Havelock

Does anyone else like acting like a little who is getting some "nakey butt" time and messing outside? You know that stage where your caretaker removes your diaper so you can become pee/poo aware, but you still can't control your needs and don't really care where you go? I've only tried it a few times when circumstances permitted but its pretty amazing to play in the yard with a full tummy and when the need arises drop into a squat and deposit a load on the ground wherever I need to. Of course I often leave a puddle too after I'm finished with my poo. It's great to be encouraged when I'm going "look, you're making a poo poo" like a good boy, praised when I finished "you made such a big poo" and wiped by mommy.

@Goodniteswearer89 do you remember where you saw them pee outside? Did your parents / caretakers let you squat or make you stand?

Sometimes I like to squat to pee like a girl outside. I've had this desire since I was potty training as a kid and saw my slightly older cousins squatting to pee outside. I thought it looked interesting. They would also sometimes have pee races with their streams squatting. I wanted to try and the nannies gender corrected me to stand and pee against things instead unless I was pooping.

@babybuddha I just noticed your post. Do you also have memories of being directed to potty outside growing up? Have you had the chance to role play outdoor potty?

@Goodniteswearer89 were you encouraged to pee outside by caretakers? Did you have many chances to see girls peeing outside? I was lucky to be encouraged and permitted to pee outside in nature and around town. My cousins (female and male) were encouraged to do the same. I was often fascinated by my female cousins streams when they squatted outside. They seemed to have such force and speed. Sometimes they would even have pee races with their streams across the ground and I could not even beat them by standing and shooting my stream farther. Sometimes I wished I could squat and pee like them.

@AbabeBill I think I was diapered more in the US because there were less potty options. I can't remember age but maybe 3 or 4. In EU I would wear underwear but I was offered places to pee proactively all the time outside. Actually I was also offered these proactive outdoor potty opportunities when my cousins were going even when I was in diapers. Different culture and very confusing to go from one to another. Then when I graduated from diapers (age 4-5?) I would have accidents in the US or stressful searches for appropriate places to pee. In the EU it was no problem because as soon as I felt the urge I could point to the nearest wall, tree, gutter, anywhere in the middle of the park, playground etc..

Does anyone else have have an ABDL interest that overlaps with a caretaker assisting in pottying outside a diaper, outdoor potty training and/or nature pees? Let me give some context. For years I have had a mild interest in diapers and an even stronger interest in public peeing. More recently I have been thinking that these interests have the same origin an averlap. Like many here, I think my diaper interest come from fond memories being diapered and take care of. I remember being put in a diaper by a nanny to “go pipi" at a young age and having an overwhelmingly positive feelings of care. In a similar way I tend to think fondly of the nannies helping me take a "nature pee" or pipi outside when I was being potty trained and after. I have many good memories of being sweetly guided to various places outside to pee and being directed to pee on a variety of things (walls, car wheels, garages, sidewalks, trees bushes etc.) in a variety of situations. It always felt like they put my needs ahead of public perceptions or any concerns about soiling things. Most of this took place in Europe (Spain and France) where outdoor peeing is accepted. This was always contrasted with much more strict upbringing in the US where such public peeing was not allowed or had to be uncomfortably delayed and hidden. Sometimes I would end up with wet pants and shame. As an adult I have found I enjoy relationships where my female partners act like the nannies of my youth, check if I need to pipi, and guide me to a place I can have a potty break outside. If they unzip me, help me and hold me that adds to the experience. If they disregard society in nonchalantly choosing a convenient location that will leave a mess/puddle, that’s even better. It seems similar to diaper roleplay but in a caretaker public peeing form. I've had a few partners who will indulge me in this role, but only one who I think could truly empathize with my psychology. This ex-girlfriend spent her early life in in China where they use split crotch pants instead of diapers. Thus, the same feelings many AB/DL have about diapers, she had about being held to pee outside. We would often role play and switch roles and she really got into it. Does anyone else have this kind of pottying outside the diaper with a caretaker type of gratification?

Hi, I go by Havelock (taken from the psychologist Havelock Ellis). I travel quite a bit, mostly US/UK/EU with a bit of Asia. I also grew up splitting time between the US and EU. For years I thought I had a pee fetish focused mainly on public peeing but I think some of the psychology overlaps with AB/DL. I have memories of being put in a diaper by a nanny to “go pipi" at a young age and having an overwhelmingly positive feeling of being cared for. In a similar way I tend to think fondly of the nannies helping me take a "nature pee" or pipi outside when I was being potty trained. I have many good memories of being sweetly guided to various places outside to pee and being directed to pee on a variety of things (walls, car wheels, garages, sidewalks, trees bushes etc.) in a variety of situations. It always felt like they put my needs ahead of public perceptions or any concerns about soiling things. Most of this took place in Europe (Spain and France) where outdoor peeing is accepted. This was always contrasted with much more strict upbringing in the US where such peeing was not allowed or had to be uncomfortably delayed and hidden. As a result I've become fascinated by the significant cultural differences around the world to peeing, pottying, toilets etc. I’ve also found I enjoy relationships where my female partners act like the nannies of my youth, check if I need to pipi, and guide me to a place I can have a potty break outside. If they unzip me, help me and hold me that adds to the experience. If they disregard society in nonchalantly choosing a convenient location that will leave a mess/puddle, that’s even better. I've had a few partners who will indulge me in this role, but only one who I think could truly empathize with my psychology. This ex-girlfriend spent her early life in in China where they use split crotch pants instead of diapers. Thus, the same feelings many AB/DL have about diapers, she had about being held to pee outside. We would often role play and switch roles and she really got into it. Anyway, that's my intro. I’m also going to post a topic for discussion on the correlation between diapers and nature peeing.