That the thing with incontinence, they give you some strange advice sometimes.
More water, less water, no caffeine, alcohol etc etc.
When i talked to a nurse about it the point I made was that there is socially no difference between having 1 accident a week in your pants than 20 as, being someone in contact with lots of public if i pissedy pants every week standing outside asda or the filling up the car I would still have to wear a diaper even if I could get that down to .5 wettings a week. You don't know when it's going to happen, and in a small community you'd quicky be known as pissy pants.
So..... You piss you pants...end of.....wear something , get on with your life, wanna beer have a beer. Want a coke, have a coke. Just make sure your prepered for the mop up. Be happy and squishy!
I've got 2 main reasons for not havin treatment for my inco:
I have 3 kids under 5 and I cannot imagine trying to self cath after having Botox 6 times a day whilst one is screaming "daddy I've finished my poo" and the other is about to impale himself on something and I've got a sterile tube stuck up my penis.
2. What's the difference between one wetting a day and 8. None at all, I'd still have to wear a diaper or cath.
It makes me laugh when I read a leaflet on the vowel and bladder website, a guy had suffered from incontinence, had all sorts of treatments and got fucked around with, but he's "so much better now" wears a condom cath durin the day and a diaper at night for the occasional accidents!
What's the diffence!
Your still wearing a cath or diaper!
Good god, have a beer diaper up and chill out!