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  1. Angela Bauer
    Wayne, you might remember that my loving husband and I made two videos which DPF distributed. Unfortunately we never owned copies of the several other DPF videos. I've subsequently forgotten what I read about those videos.
  2. Angela Bauer
    Personally for me the most fun from writing fiction is seeing how my characters develop. It is like meeting many new friends. Some I thought would be friends turned out to be jerks as I developed them. The fact that Susan is good at her specialized nursing specialty does not mean she is an expert on every aspect of medical care and treatment. Perhaps way back when it became clear that Abby has delayed toilet learning Susan should have researched the topic. Assuming this story is set about 2019, then Abby was born long after the new era in pediatric urology began. Most such physicians offer support groups for parents of youngsters challenged by incontinence. True, for some incontinent folks having fun with diapers is a way to cope. However in my experience it is rare for a younf woman such as Abby to prefer decorated diapers, even for bed at home. At 19 she is unlikely to think of herself as a baby. Now Abby has a large number of the pink diapers. She will learn to deal with them, but might resent her mom for buying them without consultation. Look, I was raised in a supportive family by a mom who is urinary incontinent. I kept being told and shown that wetting was not my fault and still I felt shame because I knew most people do not wet themselves. Peer support groups did not start until I was nearly 30. Through The Simon Foundation for Continence which did start when I was young (my Granny Vi is a charter member) I became pen-pals with other kids with OAB and needing just-in-case diapers when I was 7. Virtually all of us suffered some shame. My youngest sister who is the most incontinent of our family (Like Abby she never gained night control) has a daughter born in 1990 who is currently about to finish her residency in urology. Despite support from us my niece is still coming to terms with her own shame.
  3. Angela Bauer
    Hi Alex, what a happy surprise to get a new chapter so early in the day. I love that Lisa took responsibility for not giving Susan more complete advice. I also love that Susan owned her own blunders. Additionally I love that Abby takes on responsibility. As it happens I think it just as well that Ryan and Emmy know that since the GoodNites do not have enough absorption Abby decided to wear tape-on diapers. It would have been better had Susan talked all that over with Abby. Given that as far as we know Abby never stopped wetting her bed it is a real shame she did not join a local older child incontinence support group. Since the modern era of urology started in 1992, most large urology offices, as well as many pediatricians, sponsor such groups. Frankly Abby needs counseling about her unhealthy shame over her bladder issues. Susan is a nurse. She should know enough about incontinence that she would not buy pink classic adult diapers for Abby without prior discussion. Susan is wrong about the adult disposables at her hospital. All the leading disposable suppliers to nursing homes and hospitals still offer plastic outer layers because they are easier to change by a care giver and they do not snag in bed. A whole lot of incontinent adults are not into ABDL and decorated diapers. Susan should have asked first. Perhaps Susan needs to think more about discipline for herself. She well could conclude that sooner rather than later she needs to bring the hairbrush she keeps in her purse while she visits Lisa. Then she should confess her own inconsiderate action and beg Lisa for the spankings Susan needs so badly! If Alison is around and hears the spanking that could be a good thing. Imagine if Susan were to overhear Alie telling Abby about Susan's delicate bare derrière being spanked OTK with her own hairbrush!
  4. Angela Bauer
    Hi Jimmy, To set the record straight, my name is Angela Bauer. No worries, over the years a lot of nice folk have referred to me as Angela Bowers. I realize that 2012 is seven years ago, With respect to adult spanking videos I still enjoy the first few Eve Howard made, released on VHS, in 1986. The first ABDL video I ever saw was also released on VHS. It was made in 1989 and it did not appeal to me. My loving husband and I made my first AB video in January 1992. It was released on VHS by DPF in April 1992. It might still be available from DD on DVD. Does anyone know where I could buy other diaper/pull-up video showing Ash? She seems to be genuine, a real person who likes her diaper. My attitude has been all my life that since my bladder control is poor, it is foolish and self-defeating to hate wearing diapers. I have no way of knowing if Ash can control her bladder. That is not a requirement to have an emotional need for diapers, including pull-ups. In my case if somehow a magic spell totally restored my bladder control to the best I ever had which was when I was not quite 12, I probably would continue wearing diapers because after over 40 years to me they are normal undies, Perhaps this is true for Ash?
