lambcannon

um, i don't think so... i was not breast fed and have no happy memories of babyhood, except for my male cousin and i running around together in our plastic pants. i absolutely respect all points of view vis-a-vis adult babyhood, and am guilty of wearing some pretty queer looking flannel pajamas, but find the concept of calling a (i'm sure very pleasant) woman up and talking about my poopy diapers etc. to be somewhat puke-inducing. can't i just deal with my incontinence in this pleasant way without invoking a lot of psychological drama of tothood that i just plain don't feel, never have felt? having said that, if you want to make silly-assed assumptions about me, i'm your guy, am not sensitive about it a-tall.

bump this thread.... must be mohr diaperfurs out there

hey fellow diaperfur, did you get followup on this with your doctor? from personal experience i can assure you that the human a'hole is incredibly resilient and almost any trauma short of cancer or i.e.d. can be fixed... but i always worrie about my fellow furries and hope hope hope you are getting the treatment you may need... fur real

i hate to be redundant, but try adult onesies, especially for semi-athletic things like shooting where stance is important. like you, i have to wear them, but understand the fetish as well... just knowing that no one will see my plastic panties when i bend over, as well as having a nice extra absorbent layer, gives me the confidence i need to go to work, to the store, etc. then again i have had people offer me to jump in line if i'm soaking wet... but srsly onesies rule

welcome, i gots the nerve damage too but think its o.k. once you get used to it... good luck to you!

for me i have two choices... diaper + plastic pants + onesie + plastic mat under sheet (some are better than others) or pissing all over the bed. good mattresses are too expensive, although somehow the idea of someone willing to sleep with a messy bedwetter is appealing... just impossible to find *sigh*

for keeping things hidden, i can't too highly recommend having custom diaper shirts (adult onesies) made, e.g. converted polo shirts and high-quality undershirts for onesie use. It really ensures that you won't bend over too far, and that (unless you really push it ) you won't leak around the leg openings. i can strongly recommend someone if this is of interest, hit me back... maybe it's me but i wear diapers every minute of every day/night and couldn't make it without my ADULT ONESIE although as always, you are subject to attempts at humiliation and abuse if you dare tell anybody about it... it certainly took my bf awhile to get over it... boo effin' hoo say i... be wary of some of the e-bayers as many are amateurs however, fit is crucial and you probably don't want to wear anything too precious to work (i work in an office and know about hiding my briefs all too well groan) good luck, you are not alone!

surgery boo-boos. but i'm not unhappy about it, the doctors saved my life, and i have met some rilly nice fellow diaper lovers in the meantime. believe me, it beats the colostomy/ileostomy bags i wore for 6 months... if you have never gone to the potty on your knees, be grateful. the hospital gave me such a bad catheter infection, my junk looked like a pink cucumber. ain't goin' that route anymore. love my abenas and my attends.

check out e-bags... not only do they have every conceivable kind of luggage etc., but have some really perfect diaper bags, just the right size for what we diaperin'-down-dudes need and must have. e.g., i got me a conservative grey bag that holds four adult diapers, for me a day's supply plus, and has perfect pockets for odor control spray, small package of wipes, whatever ya want to carry; think it was $14.95. Great if you have to fly too... just make sure your deodorant is 2 ounces or smaller, or they'll take it away from you. (i have stinky pee due to kidney failure.)

ok, i said other because: it has gotten very hard to find briefs for sale in a regular store... sure, i know its smart to buy on the internet, but really people: anyone who has ever had to completely remove their trousers in a filthy bathroom because all there was available were pull-ons knows what i'm talking about! it's like a conspiracy to make us uncomfortable... this has all happened in the last couple of years. also, try to find a common, ordinary douche-bag for cleansing in a drug store... they aren't there! it's as if the bathroom police have decided that people with special needs and want cleanliness are evil.

please don't be angry with me for saying this, but i like the way diapers smell in the summertime... on me or on my friends!

yes absolutely 100% yes... have always enjoyed the security of plastic-backed briefs, couple of years ago had some surgery and accidentally they severed/deadened the nerves which tell me when to go... didn't realize until some serious, messy accidents after i got back to work. at first i had some control, really forcing myself to hold on just made it much worse... doctors blamed everybody else, got psychoanalyzed (that wasn't it)... the more i became used to being reliant on my briefs to avoid puddling all over myself, the less control i had. and god bless that... i am happier than i have ever been, just not worrying about my urine and excrement!

