I'm new to this website but due to an accident have been incontinent for the last 8 years, I can tell you it is not the easiest thing in the world to deal with, largely to due peoples perceptions, responses, and attitudes. My dating life wasn't all that great before, had no problem finding Mr. Right Now; just couldn't find Mr. Right. After the accident my dating has gone to hell in a handbasket. Finally I believe I have found someone that is understanding, accepting, and willing to look past that fact that I have to wear 24/7. This person just happens to be a women, I didn't set out seeking the same gender, it just kind of happened. For the first time in my life (and I'm 36) I've found myself literally head over heels for someone and realizing that I'm sitting on cloud 9 right now. The feeling is amazing. Where the two of us will go or what will happen remains to be seen, it's still early, but we both seek the same thing and I can finally say in that response that I'm Happy.
Now, if response the thread. About 2 years I was sitting at a local bar where I know a few people, the bartender included and they are aware of my problem. I happened to be wearing a pair of jeans with a long sleeve tshirt that was untucked, wasn't trying to impress anyone, just winding down from the week. Sitting at the barstool next to me was a typically guy whose had to much to drink and beginning to make a nuisance of himself. I leaned over to get something out of my purse, while doing that my shirt pulled up far enough on my back to where he could see the back of the pull-up I was wearing. Here we go, he starts getting into me about wearing, being a baby, not potty trained, and other hurtful and insulting remarks; so much so I thought I was about to cry and the people who knew me could see it in my face. Next thing I know, somehow his barstool goes flying and he hits floor in total embarassment with his drink spilling all over him . I guess it's a good thing I decided to wear my cowboy boots that night . Just thought you all might get a kick out of that (no pun intended).
Audrey