  5. Angela Bauer
    Thank you, Alex, for still another fascinating chapter. Eventually Ryan and Emma were going to find out about both Abby's spankings and bladder control issues. I seriously doubt it is possible to keep it a secret from your siblings that you are getting spankings.The same is also true about bladder control issues. Abby was lucky to have kept her bedwetting a secret from the kids for so long. Apparently Abby suffers from Primary Nocturnal Enuresis which is a fancy way of saying that she never stopped bedwetting. Probably Abby had day control for quite awhile, but even if the kids never saw Abby's diapers and GoodNites, there would come a time they saw pee stained garments. At least those facts are no longer secret. Now I can hardly wait to read more about Abby, Susan, the Kids, Aunt Lisa, Alison and the unnamed sales clerk!
  6. Angela Bauer
    Strange how an unexpected slow day causes my mind to drift. Minutes ago I rewatched Ash walking with her pull-ups totally exposed. I studied the translucent plastic shopping bag she carries. I had noticed the item on top is a bag of pull-ups. Today I notice at least two and maybe three other unopened bags of the same pull-ups. That has got to be a big budget item. I'm sure back in 2012 when this video was made bags of pull-ups cost over USA$20 apiece.
  7. Angela Bauer
    Hi Alex, A million thanks for still another entertaining chapter. 'Taylor' is a fine additional character. Who knows, perhaps Susan, Lisa and Taylor's mother might have lunch during which they discuss the benefits of spanking adult children?
  8. Angela Bauer
    Hi Alex, this is finest-kind news. Of course you are entitled to the occasional day without another chapter about Abby, Susan, Alie and Aunt Lisa. You have provided us with a treasure trove of entertainment. As I've shared the combination of Abby's bladder control problems and her quite rational theoretical preference for spanking over grounding could well be the story of my life so FEAR OF MISSING OUT really reaches me. A million thanks for writing this.
  9. Angela Bauer
    My family has told me that I was day trained at 30 months and night trained at 33 months. Of course this was long before my memory starts. My bladder was small and over-active, yet I could sleep through the night after using a toilet just before bed. Ib 1976, shortly after I turned and days after I reached puberty, I reverted to bedwetting. Given the long history of bladder problems in my family, this was not unexpected. My bed always had a waterproof mattress protector. When I told my Mom about wetting the bed, she assured me it was not my fault. She took me to the doctor and taught me how to pin on gauze diapers. I have nor regained night control despite the best efforts of countless medical professionals. At age 21 I lost my day control, so since then I have been diapered 24/7.
  10. Angela Bauer
    Happy Friday, Alex, You sure have a knack for writing dialog, especially between Abby and her mother Susan!
  11. Angela Bauer
    I am a mature, productive woman, happily married, who just turned 55. Since 1989 I have been a licensed attorney. Oh, incidentally I have been profoundly urinary incontinent since 1985. Of course I walk in diapers, because without diapers I would leave a train of puddles. My experience is that it is best to not attempt to keep my incontinence a top secret. Still it is discreet to do my best to disguise my diapers. There are many styles of diapers. I keep a few kinds of diapers on hand, so I can wear the best compromise of effective urine containment and discretion in a given situation. Then over my diapers I wear clothing. At the moment I am sitting at a table in a courthouse coffee shop waiting for a judge to open his court room. As I walked from my office several blocks to court nobody seemed to notice. I am wearing a knee-length skirt, a white blouse and a jacket matching my skirt. My lrgs are covered by thigh-high cotton stockings. I am wearing name-brand black stiletto pumps with red soles. Over my diaper I am wearing a cotton body suit with a snap crotch. My diaper is a GoodNites Tru-Fit. Elsewhere in this conversation there is a stunning video of Ash wearing a disposable pull-up totally exposed. Nobody shown seems to notice, although the indistinct sound track might include comment about a diaper. While waiting for a train Ash says, "I like my diaper." Certainly I lack the guts to expose my diaper, even one as discreet as a Tru-Fit. I have no idea which 2012-era pull-up Ash is wearing it appears to fit, and it is decorated. Maybe it is a Huggies product. For the record I would advise a client to not expose their diaper in public.
