TBlazer

Yes, ask the chick out next time! Get to know her! You can't give us juicy tid bits and then leave us hanging! And more importantly, look at it this way- 5 years from now, either she'll be that chick who you thought might be an AB, or she'll be..... the world is yours, my friend!

Who cares? If youre worried about being "outted" then you shouldn't be there in the first place. And what the hells with this paranoia anyways? What kind of lie are you guys living so that you are so afraid of someone finding out about your baby side? It's like an ex girlfriend pointed out to me, this thing isn't nearly as weird as it seems. The more you're open to it and letting people close to you in on it, the less stress (and less reliance on the internet for socializing) you'll have. Cheers to the women who are able to join a dating site where they are outnumbered one hundred to one! If only such a site existed for men in this fetish!

Hahaha Sarahs post is friggin hilarious. However in a male situation this will make them want to open it more. A regular lock box stashed out of sight will do just fine-just tell people its personal and leave it at that. And hell ya you should try wearing to class! While I enjoyed my diapers living off campus and in a shared house, I never went to class or the library diapered and now that I think about it wish I did. What a great excuse to wear a diaper-education is too important for the rest rooms to get in the way!

Is the comfort of wearing diapers and the comfort of satisfying an addiction the same thing? If so, than I could see how one would lead to more of the other. And I know that the satisfaction of wearing a diaper far outweighs the social pressures to not act like a baby. I think understanding the fact that what we're told as being right and wrong is a lot of bs opens us to exploring other desires that may other wise not be realized because we dont realize any other fantasies. Seems like there are so many odd connections between our personality traits that it would be impossible to tell. The concept, though, made me think on a deeper level than some other persons post about what position to be in while peeing. Thanks.

If anything it shows how disconnected from reality some families are. To go around acting like that means you have no clue as to what is going on in this world. Oil spills, wars over oil, wars over religion, poverty, and massive "natural" disasters occur at an increasing rate, and yet somehow these kids think they're special. Goths were different in my high school-they all all dressed fairly uniquely and clearly just didn't want to conform to societies standards. Yet they all were fairly unique in their personalities and views. Goes to show that when you place so much emphasis on clothing and conformity you're bound to get a few oranges on the apple tree. But seriously-wearing tails to school? Just another fad that will go away shortly. At least they're reading books again, even if it is a first grade reading level in a teenager storyline.

In case you havent been, foreverakid.com does custom clothing. I've heard shes a good seamstress. And I also was kinda confused by jumpinjammerz-I saw that on their website after I bought these. They are from the discounted section-perhaps they were just a single run? I sent an email to find out.

I own a few footed pajamas, a couple of which are from jumpin jammerz. Sometime ago they switched from manujacturing in Canada (nice) to China (not so nice) and the quality shows it. I say if you're going to spend that much on clothing, have it custom made. It will fit so much nicer. Dont know about you, but everything I've bought has always been slightly off in the sizing, and how nice would it be to have something that fit perfectly. Doesn't happen often for the tall folk, at least. And saving a little aint so bad!

Does anyone know if the mother to be realizes shes on a fetish website? I wonder the same about photos of college girls who think it's cute to go out dressed as a baby for Halloween. Makes me feel sketchy when I open up photos like these.

I think there's some assumptions here. We developed a relationship, then I moved, then it didn't work for her. There's a hell of a lot more too it then that, but no need for the details. Implying that this is an online BS relationship is pretty insulting. I tried the online thing after our breakup and I found it was just a way for women to get hit on by lots of lonely men, feel good about themselves, and shop for a date. I mean, someone who ASKED ME FOR A DATE stood me up. WTF, mate? My experience with women has been they want all or nothing. The only long distance relationships I have heard of started with men wanting to keep things going, then women eventually saying it wasn't working for them (or they cheated on their men and that was the excuse, "it wasn't working") I think it has to do with security issues, and the fact that men hit on women, which gives them lots of options vs a man who has to make it on his own. I know it works both ways, but this has been my experience.

Haha I agree completely dave-seriously folks. If you like to put a diaper on for fun, you're acting like a baby. And you're an adult. Put the two together, and you describe everyone here nicely, minus the sublabels we give ourselves. Explore the baby side and see how far it goes-I think it's just a matter of what you're comfortable with.

The question is then, where is our sheep dog? That is a great analogy-our community as yet has no role models in the public eye, no one to say "Hey leave us AB's alone! We're cute, fun, and great in bed!" It would be great for someone to help bring us around and give direction. As far as the wolves go, I know how to fire a 12 gauge. And isn't someone on here a bounty hunter? Problem solved.

