Ah well, whattya gonna do? I think many women get turned on by rape fantasies. Sometimes when a concept so revolts and terrifies us, our mind may make it sexual in order to better cope with its reality. So says Dan Savage, and I agree. So I think a lot of women get off on being abused and dishing out abuse of their own. It's the defamation of what we hold sacred that makes our twisted fantasies so powerful. That said, there is a clear line between playtime and real life, a line that is crossed way too much in porn.
You have issues with women mistrusting men? Um...you know there are some pretty good reasons why some women no longer trust men, right? I wouldn't really hold a grudge against a rape victim.
I am angry that many women do all the hard work in porn but receive a smaller paycheck than the (often male) producers they collaborate with. Shouldn't the ladies be making the big bucks? They're the ones getting cummed on, after all. So what the fuck? Kink.com does decent business from the look of it (it shows before and after photos of happy models to assure the viewer that no actual abuse was taking place) and it has some very imaginative scenarios, which is hot.
Another thing I hate about porn is how lame the conversation between a top and bottom can be. A slave is all tied up, on the edge of cumming, and then you suddenly hear "how's that treating ya?" in the placid, boner-killing tones of the dominant. LAME.
I hate searching for some good BDSM and coming across sites that feature little kids. And I'm all like "ARRGH!!! WHERE ARE THE COPS?!! WHAT THE HELL!?!!?" I hate seeing photos wherein I know the model didn't consent to the BDSM. I hate knowing I'm looking at actual rape.
I hate seeing hot women fuck ugly men. Where are the hot men fucking ugly women? (Outside of the humiliation/femdom scene?)
I hate hentai drawn by animators who have obviously never had sex before.
I hate drawings of disemboweled/beheaded/horrifically wounded women that is presented as porn. When you get off to that there's no denying that you are a sick headcase.
I hate poor acting. You're being dominated, damn it! Stop yawning!
I hate the lack of imagination.
I hate the desensitizing effects hardcore pornography has on its audience. I now believe, on a subconscious level, that women should be able to handle genital torture, but I squirm at the idea of a dude having his balls pinched by a steel toothed clamp. So I then force myself to masturbate to male genital torture in my head, just so I'm desensitized to everyone's pain. Yay equality!