  12. Angela Bauer
    Wow, Alex, another outstanding chapter. The hairbrush shopping trip happened to me shortly before I turned 14. Like Susan, my parents started out anti-spanking. My mother's youngest sister, Aunt Betsy, was very pro-spanking even as a teenager while being spanked. My older sister, over 19 at the time, admitted to me that Betsy had spanked her. admitted that Betsy had spanked her. I was feeling guilty, so I waited until Aunt Betsy's 3 kids were away. I went to her and said I deserved a spanking. She used a hairbrush on my bare bottom. Then she marched me to her car and drove me to a beauty store. The clerk had been her best friend during high school. Betsy told her the hairbrush would be used to spank me. The clerk responded, "You just bought one for Angela's big sister a couple of days ago." Betsy told her that was correct. It turned out that before I was toilet trained that clerk had been our babysitter a few times. As far as I know the clerk did not blab, or at least not to anyone I knew. A million thanks for writing this story and especially this episode!
  13. Angela Bauer
    Hi Alex, I tried to message you privately but the DD system did not allow that. Here is the issue: In Chapter 1 Aunt Lisa'a daughter is introduced as 'Cousin Alison'. Then in Chapter 3 at first it is Cousin Allison (with 2 ll) and at other places in that chapter she is back to only a single l. Now in the wonderful new Chapter 4 she is back to 2 ll. Just want you to know. I wanted to tell you privately. Angela
  14. Angela Bauer
    Ash in her video WALKING IN DIAPERS, a pull-up, is adorable.
  15. Angela Bauer
    Alex, yes I enjoy both of those stories. However, FEAR OF MISSING OUT speaks to me especially well.
  16. Angela Bauer
    Alex, Chapter 3 was marvelous. How fascinating that Aunt Lisa had Alison bring a heavy ruler instead of a hairbrush. It is refreshing to not read the usual spanking trope. I can hardly wait to read about Mom Susan and naughty Abby, I have no doubt that Abby will be a better person as a result of her spankings. I would be wonderful if Abby were to pledge a strict sorority when she returns to university as a sophomore. Even if the sorority no longer hazes pledges, there could be a stern housemother ready to spank to correct misbehavior.
  17. Angela Bauer
    This is a very charming and well-written story. For the record, I approve of Abby preferring spanking over grounding. Her mother is sensible. She must realize that while Abby is grounded she needs to be continuously supervised to ensure she does not break grounding. What I hope is that soon the mother understands that GoodNites were originally designed to be discreet and not absorbent enough to deal with even moderate wetting by anyone older than six. Since GoodNites were first marketed the decorations have become fancy but the product is not a replacement for a decent tape-on diapers. For bed a pinned-on gauze diaper inside waterproof panties works much better.
  18. Angela Bauer
    I have always had an excellent relationship with my parents, still in love with each other and in excellent health. My Dad finally retired from the meat packing industry five years ago. Mom retired about 10 years ago. Growing up my maternal grandparents live next door. When I was 12 my Mom's youngest sister and her husband bought the house across the street. I remain close with them. A common bond is that all my sisters, Mom, Granny Vi and Aunt Betsy are urinary incontinent. So are Mom's other sisters who moved far away before I was born so I hardly know them. My father-in-law died in 1996. I wish I had known him. My mother-in-law dies in late 1994, more than 3 years after I married my husband. Unfortunately by the time I met my husband his mother was elderly and suffering from dementia. By all accounts I would have liked her when she was younger.