Word to the advice from everyone, it's much appreciated. The positive side to this whole thing is that I'll be forcing myself to get out and make more friends in the area. It's true-loneliness is self perpetuating-you get depressed when youre lonely, and when you're depressed you don't feel like meeting people. If anyone can explain this phenomenon better (like a psychologist) that would be enlightening. I even tried the online dating thing over the last couple weeks-what a joke. A girl actually messaged me within the first five minutes of signing up, and before long we had a date planned-and I was stood up. The funny thing is, I felt nothin about it-no anger, no depressing thoughts. I think the whole internet to real life transition is new to me, and as such I don't think much of it. So fuck that-I'm going to the bar for food, drinks, and real life interaction. I'll put one back for you guys-hearing about marriages being broken up puts things into perspective. Sorry to hear about that alexis. I wish I could own a 747 that was decked out as a club. Then I could fly around the world, picking up DD members and actually getting to meet the people behind the type face. Whos with me? And if the hookup thing doesn't work, there's always bambinos and my footed pajamas. I do love being an AB.

For my fellow single ABs, pour out a little liquor! My girlfriend broke up with me two weeks ago, and man, no matter what I do it's hard to not be drug down by the weight of loneliness. I live in the middle of nowhere and can't wait to move elsewhere. This was the first girl I told about my AB side (NOT the reason we broke up) and man, it's hard not to feel the loss. For the first time in years I felt like I was falling in love, but long distance relationships don't seem to work out, do they. For all the love sick and broke driftin AB's out there, this one's for you *tips 40*

Soo.... about a year and a half ago I posted one here looking for help. I wasn't sure if I was willing to accept my AB side (even though I've been indulging since I was a toddler) and wanted some advice on how to move forward. Some people said to just pull up the boot straps and accept myself, and someone who PMed me described his situation as removing himself from being an AB so he could have a "normal" relationship. Really, that was my problem-I was tired of just having flings, and didn't want to date someone without telling them my secret. I've had two relationships in the past where I wanted so bad to tell her about this side of myself, but I could never build up the trust and confidence to do so. With some thought on this, I decided I would never be able to keep this to myself the rest of my life. It's been a year and a half, and long story short, I'm seeing someone who knows about my true self. I decided last night that I needed to share something with her, and she was so damn cool about it all. Totally accepting, and she even wants to try it herself! I feel so close to this girl right now. I would do anything for her-and now I know she would do the same for me. God damn, isn't life good when we make it so. Thank you everyone on DD, you make life easier. If it wasn't for all the postings by people in AB aware relationships, I'm not sure if I would have worked up the courage to do this. If anyone would like to talk or get some advice, just PM me. I'm here for you. -TBlazer

DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER Haha seriously man, you must feel like a million bucks. Isnt it great when the right one just falls into your life like that? So ya, it sounds like you know what you are doing, and she's definitely into you if she's showing up to help set up a superbowl party. Seems like if shes ok about you ordering her diapers, then she's in the mood for something new. Make it blow her world. Fuck ya dude, enjoy life. And I CHALLENGE anyone to beat me to the next post like this. Fuck this loneliness crap, the world is turning and it's like so many of us here are just waiting for someone to hold out their hand and invite us for the ride. Ain't gonna happen, not now, and definitely not 20 years down the road. This will be my last post until I have something positive about my relationships to share-enough of these depressing "how do I find an AB girl" posts. Thanks for the inspiration and positive vibes.

Ya I've looked, and can't find it, but all that means is that I haven't looked enough. Sall good, I'm just curious and busy at the same time, and often people who've posted in threads have an easier time finding them then someone who has not. And wayne, I'm a teacher for a living. I can't tell you how many times I've had to restate something to adults over and over again before they get it. It's all good, if I didn't want to help them I wouldn't be here as a teacher, not tell them they're doing something wrong. There are no stupid questions, only stupid answers.

Considering how complex AB/DLs are in their personalities and wants/desires, I don't think something like eHarmony is good for you. I mean, just look at the couples they parade on T.V. Can anyone say vanilla? No thanks. That said, if someone truly loves you, they'll love every bit of you, including the AB side. They might not initially be all about taking part in it, but what turns you on is what will turn her on, and vice versa, so just give it time. Living in a small town sucks balls (Im there right now) when it comes to meeting anyone who isn't completely vanilla. Almost every girl I meet around here is white, likes guys who drive trucks, and doesn't trust people who are "liberal." The rest who seem more open are single with at least one kid, so I'm guessing they're willing to be more accepting if they can get a decent father for their child. This is a generalization and I'm sure there are quite a few exceptions, but the smaller the pond the fewer the fish to catch, and the harder they are to find single. Personally, I drive an hour and a half to spend time with a girl whom I consider to be simply amazing. You will to if the connection is right. Find the nearest urban center and join some clubs/interest groups that you can meet women at. Just be honest, open, and don't be afraid of rejection when the time comes to share the secret. Life moves on, regardless if you do or not. So ya, fuck the internet for dating. What a bunch of garbage. And here's my reasoning why: Good luck my friend.

