I am the first woman to reply then. yey.
I do agree with diaprbayb, you should have told her before your marriage. If it was a requirement from the start, you should have told her. I would have done the same thing with a none diaper guy about my fetish. Tell him soon or later before we went even further but I wouldn't tell him from the day we meet. I would wait a few weeks so that he would get to know me as a person and then tell him about my fetish to see how well he takes it and if he is cool with it. If he didn't like it, then at least I got that out of the way and I could move on and find another man instead of wasting my time with the wrong guy.
Yes I do think it is possible to be in a marriage with someone who doesn't like to wear. You just need to be flexible and deal with it like you had before you told her.
Artemis, your wife sounds like a bitch no offense. I never threatened my ex I would tell his son he likes his diapers and tell everyone at his job about his medical condition. He was incontinent. That would be crossing the line if I did that. I don't understand why someone would have issues with someone wearing to bed with them just because they don't need them and refusing to wear for a while because their own spouse has a diaper fetish.