  19. Angela Bauer
    I especially love it when Ash says, "I like my diapers" as she sits waiting for the train. Her smile is beatific and genuine. Although I have no memory of wearing any kind of uncovered diaper away from the privacy of home, I admire Ash's courage. I know my two youngest sister frequently were out in public with nothing covering their gauze diapers and vinyl panties, but that was before they were toilet trained. Once trained they always wore something over their vinyl panties. I believe my Mom that the same was true for me. I agree that there should be no stigma when diapers are worn at any age. The last time I had daytime bladder control was early June of 1985 when I was almost 21. Has this video of Ash walking around in her pull-up been seen by folks not visiting diaper sites? If so, what is the reaction. By the way, has Ash made other diaper/pull-up videos?
  20. Angela Bauer
    From my memory kicking in during 1968 until I switched to wearing only disposables in August 1981 all the Gerber vinyl panties I knew were translucent, smooth on one side and grainy on the other side. Those were the only kind my family purchased. Of course Gerber could well have also sold vinyl panties in colors. From the start of my university in 1981 until I fell in love with my husband in 1991 I never thought about plastic panties. My future husband had a supply of Rubber Duckie (coated like PUL) and ProHealth (boilable vinyl) panties. Both of those were made in several colors. By the time I tried the Rubber Duckies the waterproof coating was failing. I loved the ProHealth, but their warehouse burned in December 1991. They went out of business. I did then buy adult Gerbers, which were translucent, grainy on one side. In 1992 I met Crissy Penn, who designed revolutionary adult vinyl panties with forward-facing leg holes. Those were manufactured for her by Gary. When Crissy left the buisness in 1994 Gary bought the design rights. Soon after most adult waterproof panties began to use the Crissy design concepts. By 1996 KINS became my only vinyl panties vendor.
  21. Angela Bauer
    Previously in this conversation I shared that my family told me as a baby I wore pinned Curity 20x40 flat gauze diapers and Gerber vinyl pull-on panties. Past toilet training I needed just-in-case diapers which were the same, except as I grew the Gerber panties got bigger and the Curity diapers were folded differently. Others have shared that they outgrew Gerber vinyl pants. Sadly hardly any stores sold the larger Gerber vinyl pants. My Mom, her mom and sisters all were urinary incontinent by age 20 or younger. Granny Vi ordered larger Gerber panties by mail from the factory located in Three Oaks, MI. In late June 1976 our Mom took my 2 younger sister, our younger brother and me to visit the Gerber factory in Three Oaks. They were sweet people. Years later Gerber decided to get out of the adult incontinence garment business. That was after Gerber had bought the Dundee and Curity cloth diaper businesses. Gerber virtually gave the Three Oaks factory to the employees who used the company name VIP. That closed because the employee-owners wanted to retire and their vinyl supplier no longer was willing to make the distinctive translucent 3 mil fabric. My experience has been that KINS style 10300 pull-on pants are n improvement on classic Gerber panties. I wear those to this day.
  22. Angela Bauer
    Hi Mark, actually there are seldom very many diapers in our trash. At home we both prefer washable pinned gauze diapers, unless our guests are not long time friends, when we do use disposables which are more discreet. During my work day I wear GoodNites Tru-Fit. I also wear those on weekends while running errands or emergency time at my office. At the time I met my husband in Mat 1991 he had excellent bladder control. He had been married to Jean from Sept 1959 until her death in March 1988. She lost her bladder control in 1985 due to early-onset menopause. Jean adopted AB play as a way to cope. She had diapered her two older children in gauze diapers in the earlt to mid 1960, and had worn cloth diapers as a child. She had changed cloth diapers while babysitting. Her husband (now my husband) played her fantasy Daddy. Previously he had shared duty changing their children's diapers. Older members of DD remember that Jean wrote a page for each issue of the DPF Newsletter. I joined DPF in October 1990 and the owner of DPF, Tommy S, sent me back issues begging me to write a similar page. However, I met my husband at an adult spanker party. Then I had just enough bladder control that I could function at an evening party for a couple of hours without a diaper. Someone had told me after his wife was killed by a drunk driver my future husband was not seeking another AB gal. I kinda blew my cover because I peed a little during the second spanking he gave me at that party. I admitted I had disposable diapers in my bag. I changed into one in the ladies' room at the party. I explained I preferred gauze diapers but I had no way to wash those at my apartment. While we were having a predawn breakfast he offered to take me to his house where he still had all of Jean's unused gauze diapers and vinyl panties. From then on I slept in gauze diapers when home and he would drive me to his house to wash and dry them. In late 2006 he started to rarely dribble a little in bed. It turned out that he had prostate cancer. So from Jan 2007 onward he wore disposable pull-on. He had prostate surgery in June 2007 and continued to need pull-on until Jan 2008. Then he relapsed to bedwetting in late 2016. That was when he started wearing gauze pin-on to bed. Late in 2017 his daytime control failed. What he wears during the day is a Target Up & Up Size 7 disposable inside snug Jockey briefs, inside vinyl pull-on pants in turn held snug by another pair of Jockey briefs. When he can reach a toilet he can slide those down and then pull them up.
