JamesR

It happened again today! I hadn't been on Chatroulette in a few days so I thought I'd watch for awhile to see what funny things people were doing (and report everyone who was masturbating). After a few minutes a guy popped up wearing only a diaper and a t-shirt. I quickly asked him if he was an AB/DL and he said yes. We talked for a few minutes and then I had to leave for lunch. It was nice talking to someone even though it was short lived. BTW, he said this was his first time on the site so he wasn't the same guy I was last time. I only wish I could find a diaper girl on there some day.

I was on Chatroulette.com for awhile this afternoon and twice saw a guy wearing a diaper. Was it someone on here? P.S. If you haven't been there yet, it is very NSFW as many of the people you are connected to are guys masturbating. No, it wasn't me I had friends around.

@JeiSin I also hope I didn't put her off by telling her that I already ordered her some diapers, she didn't seem concerned about it though. I had planned to wait to tell her about it until we were at the point where I was going to get her to wear one, but when she said they were cute I just blurted it out. Later I wished I had waited, but she since she did already agree to wear one I don't think it was a big mistake... I hope.

Not sure if anyone is interested, but thought I'd post a follow up to this. We went out on Friday night and again on Sunday for lunch. Things are moving along well. Neither of us are particularly looking for a relationship, but are both open to one if the right situation comes along. Personally I'm thinking this is looking more and more like that kind of situation, but I'm in no hurry. I would have to stop dating someone else who I really enjoy spending time with and have a lot of fun with. Anyway, the date on Friday night was just a normal date (no fetish stuff). I took her to see Avatar at the IMAX, then out to dinner and finally to nice overlook park that has a great view of the city. I then invited her to come over on Sunday to watch the Superbowl with me and some friends. She showed up early to help me set up (which I really appreciated). When she first arrived she wanted a tour of my house as she hadn't been here yet. The tour was normal until we were leaving my room and she asked to see my diapers. It took me by surprise but I was more than willing to show them to her. I opened the drawer to my bedside table where I keep some of each handy and pulled out an Attends, a Secure X-Plus, and a Bambino Classico. She picked each of them up, felt them and opened them a little. She made a comment on how she thought the Bambinos were cute... I told her that I had already ordered some in her size for her, she just smiled and said ok (yea!). Nothing else interesting happened, except the Saints winning (Booo!). If it wasn't a work night I think I would have asked her to stay over. Let me know if anyone wants to hear more as this progresses.

I am pleased to report that last night went very well! We went to dinner. Shortly after sitting down she was just starring at me. "Welllll" she said, "let's hear it". I fumbled around a little and then just said "I like to wear diapers". She seemed a little surprised but not astonished or put off by it. I could see that she was thinking about it in her head and then said that it was much better than some of the things she thought I might say. I ended up giving her the whole explanation on the difference between an AB and a DL, I consider myself a DL who dabbles in the AB world at times. We ended up joking about the CSI episode with the AB character. Later she said that she could see how my fetish could work with her dominatrix side, as I had said on our first date. I was in disbelief sitting there talking about it, she seemed genuinely curious and open to it. The conversation then drifted on to other subjects. After dinner we went to the upstairs bar and had some of the Mexican martinis this place is famous for. This loosened both of us up for some more talk about diapers and such. She again mentioned that she didn't want to always be the one in the dominate role. I assured her that I would be quite dominate most of the time, even if I was wearing a diaper. This seemed to make her feel better and we started talking about different fantasies we had. Most of mine included diapers of course... some with me in diapers, some with a woman in diapers and some with both of us in diapers. She had the same fantasy that most women seem to have about a rape scene and about being dominated, plus a few about her in the dominate role. I ended by telling her that if things worked out between us I would participate in every fantasy she had described. She said that she would do the same! OMG! We were doing more kissing than talking towards the end so we decided to leave the restaurant. We talked a little about her staying at my house but decided that wouldn't be wise as we had already decided to wait a while before we had sex. I couldn't have asked for a better second date! And we started making plans for a third date. I was honest and told her that I have a date scheduled on Friday night, but would cancel it if she was available. So hopefully I'll see her again on Friday.

To my surprise, she called me last night. I hadn't even given her my phone number, I got hers and was planning on calling her tomorrow or Thursday. She called our mutual friend and and asked him for my phone number. <br> At first I was impressed and happy that she went through the trouble to get my number and call me. But then she told me why she called. She had been thinking a lot about our date and what I had said. She told me that "she had some concerns". Oh no. <br> Ends up that she was worried that I am wanting to be a full time submissive. My comment about my "life style" and her dominatrix stuff made her think that I lived a submissive life style 100% of the time. She explained that she enjoys being in control at times, but in general she wants a man who acts like a man. She does not want to be in control all of the time. She seemed very relieved when I told her that I had never been submissive in a relationship, but was interested in exploring that role on occasion. I told her that "life style" was probably a bad choice of words, I have more of a Fetish. She tried to get me to tell her my secret, but I still refused. I told her that I would tell her everything on our next date. She agree, and then she asked me to go to dinner with her tonight! I agreed. <br> So I guess tonight is the night. The date is hours away and my heart is already beating a thousand times a minute. I've decided to go ahead and just tell her everything. At least I'll know now if she can accept the whole thing or not. Wish me luck!

Hello everyone. I have read this forum for a while but never really had a reason to register. I'm just the typical (for this site) guy who likes to wear diapers. <br> This past weekend I went on a date that left me with some questions I need help on. So I figured that I'd sign up. <br> A friend of mine set me up with a girl he had gone out with a long time ago. They are still friends and he thought that we would hit it off. I'm not a big fan off blind dates, but he promised me that she was hot. So I agreed. We met up at his house and all talked for awhile. She was really good looking (tall and thin, just how I like them). We then headed out on our date (I took her to eat Cajun food). After some good conversation and a few beers she asked me if my friend had told me what she did as a part-time job (in addition to her day job). I told her no. She asked me not to freak out until after she explained, but she is a Dominatrix. She quickly explained that she does not have sex with her clients, ever (which was my primary concern). We talked about it for a few minutes and then moved on to other subjects. <br> At first it didn't hit me, but then I got to thinking about me in diapers and her a dominatrix... this could be fun! <br> We left the restaurant and walked down to a bar that I really like, had a few more beers and played some pool. She then asked me how I felt about her job. My only question was if she enjoyed to do the Dominatrix thing in her personal life, or just for a job. She said that does enjoy it in her personal life also. I had a few beers in me so I decided to give her a little hint that I'm into something a little different also. I told her that the Dominatrix thing could fit in nicely with my life style. She pressed me for more information, but I absolutely refused to give any more information. I explained that I really didn't want our mutual friend to find out about my interest but would tell her if we went out a few more times and hit it off. She finally said that she understood. And, she did agree to a second date when I asked. <br> Ok, so now for the questions: <br> 1. Do you think that her being a Dominatrix makes her more likely to accept the diaper thing? It seems to me that it would, but maybe that's just wishful thinking on my part. 2. Would you risk having a friend find out about your fetish for a chance to find someone who would accept it? It would be devastating to me if my friends found out. 3. In my situation, how long would you wait before telling her? 4. Any other advice is welcome.