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Hi Alan, really glad you can make it, it will be great to see another new face. Don't worry we're always gentle, we're a relaxed and friendly crowd. I look forward to seeing you there.

Mark: PM sent. I'm not just going to post in on the forum but if there any newbies that need my mobile number then I'm more than happy to provide it. And just so people know: I don't have an internet phone, I'll check for messages before I leave in the morning, which will be around 10:30, and after that I'll only be reachable on the phone. I'm really looking forward to this. I've got two more confirmed people that I've spoken to on other sites and a couple of maybes as well. So it should be a half decent turn out and a good mix of old and new faces.

Yes, Hurst Street is on a downwards slope so even though it has an upstairs and a downstairs both doors are on street level. There isn't much in the way of an upstairs anyway, it was just the easiest way to show which entrance I was talking about. I've checked and access won't be a problem. It will be good to see you there, glad you can make the trip.

A quick bump as it's now only 2 weeks until the munch but also to let you know there will be one or two changes this time. The big one is that Cid will sadly not be joining us this time and so I will be taking over hosting duties. I'll be bringing with me different marker, our table will now be the one with a black fedora on it. Other than that everything will be running as normal. The munch will be held on October 15th in the Dragon Inn (Hurst St, Birmingham B5 4TD), it starts at 12:00 and goes on until everyone has gone home, usually around 5. We usually sit near the door in the downstairs part of the pub. The pub is very close to New Street Station and there are two car parks near by, one further down Hurst Street and one on Bromsgrove Street. If there are any further questions don't hesitate to contact me. So, any takers?

What a wonderful idea. Sadly this conflicts with the Birmingham munch so on this occasion I'll be unable to attend. But I wish you every success and I'll do my best and make it to the next one. You've certainly picked a good location. Assuming my map reading skills aren't way off it's within walking distance of Euston Station so it's nice and accessible for those coming from out of town. Also, there are a couple of people who live in the greater London area that I've spoken to who found Birmingham a little impractical. Would you like me to pass on your details on to them?

I'll certainly be there. I haven't had much luck convincing people to come to this one but it will be nice to see some new faces there. Really looking forward to this.

Bump for the impending munch on Saturday Everything will be running as normal and we'll once again be in out new home, the Dragon Inn, Hurst St, Birmingham B5 4TD. We'll be in the downstairs section and close to the door and as usual our table will be marked with an A to Z and an apple. Hope to see some of you there.

Well the weather looks good for tomorrow so it should be a good day. Really looking forward to it.

Looks like I'm still unemployed so I'll be able to make this after all. Every cloud as they say.....

I'll be coming along, I'm looking forward to seeing how the new venue works out.

Hang on, the munch is tomorrow? I really miscounted somewhere along the line. Looks like I'll be able to make it after all. I've just looked at the trains, the ideal one has been cancelled (of course) so I have the choice of getting in an hour early or an hour into the munch. Expect me around 1:00.

I agree, it was fairly respectful and actually portrayed it as something quite harmless. It would have been so easy to portray the man as some kind of weirdo pervert or borderline peado, but in the end it was down to the philosophy of “sometimes it's so nice to have someone take care of me for a change.” Audiences unfamiliar with the idea of AB play may have been shocked at first, but hopefully they can sympathise with his emotional need, as Belle did. I also enjoyed the all to brief shots of 'baby' Hannah, you never know, maybe she'll be inspired to take up AB play in a later episode (we can dream can't we?).

That time again? Well I'll definitely be coming down for this. Any luck with a venue yet?

OK thanks, I look forward to seeing you (and hopefully some others) on Saturday.

Hi Cid, I know I've been a little quiet on the munch front recently (I never made it back after that first Birmingham one) but I finally have a free Saturday and would really love to come along. Is it the same time and place as on the November munch thread?

The short answer is it's what you've heard called 'bondage' or 'S&M', BDSM is just the more modern name for it. Typically it stands for Bondage, Domination, Submission and Masochism, or Bondage, Discipline and Sadomasochism, it depends who you ask In relation to DD it's a form of play that has a strong 'forced' aspect to it, for the submissive player wearing a diaper would usually be a form of discipline and/or humiliation. Diapers are usually used as part of an age play scenarios where one player adopts the identity of a baby (or any age they desire) and the other acts as parent teacher or other disciplinary figure. Diapering is usually coupled with other forms of discipline such as spanking. But although diapers can be a big part of age play and infantilism scenarios they are not essential and at the same time they can be used in traditional dominant/ submissive play as a way of keeping a sub restrained for long periods of time without the need for bathroom breaks. Don't get the wrong idea, BDSM is consensual and the sub should never be forced to do anything they don't really want to. Limits are usually discussed before hand and they can be pushed but ultimately need to be respected. I hope that was helpful, to be honest you could write a 10000 word essay on the question 'What is BDSM' but I've tried to keep it relevant to this site since that's where the question is. And of course it's as Daddy_Tom says, 'BDSM means something different to everyone' If you have any further questions then I'm sure I or someone else on here can answer them.

Wow, this sounds amazing. I've just moved to the West Midlands area and have just started dipping my toe into the various local scenes and this is something I'd definitely like to attend. Are there any details I need to be aware of or do I just turn up?

Just curious to what other people do in this situation. It's the morning and you've just woken up, looking over at your clock you see it's roughly an hour before your alarm is due to go off and you have to get up for work or whatever. Do you get up early, or go back to sleep for the hour? I usually try and go back to sleep although I'm starting to think this is a bad idea, I always feel less awake the second time.

A question for the ladies, please be totally honest. Have you ever said 'It's not you, it's me' (or words to that effect) and truly meant it?

OK, I've waited a day, turned my computer off and on again and deleted my cookies, and it still won't change.

That's the old personal statement that's still up. What I'm doing is going to 'My Controls', then 'Edit personal portal information' and changing my statement from there. I've tried it a few times, every time I press 'Save changes' but the change never seems to take effect. It doesn't give me an error, just takes me back to the forums. I do have script blocker installed which sometimes does interfere with things like this, but I have everything allowed for this site. I'll try like you suggested, clearing the cookies and cashe, see what happens.

Profie editing I'm trying to edit the personal statement on my profile, but every time I press save it has no effect and my old statement still shows up unchanged. Any advise?

We're still trying to figure out what she's into, which is why I'm looking for suggestions. She seems to be one of those subs who's into what ever the dom can throw at her, which can be fun, but it doesn't give me much to work with. Especially since I was never into web cam play before, I'm trying to learn for her. And I would never divulge any information about her. Even though we only know each other online I do consider her a good friend, I just couldn't do that to her.

Recently, through another site I have made friends with a girl in America who is very submissive into and into web cam domination. We've tried one session and I was pretty bad at it. But we're still getting on great (we have a lot in common beyond our kinks) and this girl, lovely as she is, still wants to try the web cam thing. I was wondering if anyone had any experience in this area, and if possible could give me some pointers and ideas for things we can try. She owns a few toys, a ball gag, a vibrator and some handcuffs. One thing to bare in mind is that although I'm posting here she has no interest in the adult baby side of things. Thank you for any help you can give.

Hi there Amy, welcome to the site. I'm sure there are plenty of daddies in here, have fun exploring.