Thats too bad about the hold out on the treasures. Is it just a rumor about Mike trying to get the stories here? That would be incredible. But man, if this Mark is seriously asking a million or more for it, I dunno. Maybe some rich AB can buy it up and hopefully share.

Wow, thanks Angela for that bit of history. I swear, every post of yours is pure substance and nothing else. I also found out I wasn't alone in the world thanks to DPF. Man what a great site to stumble upon back in 97. I remember requesting a catalog and running home after school to get it before my sisters made it back, haha that would have been terrible. Somehow I managed to order several times from them as a teenager without ever getting caught, god bless them. It would be incredible to have their store back-at least the literature and other media would be good. Can anyone connect with who owns the left over inventory (is there a left over inventory)? I'd like to get my hands on some of the stories they published-maybe we could at least get them to pass it along to DD, Im sure a fundraiser would succeed. And ya, DPF went the way of the dark side, as did [That site], but at least the evolution has produced something even greater.

Ugh I hear ya man. I recently tried to talk to a handful of "local" girls on craigslist and man what a disaster. Two didn't respond (maybe I was creepy? lol) and the other three tried to get me to sign up for a sight. I forget exactly what the line was, but something like "you seem like a really nice guy, so much different then the other creeps out there." All because I told you my name and what I do? Jeezum. The internet is swarming with REALLY horny guys (isnt porno still the number one search item?) and for the few girls that venture online it must be like jumping into a shark tank. Given that any stranger could be a rapist in todays world, it makes sense that only a few words could scare a girl off. I say leave the internet for anonymous friendships, and keep real life for the personal ones. After my craigslist fiasco I decided to go back to the tried and true way: introducing myself to girls and talking to them. Its a lot less creepy, and frankly, most AB girls I read about online say they were turned onto it by their boyfriends, meaning ITS UP TO YOU. Good luck my friend.

Go for it. Just be sure to tell us what happens.

I would wipe my ass with hundred dollar bills and send one to every legislator in the NY Congress for their re-election campaign. Fing greedy a-holes would probably put it into their purse anyways. But in all seriousness, wouldn't it be nice to not have to dream about these things? I think if anyone on the board wins it's mandatory that he or she buys property and sets it up as a AB/DL vacation meet and greet center, so we can all share the wealth. Damn that would be cool-how nice would it be to go somewhere to meet only ABs and DLs, like a convention of sorts, but less hotel and more Honu. And travel is something nice too-I'm with others on this one, a little extra travel would be nice, though I would like to take more like a year off at a time to explore, with spurts of volunteering in each country I'm in. To spend a month hiking around Lago Atitlan in Guatemala would be incredible. And a house on Caye Caulker in Belize as well for the weekend get-aways. And while I'm at it I'll take the time to get my pilot's lesson and a cessna. Now we're talking. And as long as we're dreaming I want to bring back Billy Mayes. His time was not up. Same to every musician who's OD.

The only side effect I get from my anti depressant is an increased interest in pink floyd, followed by rampant munches that always devastate my cupboards. Sex is better as well. It works great, supports the local economy, and if you know the right people, it's organic too! When I was home for the holidays, I made a personal discovery-all of my closest family members have been off and on depressants at various stages of their life, except me. Now I know why! I self medicate, and it doesn't require a prescription card, and doesn't make me impotent and mentally unstable. My dad drinks, watches TV into the wee hours of the morning, and is on a sleeping pill and anti-depressant. We (as in my family) are trying to move him to a healthier lifestyle. Really it's the economy and problems at work that have done him in. I think when your on that many drugs, even if at different times of the day, the side effects can add up to something worse then the original ailment, which results in more abuse of said drugs. Thankfully for you, incontinence is kinda fun! Enjoy the "accidents", hehe

Does anyone else like the walking crab position? Standing up is ok, but the closer I am to laying down the more natural it feels. And I agree, the BEST feeling from using your diapers happens when you wake up at 3 am and it just happens naturally, while you lay there. It's definitely something that you can't put into words for a non-AB. And on a side note, I would like to nominate this thread to somethingawful.com http://www.something...ily-diapers.php I mean seriously, to take time posting all that means the dude obviously has a diaper fetish and is probably reading this now. Come out of the closet man, you'll feel a lot better wearng thick diapers and plastic pants rather then spueing hate speak into the black hole that is the internet. We all know you like reading about people wetting themselves, just take your balls out of your purse and admit it.

Pacifiers are a great way to explore your AB side. And so are onesies and footed pajamas! On a side note, this gives more proof to my theory that we are all ABs, just to different degrees. GIANT BABIES WILL SOON RULE MWUAHAHHAHA