  23. Angela Bauer
    Mark, let me start by sharing that I have been profoundly urinary incontinent since 1985, when I was 21. My loving husband since Oct 1991 is older. he is urinary incontinent. I cope by sometimes playing AB. My husband cooperates by playing "Daddy". Mostly I want to play Big Baby at home. We have a circle of AB couples, including my sister Missy and her husband. Often, but not today, our circle has brunch at one of our homes. In the group we all get changes in front of the bunch. In our responsible incon adult mode each of us self changes. We I am out and about in my Big Baby mode, we own a camper van. Its bunck serves as a fine changing table. We have both discreet and obvious diaper bags. Many times I have been changes in family restrooms that I knew had adult-size changing tables. Several times i have been changed in the open in the back country where others seldom go. As a child and teenager needing just-in-case diapers I was changed more publicly, on lawns, in ladies' rooms and on the tailgate of vehicles.
  24. Angela Bauer
    If I could live my vanilla life discreetly with obvious spanking-caused marks, I would do so! Sure nothing arouses me like a great romantic spanking, which tend to not leave marks. Getting spanked too hard during foreplay is anti-erotic. Nearly every man who has spanked me romantically has avoiding hitting hard enough to leave marks, nevermind bruises. Even before I met my husband, he was a very experienced romantic spanker. I fell madly in love with him during the first spanking he gave me at an adult spanking party. That one turned me on. An hour later I asked him to spank me again, but much harder. He told me he was not into causing real hurt. The second spanking was not as hard as I desired then, but far better than most. After we married he has spanked me harder but never has left discoloration lasting more than a few hours. Very soon after we fell in love I asked him to also be my disciplinarian. While married to his then recently deceased wife they were not into domestic discipline, just romantic spankings. For the first years of our marriage when I wanted an exceptionally hard spanking I have turned to my youngest but much stronger sister and professional doms. On TV we had seen robo spanking machines demonstrated. In late 2009 we purchased our first Spank-O-Matic. We upgraded it once, then traded it in for a newer version with more features. The bottom line is that I can program our SOM II to aim exactly where I want, hitting as hard as I want and as often as I want. While programming the aim the "spanks" are mild taps. Also, we have a wide choice of implements for our SOM II. Probably my favorite are Lexan plastic paddles shaped like oval hairbrushes. As a randy teenager I only considered a spanking as being real when a hairbrush was administered bare-bottom OTK. Yet even then my Mom and strict Aunt Betsy avoided marking me. Now, when I want I program our SOM II. bare my bottom, place an absorbent underpad to protect the bench, and push the start button. I had scheduled last Friday as vacation, so before bed last Thursday I made use of the SOM II. I had programed it to concentrate on both prime spank spots where my lower buttocks meet my upper thighs. Those were deep red when the program ended. I was sobbing and limp. I could still see the marks late Friday afternoon, but the throbbing was fading. So, I assummrd the position once again and ran the same discipline program, with the intensity increased 15%. I can still feel the throbbing and I have bruises, so I have already called in sick for Monday and Tuesday. For our happy married life the SOM II is worth way more than it cost!
  25. Angela Bauer
    Thank you so much for sharing this delightful video. Clearly the star is comfortable wearing her pull-ups.
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