I know I don't take great pains. Heck, if anyone who is looking for diapers looks at me, you'll find them. Sure, I don't advertise them (no short skirts, shorts, low-riding jeans) but I don't go to extreme measures, it's a waste of my time to everyday be always thinking about if my diaper's showing. I've got more important things to do, plus people will always find out eventually, hiding things just delays the inevitable.