regarding the above comments re ostomy bags, i had a colostomy and an ileostomy for six months, and found that while they can be a bitch to change (not to mention taking a shower with), eventually the cut in the abdominal wall likely turns into a hernia... that is the part that is very much not fun! once you get used to pooping on your knees in front of the toilet, squeezing out the bags (somewhat like a melted otter pop) is not particularly icky if you are used to handling your own defecation. once you have done it a 100 times or so, it's really not so bad. for you gay DLs out there, *stop reading now if you are not one* the neat part is having your anus sewn shut (what the surgeons call a 'rectal stump'). Imagine having all the receptive anal sex you want, without your partner bitching about poo. (its best to approach this in the yoga 'dog' pose so's not to accidentally tear the ostomy 'wafer' from your front side.) sorry if this post offended anyone. i was going to post a picture but, ya know, i think you all can visualize just fine.

i was drugged and sexually assaulted with something big and sharp crammed way up into my rectum. during my last hospital stay, they attempted plastic surgery and hung my sedated body in a sling. since then my left leg has been burning and tingling, and i discovered over time that i no longer got the 'cue' to go potty. after losing one job for urinating in my pants, i realized that diapers were the only way to go. since then i have lost all control of my pee. my urologist wants to do a sphincteroplasty but quite frankly i am afraid to go into the hospital again for any reason after spending a couple of months there.

i will not only reply, but say hail fellow diaperfur/sheep! i am a longtime fur who is incontinent after an assault, and really don't care what other furries or 'people' think. (lives in western PA)

you are a very brave man who has been through hell for his country, more than i can say for myself (they don't take fagz) but i am injured too, and it took me a little while to get used to simple things like buying diapers at the supermarket now i am totally used to it, even tho i get hate-mail on the internet once in awhile, it just rolls over me there is nothing quite as sweet as slipping into a fresh one--have scars all over and the paper just feels so much better than elastic + cloth--and it sure beats pee running down your leg when you're out in public! not to mention poop! just wanted you to know that even tho we're just friends at a distance, there will always be people here at DD who are 100% down with your situation--sure came in handy when i needed it a couple of years ago i see you love your plush toys too--they are my best frenz, i know that fur shur your bud, lamb

its been quite muggy here in western pennsylvania... but i never get the rash despite being pissy all the time and... is it just me or do sweaty diapers pack an extra erotic punch (like medline supers and depends pullons myself)? i like to change other boyz when it gets hot

h*ll yes, please a forum for us babyfurs, especially us diaperfurs

OK, gay incontinent DL here with a curious question for my pee-pee peeps. i have seen multiple references here and there about how certain of my fellow pervs rilly enjoy the smell of certain brands of adult diapers when new. We all know that the olfactory senses are said to trigger memories of the past even more than even sight, sound, etc. (and more quickly too!) That's fascinating, but not exactly what i am curious about. Gettin gay here--no offense, but: at times i pull certain diapers off of heh, friends' behinds, and notice that even when they haven't been widdled into yet, the odor of male sweat mingled with (i guess) chemicals in the diapers themselves is um, erotic in the extreme for me. It is raunchy beyond belief, especially on a hot day, and i have to fight the urge to wrap them around my head and take a big old sniff. There's also something about a recently crapped-in diaper too (while still being worn)--it seems to trigger something in the diaper itself that is unforgettable, again i presume chemicals. Not limiting respondents to comment on these observations, but: have any other male or female DLs had passionate reactions to smelly diapers? Inquiring minds want to know....

i had already ordered from them so was not eligible but can assure anyone who's curious it's a sweet little diaper! good snuggy overniter, not leaky at all.... so get that freeby

i'm an incontinent sheep and proud of it!

i found out this happens every day, no fantasy, a surgical mistake made it happen to me... both pee and sometimes poo. fortunately, the DL and babyfur communities have been very helpful to me in dealing with this change in lifestyle. otherwise, i don't know where i'd be i would like to know if there are others out there with a similar experience... hope they're as lucky as me in finding others who care