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Leilin
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The reason nobody reccomended Secure Plus is that they were not out yet upon creation of this thread (2005). Now, the obvious and best choice would be the Bambino's. The "Baby" print on the front is only 1 part of what makes them babyish.
The normal Secure Plus line was out at that time, wasn't it? I'm pretty sure I was wearing them in '05. :3
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And by the picture on your profile, I thought you were a pair of shoes. I keep being surprised.
Three of us keep a diary, two of us like to peek at those diaries, and I just can't figure out who this woman named Janice is that keeps showing up in my bed. My previous explanation was aliens. Janice hit me with a pillow when I suggested that, after which she very pointedly told me that she was a naturalized citizen, not an alien. The next crackpot theory is going to have something to do with the NSA.
But whatever it is, it certainly is all in my head.
As far as people faking being other people... Ya know what, it's not a discussion I can take seriously any more. I don't trust most people that I meet online, I trust them only as far as what they present to me, with full knowledge of what can be faked and what cannot be faked.
Call someone on the phone, and though there is a chance they are using some sort of speech modification device or they have a voice that is especially asexual, chances are you can get a good idea who the person actually is. Use a webcam to do a video chat with someone, and you get evidence that is even harder to fake.
If you do not use your brain, you are asking to be taken advantage of or fooled. If you view a text conversation as anything more than that, you are fooling yourself. If you chat with someone and you feel you make an emotional connection, that is all you have -- an emotional connection based on a set of words with an unknown individual. To assume it for anything more, to assume anything more in regards to the nature of the individual that you are communicating with, that is foolish. This does not mean that a conversation (or series of) is a bad thing.
If you came to the internet looking for a romantic relationship, be ready to get let down. You've already put the blinders on as to reality at this point. Yes, it does happen. Are the chances good? No. If you're chatting with someone, do not assume their sex. If you are a woman and you feel you are having an in depth conversation with someone about emotions and such... well, it's like an IQ test. It indicates what the person on the other end is capable of, not what they are all the time.
This whole topic frustrates me. If you are having consistent problems with running into people that are fakes, in general, there is probably something you can do to avoid this problem. Perhaps your expectations need adjustment.
You cannot make other people change. You can, however, control your own actions and expectations.
I think you're my hero now, Morv. That was a totally excellent post!
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So what do you do when you're classified as having disassociative identity disorder (DSM-IV-TR 300.14, ICD-10 F44.8) and of your fourteen or so known personalities, one is female and the rest are male? (Can we just go ahead and make more profiles for our selves at this point?)
Say, what does it make you if you have one transgendered personality and the rest are not so?
Pointed but slimly aplicable questions to ponder and perhaps lighten the mood as the discussion continues.
Technically, if you have DID you probably don't know it. If you do know it, you're probably on medication for it, and if you neither know it nor are taking medication then you don't know that the other personalities are doing it, making the point moot.
Naturally, this does not apply to the mass number of people self-diagnosing themselves with DID and any number of other diseases and the people trying (usually poorly) to fake it.
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It's about trust, and violating trust.
If you don't thank that matters-try working a job-and wondering if they are going to pay you or not-would you keep going back?
Would you ban the females who come to this site and pose as males just to get rid of all of the jerks who constantly bombard them with PMs (especially in chat) just because they're female, too, then?
To elaborate, the problem here is people spamming other people and trying to take advantage of them. Faking is one of the many ways people do that but is a symptom of the crime, if you will, not the crime itself.
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How would you feel if you were a lesbian girl looking for a partner-and some fake guy wasted yout time and got your hopes up?
Posing as a female?
I would propose that people doing this sort of thing are predatory-and that we are all better off without them. Abkingdom weeds them out for the security of ALL of the members-not just the women.
*shrug* I don't see this place as a dating service, so maybe it's just weird that way for me, but I figure that anybody who contacts me with the sole purpose of trying to hook up gets on my nerves after a bit.
