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Does anyone have any tips on what to say , what pics to show etc. for online dating sites? I'm on a popular fetish site and I don't seem to be having any luck with that. I did open up with " looking for mother/son role play relationship" and posted pics of me in my diaper.... I'm not sure that was a good idea or not?

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Well, I'm not sure if I'm the person you really want to hear from, because I'll be honest that I have a really hard time in the traditional AB "Mommy" role.

Mine is lack of comments, makes me think my storys suck!

That's awesome Gecko! Yeah, I don't miss meat either, like you said there is such a wide selection or products. Truthfully, animal rights was the reason I went vegetarian, than vegan but the health benefits are great! I am the healthiest I have been in a long time. People tend to think just because you are a vegetarian or vegan that you will become some how unhealthy if you don't have meat in your diet. Not true. Although, we do need to watch our B12, especially vegans. But as for protein and all the other vitamins, they are in the food you eat and if you eat a healthy diet you will get the vitamins and protein.

I love to wear. My loving wife knows I wear and she supports me and puts me in my diapers and loves to change me.She is an awesome lady and I don't care that she doesn't wear.

I had a stranger in Vegas offer to change me once, she reached under my petty coat and grabed my diapered ass! I was like WOAH!! Shortly after I met a bald biker dude on Freemont st who asked me wtf I was doing. Thought I was gonna get in a fight.... Told him having a night on the town. He replied with badass. Fortunately no fight. Im not certain why being comfortable in your skin takes such negative connotation in this community. I'm actually more comfortable sporting my Abdl gear in public than my BDSM leathers. My leathers make me look like a biker, or maybe it's the tattoos? LoL I have a lot of event patches from S&M events I've been too, so maybe those make me feel a little uneasy? Or maybe it's my gruff appearance in my leathers that make others a little scared of me when I'm out? Who knows. I do find a lot of the folks who get all wildly up in arms about ABDL's being open about themselves are single... Maybe the lack of self confidence and anger towards those who are confident is what drives that solitude? I haven't the faintest idea? All I know is my wife and I will continue doing what we love and continue talking to those people we meet in public. Going on years now that I've been doing this and still have had only positive experiences. It's a beautiful world we live in filled with so many unique people in it. The best way to receive tolerance and respect is to give it. I hope in the following years more people will be confident with their Abdl side and come out of the closets. I hope that by me going out and being confident gives someone else the courage to know they aren't alone and there is a wonderful life if they embrace their uniqueness.

Diapered Lover! I try to keep things clear about who wears the panties in the relationship. Besides, late in the night when the blankets shift and I am compeled to ask "Oh gods sis... what is that smell?" I like to know that it's not me

I want both awesome

Hey i go out in public in a diaper whenever i go out, i do not have a choice its medically necessary and i do not feel like a freak a misfit or anything else i'm a person who happens to need diapers,my body is breaking down that bothers me , if people saw me without clothes they would probably laugh at how frail i have become and that bothers me ,but some idiot gets in my grill about my diaper and i will let them have it,live a day in my shoes dirt bag and then make fun of a person in diapers. and i feel that those who wear recreationally or as a stress reducer /safety "blanket" should have just as much right to wear as i do ,they are not hurting anyone or bothering anyone they are just living there life the way they want so they should fear no one and suffer no reprisals from ignorant people who should worry more about there own life then they do about someone else's Diaper status. My 2 Cents worth

I'm perfectly fine with sarcasm, when it is well written and appropriate, thank you very much.

I don't see this as any different than anything else. You didn't use to see a lot of people with piercings or tats years ago, unless they were in the Navy where tattoos were common. NOW you see that stuff EVERYWHERE and it's very common, if not a 'fad' and possibly something that will pass as people grow up and move on to something else. *shrug* being who you are is one thing, but being accepted is something different. 10 years ago, having visible piercings was forbidden in the work place, now its very common as people have pushed to have it accepted as 'personal decoration much like make up etc. I don't like it as I think it's ugly, but to each their own I guess. As for being an AB/DL type, it's possible to enjoy yourself as an AB?DL with out being totally obvious. Having a diaper under your clothes is common for many of us, as we don't have to be blatant about what we do. So would like to go out in total baby gear be it male or female etc and feel free to do so but fear the odd reactions etc. It is what it is, as most people would just consider your 'gear' as a costume and wonder why your so dressed up when it's not Halloween or something This might be taken in a bad way, and I hope it's not...but look at those who are our roll models....todays kids/ babies....(told ya) In most cases you can't even tell the kid is in a diaper anymore, and most of the clothes they wear are just smaller versions of what grownups wear....so there isn't any real kind of "baby / child' outfit that has the designation of "child' anymore. Plus, diapers (disposables) have become so thin that it looks like the kid is not wearing them at all....until they use them and they swell up...or fill them with a load and that has it's own indicator (WHEW!) So being out and about as an AB/DL publicly isn't 'THAT' big a deal, you just have to still blend in with out being 'too' obvious about your intent or activities. This discussion has been posted many times over the years and it still comes down to 1 basic thing..."acceptance" both personally and socially. A lot of fear of going out in gear and being publicly embarrassed or humiliated or ridiculed etc (or harmed) are still prevalent. I go out and about in a diaper...and nothing happens, but then again I'm a D/L and just wear normal street clothes and don't do anything to attract attention to myself I "DID" go out a week or so ago wearing a VERY bulky night weight cloth prefold and plastic pants under my over sized jeans, and I did feel conspicuous because the diaper was much thicker than my others I had worn...it was odd, and I kept looking around as i went to the 7/11 to get coffee, but no one was staring at me or said anything and it was kind of busy etc...so go figure. Are there more publicly active AB/DL types out there??? maybe...whats the price that they (And we) pay for such exposure?? bashing On-line...? BFD! do they get bashed publicly?? No....so who cares? All that needs to be done to enjoy this part of your life is just use your head and some discretion. Don't be blatant about what your doing, and no one will notice much less care. Just like the tats and piercings that are so prevalent today, they weren't years ago, but gradually worked their way into public view and were gradually accepted as something thats harmless (though unsightly to me ) etc. so it has to be here. yeah there are the brave ones pushing the envelope, they will suffer what ever their fate, but in the end, say 10-15 years (yes YEARS) from now, who knows what will be accepted. All we can do is keep on keeping on, and doing what we do, and not bothering anyone or damaging anything or causing a problem....because we don't have that right as individuals. So go slip into a diaper and go see a movie or tractor pull or go to what ever concert or festival you want...no one cares and you might get some jealous looks as you pass the public port-a-potties as those who have to wait in line to pee

Do I like to watch people pooping? Not really. I do think it's hysterical to watch babies/toddlers poop sometimes, though...the way they make funny faces and push and grunt and just don't care that everyone knows exactly what they're doing. Makes me laugh.