[The most important thing if you want incontience by un-training is to stop Masturbation.]

That’s gonna be a no from me, dog. 

[Is this progress?]

Well, new month....might as well give a little update.  April was a slower month than March in terms of bedwetting.....only 8 wet nights out of the 30, unlike the month before where I was over half.  However, the wettings were heavier.  I don't know if I can count that as progress....heavier wettings, but fewer of them.  Maybe in May I'll get the combination of heavier and more frequent...already woke up with a heavier wetting this morning.  I guess we'll see.  But there was a frustrating plateau of over a week in the month that threw off my progress.  I was able to wet while driving yesterday.  I got in the car after work and just started to wet.  That's a new step.  Driving has always been a challenge to wet comfortably and mindlessly.  Trimmed the pubes and shaved my penis and scrotum.  Helped with the odor (which I'm not sure I like given that I enjoy the smell of a soggy crotch) but I do like the look.  The problem is, as a hairy guy, it would look weird if I went completely bald down there I think.  Other than that, haven't worn cloth underwear in over a month - always a diaper or a pull up if my pants are tighter for work.....don't really care about tighter pants on weekends.  I have noticed that on days when I wear a pull up and use the urinal at work I am wetting waaaay more frequently than I do on days when I'm diapered.  I guess my body is getting used to just being able to go whenever.  I do look at my collection of underwear in the box in my closet and feel a little bad that they're getting zero use, but it would feel weird at this point to sit down without any padding on my butt when I do.  That's all for now!    

[My Journey to becoming a nightly sheet soaker]

I need to find that sweet spot of fluid that will increase my wetting at night but not make me wake up!  I’ve made decent progress with wetting, but it’s pretty light. I’m not sure if it will get heavier as I go deeper into the rabbit hole or if this is what it’s going to be. Ultimately I’d love for what winds up in the diaper when I wake up and have to pee to be already there when I wake up and I’m empty. I guess we’ll see as time moves on over the next few months. 

[Is this progress?]

Thanks for the encouragement!  Hopefully by then I can call myself a bedwetter!

[I genuinely want to be a bedwetter and incontinent for the rest of my life]

28 minutes ago, WBxx said:

 Not complaining, anytime I fall asleep dry and wake wet with no memory is fine by me.

Yup...my view exactly.  Knowing that I wet asleep, and that I trained myself to do so is a wonderful feeling.

[I genuinely want to be a bedwetter and incontinent for the rest of my life]

I feel you.  New to bedwetting, but it's brought me a ton of pleasure.  I'm actually disappointed when I wake up and my diaper is still dry.

[Adult Bedwetter]

Also fairly new to bedwetting, about three months in to the journey. Not reliable every night, but I’m now at a place where if I drink(adult beverage ) before bed I simply know I will wake with a wet diaper. 

[Telegram group for incontineres...err or a group for those that WANT to be incontinent]

Has anyone actually gotten an invite?

[How Many Times a Night]

I would estimate once...not sure as I'm asleep lol.  But, when I wake wet, it's just a little bit...not a soaker, just enough to change some of the color indicators.

[Gaining diaper dependancy (not incontinence)]

I’d say simply wearing and using is your best bet. You’ll get accustomed to using them, then becoming dependent on them. 

Edit:  I was one of those friends. Been wearing for 7 months. I can’t even fathom going 7+ hours anymore. 

[My bed wetting progress update and questions for other trained bed wetters]

10 minutes ago, bspecnoza said:

When you say first wet night was a 6 months what do you define as a wet night? No waking/remembering that you wet?

Currently my goal is just to wet at night, I'm not looking to go full-time incontinent at this time.

Yes. No waking or remembering that I woke. Just a wet diaper in the morning. My goal is the same as yours, but I also wear during the day. 

[My bed wetting progress update and questions for other trained bed wetters]

Yup...pretty much the same.  I wake up early regardless, then check to see if my color lines have changed.  Initial problems wetting lying down happened at the beginning, but I got accustomed to it quickly.  First actual wet night was like 6 months in.

[Telegram group for incontineres...err or a group for those that WANT to be incontinent]

Lidiapbear. Would love an invite. 

[Is this progress?]

Well, as the month is over, I can say that out of the 31 days in March, I woke up wet 16 times.  Not a bad clip.  With the exception of the one night I tried going undiapered, I've been wearing every night for 7 months.  Basically wetting every other night.  I'm nowhere near close to considering myself a bedwetter, but given where I started from on this journey, I'm pretty pleased with the progress.  Over the next month, I'm hoping to have more frequent and heavier wettings.  Upon that, I can consider not following a "routine" (extra hydration before bed) to see if I'm truly accustomed to just letting go at night while asleep.  Daytime continence remains pretty strong, but I doubt I could go 7-8 hours without using the facilities like I always have (or had before starting).  We'll see what April brings....April showers and such....

