I recently happened upon 2 videos posted on YouTube by the user tcbys1 which accuse all members of the ab/dl community of being sick wrong pedofiles. I have already filed complaint with you tube officials under the premis that this is hate speech and is a crime. I'm also looking into possible legal action. I urge everyone to view for themselves and feel free to flag and or report these vids. My reason for posting this is not only to bring attention to this incident but to ask that someone more computer savvy than myself create a forum or page of some sort where we can all post links or search criteria to bring a community wide awareness of such negative postings. Obviously we can be far more effective at defending ourselves if we are united

Ocean county here too

I'm from the northern part of ocean county. Don't know if you'd call it south jersey or central jersey, kinda depends on where you are. But I'm here and allways looking for friends.

Hey Glenn. Can't wait for the party tomorrow. If you see this message could you please send me your phone number again just in case I get lost or anything. Thanks

Hey Glenn. In case you didn't get my email I'd love to attend if there's room

Hey Glenn I'm terrably sorry I know I RSVPd but unfortunatly I've been sick for almost a week with strep. I was hopeful that I'd feel good enough by this evening but not that lucky. Right now I'm all doped up on cough syrup and in no condition for an hour long drive in the dark to somewhere unfamilier. Hopefully my seat will serve someone else well. As allways I'll be thinking of you all and I hope everyone has a good time.

Im free to attend so count me in. RSVP

Well although Ive yet to meet a significant other on this or any site I have met in person a few dozen people through this site. Far more than I have on any other site.

If it's not too late to RSVP then count me in. I should have enough time to get there on time.

Wow. So many announcments. I'm so confused. One post makes me think I already missed the central munch. The next says it's next week. You can count me in for any munches on weekends. And I may be able to attend the central one if it's less than an hour away and late enough for me to get there on time But early enough for me to be in bed by 11ish. I really wish I could attend all of the munches and parties and everything and I feel so deflated every time I miss out. I've been to a few so far and every time it's so much fun. I really wanna make it to the next party.

In nj they actually regulate the hight from the ground to the bottom of the doors. I guess because this is not easily changed. And the tire diameter is regulated by a percentage of increase from stock depending on the weight class of vehicle. As far as driving a small vehicle. Don't try telling me it's safer. Big wins in accidents 99percent of the time. Someone hit my friend head on in a cat. He was in an excursion. He drove home and the car, totaled and both people injured and off to he hospital. Also believe it or not my truck is formits size extreemly efficient. I get like 17 mpg. It's all about the turbo you have on an engine. I'm surprised there not mandated on everything. I replaced my stock turbo with one that gave me 6 mpg better than stock despite the lift and larger tires And I was in a roll over once. Learned my lesson. When you go up you go wider! M truck is like 6 inches wider than stock and passed a stability test at the DMV state inspection faclity. I have also upgraded the steering components to a hydroulically assisted system so manuvering is easier than stock and the steering is stabilized at all speeds. Pretty much upgraded everything except the engine it's self 7k dolled trans and the llift is not a cheap dangerous kit with blocks and stuff. Its a 5k doller pure performance 8 inch desert racing long arm coil over suspension system. Excessive? Yeah. But fun as hell to drive and i like doing things once and doing them right. Oh and I didn't keep the deer although I wish I knew someone who wanted it. I hate seeing any animal go to waste. Oh and the headlights no worries I properly readjusted them. Most people neglect this step when raising a truck and I hate it. It even blinds me way up there lol. It's sad really so many people lift things poorly and give us all a bad name.

Well more of a huge buck. That's costing me huge bucks. Two days ago on the way home from work a very large male deer decided to run full speed into the side of my truck. It hit my passenger rear door and wiped out everything from there back. Whole bed side everything. And when it hit it actually spun me out luckily I'm used to off road driving where your nearly spinning out all he time so I was able to react fast enough to not roll my truck into the hotdog stand I nearly took out. I had to dile 911 for the first time in a long time. And get a police report so my insurance will cover it. And they do cover deer colision. That's the good news. However I have a thousand dollar deductable Boooo. But at least I'm not as dead as the deer. Had I been in a car or even regular truck the outcome would have been bad. For those who don't know me and my truck it's a ram 2500 diesel lifted 8 inches Rollin on 38.5 inch tires. Pretty much the maximum legal in nj

I'm just glad to see I'm not the only discovery channel addic here. Lol

Ok well I'm in a situation where I can't really mail order things here so Im stuck with depend max absorbancy briefs. By themselves, terrable! So I stuff em. It's fairly easy with the right brands some just use too much glue and won't work easily. Depends are great for stuffing I add the pad from depend adjustable underware to the briefs. Step one. Open up the depend adjustable underware and tear the sides apart so it can lay out flat on the floor (carpet helps). I like to hold the two front side flaps stretched out with the legs of a heavy chair that way I can hold the back two withmy feet. So it's spread wide open. Step two. Cut all the way through the adj underware with a knife or sharp razor around the perimeter of the padding. Step three. Carefully peel the backing off of the pad. All you should have left is he stuffing pad with the inner liner attached to one side. Set this aside for now. Step four. Open up the depend brief and hold open witn the chair legs like you did previously. With it taught rub the padding around to loosen the inner liner from it. Then cut a slit with wise through the inner liner of the brief about an inch from the back of the pad. Step five. The trickiest bit. You now have the brief laid out with a suitable pocket to accept the pad from the "underware". The hard part is insertion. For this I made two long sort of paddles out of foam board. I put the pad on top of one paddle fold the flaps inward and put the other paddle on top so the pad is small enough width wise to be inserted through the opening in the briefs lining. The paddles make it easy to insert the pad all the way to the front of the brief. Then pull one paddles out one at a time so the pad stays in the brief. Reach in and unfold the flaps. Step six. Now just use some tape to seal up the insetrion point. I like to put the tape on the inside of the lining with the sticky side actually facing toward me. That way it's behind the lining and I can hardly tell it's there.

Well although I'm not a "shore" person I do live there. I'm in brick which is right next to pt pleasant.

Unfortunatly I will likely not be able to make either of these. I got a new job recently. Last week was my first. So no days off yet. This means the ny munch is completely out of the question and even the central munch is about an hour north of here so it would be a very late night for me to be able to get up at 5 am the next morn. I'm not complaining but I sems like the munhes get farther and farther north every time. Central is now north jersey and north is now in ny ? I can't wait for the great adventue munch. That will be about 20 min sw of me, an area I'd consider to be "central".

Guess I must be a loon. I think they should ban ocean Drilling forever, period. There IS oil elsewhere and there are many other technologies which work and dont carry with them the potential to kill our planet. I'm so sick of people who worry about the oil workers who can't drill. To me there no different than people who make guns or nuclear weapons. Can be useful, but they are helping kill people. Everyone in oil IS doing just that willing or not. It's just fact oil is bad for our planet and all the life on it. Pleanty of jobs will be needed to bring new clean technologies to the mainstream. The problem presents it's own solution if we just stop being blind to them and stuck unmourned old ways.

Yeah! I thnk that's it.

I forget the name of the place (I'll find out) but there's this bar right on the boardwalk that makes these big huge pizzas. But I think a boadwalk type thing would be cool again. Good food. Drinks. Pleanty of room, they have like non waited tables. And if we get tired of being in the noisy bar we can stroll the boardwalk without looking out of place.