This discussion caught my eye because I have cerebral palsy and use diapers for bladder control issues caused by it. Odd I should become a DL, but I have.
Some have found my disability interesting or attractive to them, especially the way I walk. I've met a few who like a women in diapers, but the disability I have has been a turn off to them. Those who were attracted to me as a disabled woman (they are called devotees), have found that my need for diapers is gross or that my being a DL is ultra weird. Guess I'm unique. Either way, just trying to be accepted and enjoy life.
Julie