[Getting Surgery in Mexico]

I wonder how many of these procedures he’s done to have a reference!

[Better way to train to wet the bed?]

On 3/17/2024 at 5:30 PM, bspecnoza said:

Have you tried sleeping without a diaper to see if you still wet? It seems like there isn’t a lot of evidence that people who have achieved similar still wet undiapered. I’ve come across some who do not wet at all when not diapered. 

Gave it a try.  Figured I was changing my sheets today anyway, so it was the perfect opportunity to do a little test drive.  Woke up damp, but not soaked, or even really wet, but my pajamas were damp.  I suspect there was a wetting, or at least leaking overnight - a wet spot on my pad, but I think that may have been from after I woke up.  First night in 8 months unprotected and I had no worry about wet sheets since I was doing laundry anyway.  I followed my regular routine which usually means night wetting.  My reactions to not wearing:

Positive:  1) actually able to see and enjoy the morning wood.  2) I guess I'm good to travel if I can't wear or forget.

Negatives: 1) I had difficulty falling asleep, and woke up super early.  I think that may have been general discomfort or being unused to having nothing on.  2) I truly missed being diapered in bed.  3) no feeling of accomplishment.  4) no "sticker" on my chart since I wasn't diapered.  5) a worry I've halted the progress I've made and that this one day will set me back in my journey.

Neutral: My belief that I am not, in fact, a bedwetter, seems to be proven.  Even after waking up wet half the days of this month, I do not consider myself that way.  I don't know if this is a positive or a negative lol.

I shall not be repeating this experiment for quite a while, but you can use this result in your research.

[The mental game of becoming a bedwetter- overview of mental barriers I've seen (add more!)]

That’s very interesting. I FINALLY made a new ABDL friend, told him I’ve started wetting the bed, and he was happy for me. Later, I had wet while we weee hanging out and I told him that too. Not only was he good with it, he’s like “yeah….that happens. “. I’ve wet in front of people before, but that was the first time I said that I did. 

[Is this progress?]

Progress has been pretty good lately.  11 days out of 21 this month.  I don't call myself a bedwetter yet, but it's moving along.  I am tempted to do an experiment and not wear for a night or two while maintaining my regular routine.  On one hand, I don't want to break my streak.  On the other hand, I do want to see if actual progress is being made and if this is becoming an actual problem (an odd word considering that this was the goal), or if it's just a diaper thing.  I also don't want to subconsciously take myself back and undo 8 months of work.  One to think about....

[Better way to train to wet the bed?]

8 hours ago, deewet said:

In reality, if you are wetting during the night while sleeping in bed, you are a bed wetter even if you are wearing protection to protect your sheets and mattress!

Meh….I don’t know. I have been working to untrain at night and have been wetting 3-4 nights a week lately. That is as a result of decent hydration before sleep which now means more often than not I will wake up wet. It’s never a lot, but it’s there. I don’t consider myself a bedwetter. Yes,  wet at night on occasion, but it is a result of actions prior. I have no doubt that I would not wet if those steps were not taken or if I made an effort to stop. 

[Getting Surgery in Mexico]

17 minutes ago, superabsorbantpolymer said:

I'm looking forward to the new countdown timer and sexy ai generated diaper man in Mexico 😂

I'm glad I'm not the only one who looked forward to seeing that man!

[Better way to train to wet the bed?]

I haven’t tried. Two reasons. One, I like wearing at night. Two, I do worry that I will wet which will cause restless sleep and potentially cold, wet sheets. Eventually I’ll try, but don’t want to break my streak right now. 

[Better way to train to wet the bed?]

I have not found dependency an issue for me. I wear during the day because I want to not because I have to. That may have helped. But, for me, I have become a non-reliable bedwetter through time and patience. It was a combination of good diapers, hydrating before bed, and riding it out. In about six months I was sleep wetting a few times a week. That’s about where I am now 8 months in. Looking forward to more frequent and heavier wettings as time goes on but I’ll just wait and see. But, I don’t worry about an accident if I choose not to wear during the day. 

[How many times a week you wet a bed?]

Great job!!

[Is this progress?]

And here is the update that nobody wanted, asked for, or needed lol.  Since getting back into my night wetting after that irritating plateau, things are moving along nicely.  In the month of March, I've had 7 surprise wet mornings, and I feel relatively confident that I will wet if I drink the right amount right before bed.  But, the most exciting part for me is that while my wettings were rather light at first, with only a faint change in the color indicator.  Lately they have become a bit heavier, which I'm looking at as a sign of progress.  I don't know if that is a sign of things to come or just a result of more hydration prior to falling asleep, but I'm looking at it as a mark of progress.  I've not had a wet night without water beforehand, nor do I expect to, but I do wonder if it would continue if I was A) undiapered, and B ) not hydrated.  I guess we'll see what the next few weeks bring.

[How many times a week you wet a bed?]

So far, a few nights a week. But always a small amount.