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I see, but with you mess being in contact with your “manhood” is a UTI guaranteed or is it more-so a risk increasing over time?

I agree completely, though most non-IC wearers won’t admit it.

Any tips for keeping a uti from happening? How would one ensure that your mess and urethra don’t make contact?

Just wondering if it’s okay to mess your diaper several times before removing it. I know people do it but, is there any cautionary advice to be offered? Any problems that people normally run into when trying to mess a diaper multiple times?

I’ve never actually worn before but I plan to do so and as the time nears, I also find myself feeling nervous. Not entirely sure why, but you’re wearing a diaper, I’m sure you have plenty reason to be nervous or anxious.

And so I shall!!

I’ve looked into Megamax I think I’ll definitely try them someday but I’m inexperienced so I’m heeding the many warnings about getting the proper experience before trying to fiddle with those tapes (I heard that they’re strong, but easy to mess up without the correct experience). As for trestI haven’t looked into them yet but I think I will now. Thanks.

Trying to look into diapers with a bulkier/thicker backing for future purchase. I personally prefer cloth-backed diapers but I’m open to all suggestions given. Thanks.

Honestly makes it harder to constantly wonder why. I figured that out as of late. I just want to.

Happens to me often where it feels like I need to use the bathroom every 30 minutes in a day, and working makes that almost impossible to deal with.

Not your fault man. I myself have a gf that’s accepting but not on the messing part (which I completely understand). Obviously it’s going to be shocking to hear these things at first or even in your case experience them first hand unexpectedly, but the only way that you can move forward is through communication. I’ve fought numerous times in the past with my gf about my diaper related interests. We don’t really argue about any of it anymore because we established boundaries and came to a compromise. Moral of the story is people aren’t gonna poop in a diaper if they don’t want to (makes sense) but the fact that we can find people that accept us whereas others are so unfortunate we should thank god.

Strictly a DL but I think baby-ish looking diapers add to the experience, I like how they look.