I think that as long as somebody isn't using that faking as a standpoint to try to get somebody into a relationship or coerce them then they're relatively harmless, and I've personally seen more men (apparent) harmful in that area then men who are faking femininity.
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Why are so many men on here labeling themselves as women?
If you have a cock,you aren't a female, sorry.
Just making the comment after seeing the housecleaning announcement over on abkingdom-doing a semi annual clean out of fake profiles-and axing profiles of men who are spamming the women over there. Seems you can gert banned from their site for doing either. I find it admirable that they take measures to make it a safe enviornment for thier female members.
I don't particularly take issue with your topic. The truth is always nicer, but what on earth makes you think that a boy faking being a girl is any less safe for the forum's female members than a boy not faking as a girl. As far as I've seen, the posers a liars, but not necessarily any more predatory.
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Best off getting some Abri-Lets or other stuffers.
This.
There's not a lot of sense in using a product which is designed to -block flow- in order to increase absorbency. That just doesn't make sense. A good stuffer needs to supplement and even if you poke holes in a baby diaper it's still going to block a majority of the flow from spreading.
Plus, stuffers are way, way less expensive.
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So all the talk about Bambinos being so comfortable and absorbent is just...placebo?
Not at all... if you've worn the Secure X-plus then you know that they're also extremely absorbent and comfortable. Easily the best non-AB oriented diaper on the market (in my opinion). I think, but am not certain, that the gauge of plastic is slightly different in Bambinos as well.
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I'm curious about that different print thing too. Seems like it would be simple to produce a plain white version. If you guys are in it for the money, take a look at the surveys on this website. DL's seem to outnumber AB's, and the print is stopping a lot of us from buying.
The simple solution to that is purchasing Secure X-plus diapers. which are almost identical, except they're white.
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Has anyone tried these yet? I've seen them on EBay for a while now and just curious if anyone has bought these and what do you think about them?
It seems that the AIO's are only baby diapers. The adult products they carry seem to only be plastic pants...
Wait. Strike that. Found their store.
http://stores.ebay.com/YUYUN-CN_Adult-Diap...2QQftidZ2QQtZkm
There's a link.
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I figured that I'd start a new thread and double-check. I'm a Las-Vegas bedwetter/dl and just figured that I'd scope the community once more.
For what it's worth, I slink around industrial clubs. ^_~
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well i bought my first diapers today and i am loving it!! i want somebody to play with sometime. I have never been changed or changed before
I'm not much for the changed and changing part, as I'm happily in a relationship, but I'm always good for a nice, lively chat. ^_~
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I, also, am here.
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for those who didnt know the market yaoi is aimed at is straight females.
Yeah. It's probably one of the only Anime cons anywhere that sports a 95 percent female attendance. o_O
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Wow. I've actually met another person on the board from Las Vegas, but judging by the number of folks in the community who pop up in the San Francisco Bay Area, in which I used to live, there should be many, many more!
So yeah. Las Vegas, here. Any others? o_O
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anyone tried them?
I have. :]
Mind you, I'm a very small person. They fit me just fine and absorb significantly better than normal goodnites. They give off a slightly plasticy rustle due to the inside 'diaper' part and are very discrete due to the outside 'shorts' part.
All-in-all, I think they're a spiffy product. :]
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It's a convention devoted to Yaoi (essentially, Anime devoted to male same-sex romance) and its fandom. :]
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I figured that this was a long shot but hey, what the heck?
Does anybody else on this forum attend Yaoi-con (Previously in San Francisco, now in San Mateo)? I know that it's something of an exclusive interest but hey, so is our favorite D-word.
*ducks and hides from the impending "that's scary!" posts. >_<*
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Hello! I've been lurking on this place plenty long enough so I thought I'd finally register. I'm a 24-year old bedwetter who took the obvious solution and lives in Southern Nevada. I like all sorts of music, Animé, and long walks.
Did I forget anything? Hi! >_<
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Well... I'm in Vegas, but us Nevadans should stick together. ^_~