[Inspiring TED X Talk]

Wow. I'm not incontinent, but that was a powerful talk I do, at least, know what it's like to wrestle with depression and anxiety, and even a few suicidal thoughts.

Glad to see caring people like that in the world!

[First time having Sex while padded?]

I had my first time with another man while we were both diapered. We didn't go as far as anal (both of us were pretty nervous). We did, however, do a bit of humping in our diapers and got each other off. It was pretty magical!

[What am I? I'm afraid it's another one of those, I apologize.]

I know a bit of what you're feeling. For a long time as a teenager, and then as a young adult, I'd fantasize about men and women sexually in equal parts. Of course, I only ever felt romantic toward women. And I've also had that feeling about not feeling comfortable about my own genitals. Or wondering what having girls' parts would be like.

I don't think it's ever "too late" to discover more about yourself. If you don't find men interesting as romantic partners, so what? Try a date, and if it doesn't work, then it doesn't work. If you find you enjoy sleeping with another man, that's ok, too. I tried it myself last year, and it was a nice experience, but I don't need to repeat it.

[Always Open podcast on Rooster Teeth]

Sorry about that! I meant to post the link with the actual timestamp. It starts

[Always Open podcast on Rooster Teeth]

So, on the latest episode of "Always Open," the girls were discussing issues with pregnancy and bladder control. Barbara, at one point, just straight up says, "I wish it were socially acceptable to wear a diaper."

You can watch the video for yourself here.

[Rachel Bloom talks about the joy of pooping]

On 1/22/2017 at 11:36 PM, willnotwill said:

Little did I know that being an

[Placement of your diaper for guys]

I think it all depends (no pun intended) on what makes you comfortable down there. Both for when you're dry and when you need to pee. I don't know that there's a best practice for all men.

[Diapered by an older lady]

Very neat fantasy. I think I have a thing for older women, too, though maybe not as old as you're talking about.

I do like the maternal quality, though in more of a "young man" kind of way. Very positive, very upbeat about taking care of a young man in diapers, with little to no humiliation needed. For any anime fans in the forum, if you've ever seen Trisha Elric from

[Diapers in Mexico City?]

I've never been to Mexico City, but I've done enough trips to visit family in the country to know that there's all kinds of drugstores and pharmacies, where you can find "los pa

[Big Kids And Diapers]

My Little self identifies at around 4 or 5 years old. He wears diapers only at home and most often when he goes to bed, "just in case." His Mommy lets him wear diapers because she babies him, and he enjoys the attention and affection he gets when he's diapered. But he's also a touch anxious, and so he wets the bed and needs to be in a diaper

[orientation]

I go by the label "Mostly straight" these days.

[Your pet peeves for story writing]

It probably goes without saying that writer's block is a pet peeve for

[what tv show is this from?]

It's the Season 2 premiere "Welcome Home." All explained on this page, along with a video clip.

[Must Reads]

Firstly, thanks to Personalias for liking one of my stories.

[Modern Family]

I did a double-take at that line.

[What Kind And/or Brand Of Diaper Did You Wear As A Baby?]

I was born in the late Eighties, so I was wearing Huggies as a baby.

[Writer's Block]

I find music is a great stimulant for when I need to start writing. Something with good rhythm gets my creative juices flowing.

Also, sometimes my ideas aren't strong enough for an actual story, but only trying to write them out will tell me if I've got something solid. And sometimes when I'm in the middle of writing an idea, I get more ideas in the process on where I can build on the plot or develop character.

[Discovering Your Friend's Secret Fetish]

There's also the chance of seeing a package full of diapers in her roommate's closet, bathroom cabinet, or shopping bag. It might start with an innocent search for some item they'd have in common, or a glimpse of the diapers when the one roommate didn't think the other was looking.

[Diaper Fetish And Same-Sex Attraction]

As I was born Female I to find myself looking at guys or pictures of guys and thinking they are attractive. Despite this even before I started hormones and I had all the surgery, I was always more attracted to Girls then Guys.

As I have been Incontinent all my life I have had to wear Diapers 24/7 all my life, but this never really had much effect on my relationships with other people.

As for the question of Discrimination, I would certainly hope not. Many guys who are in to the ABDL scene find it very hard do find girls who are in to the same thing. This is because in our demographic their seems to be Less female infantilists and more male infantilists.

Many men who are in to infantilism turn to Homosexuality simply to find a relationship that works, others do it because they are looking for a daddy. What ever the reason, I don't think Infantilism is a symptom of Homosexuality, I think Homosexuality is a Symptom of Infantilism due to an Unbalanced Gender Demographic within the Infantilism community.

Maybe they're not homosexual so much as bisexual, though? I mean, I don't know that they're ignoring women just because there aren't as many of them in the community. More like finding relationships with the guys who are actually there instead of the girls who aren't.

[Pinterest.]

I use Pinterest and found out that it's possible to set up "secret boards" on there that no one can see through a public profile. I use one of those boards to store AB/DL images I find. There's not a lot on Pinterest except on a few people's boards, so I collect pics I find from Tumblr or other AB/DL sites.

[Diaper Fetish And Same-Sex Attraction]

That makes sense. Thanks!

[Diaper Fetish And Same-Sex Attraction]

I have a question for other users, regardless of orientation. As a straight male, I find I'm more physically and emotionally attracted to women than I am to men. There are some images of men I find attractive, but I notice that, as a Diaper Lover, I'm more interested in pictures of skinny or well-muscled guys in diapers and repulsed by any other pics of diapered men. When it comes to pictures of women in diapers, I tend not to have such high standards--skinny, svelte, overweight, doesn't matter, they're all lovely.

My question is, would this kind of physical discrimination about pics of men in diapers have more to do with my specific fetish or is it reflective of my overall sexuality?

[The Queen And The Baby]

I like the story's buildup so far. I don't always believe in putting a character back into diapers right away. There were one or two parts so far where I noticed a word missing, but otherwise I think your writing's just fine. Keep up the good work!

[Why Diaper Rules Matter!]

My rules are that I wear only at night and that I don't wet my diaper unless I know I'm going to get rid of it the next morning. I try to wear the same diaper a few nights in a row (usually around the weekends) so I don't have to keep racing to the local pharmacy to buy more. I've occasionally broken some of my rules, like wearing during the day or messing in it, but the cleanup and disposal is usually too much of a hassle that I hardly ever do it again. My focus is on wearing for comfort and psychological reassurance, both of which I like to have when I go to bed.

[Help Understanding]

For both your questions, the best thing in either case is to talk things over with your boyfriend in a calm and friendly tone. If you have trouble with him using a diaper around you, then express that concern and see if you and he need to set boundaries about his diaper wearing. If you think he might be dealing with some childhood trauma through his fetish, talk to him about it and share some childhood experiences of your own if it helps him open up. Communication is going to critical, especially if he feels so ashamed about his fetish. The fact that you're trying to understand him and ask questions among other Diaper Lovers is a sign you're headed in the right direction.