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It depends on how they wet. If you flood any diaper and are laying on your side, there is a chance that it is going to leak, even your premiums like bambino, molicare, or abena. If the person is a back sleeper, it's less likely to leak given the way that the leg gathers work. I've worn goodnites in the past, and had full voids into them while standing up, and they have held that. Like I said, it's all in how quickly you wet them.

I'd like to see more options in diapers, onesies, and footed PJs with butt flaps - different prints, colors, themes, etc. Matched sets of cloth diapers, onesies, and PJs with the same patterns would be AWESOME! Right now, most AB clothing sites (BabyPants, FetWare, etc) specialize in one or two of these areas, but I haven't seen one yet that brings everything together under a single business. Even if you only resell products from other sites, it would still be great if there were a "one-stop shop" for AB stuff. I can never remember which sites I've used in the past, so shopping for AB things is always a pain in the butt for me. Bulk or matched set discounts would also be great. AB clothes are DAMNED expensive. I realize they're expensive to make, but some of these sites absolutely FLEECE the customer base with outrageous per-unit prices. $70+ for a footed PJ? $50+ for a basic pastel snap onesie t-shirt? Who are they kidding? C'mon, guys. We may be an odd bunch, but even we don't like being ripped off...

Tiny bit of back ground (Wanna keep it short because I want this to be a happy post)

I used to work from home (before I ran away to Australia) any way, now I'm back I've started to work through the gigantic piles of paper work I abandoned in the hope I can get my business started back up and making money again.

I have been a bedwetter all of my life, with the exception of a few nights a month I wet my diaper without knowing. I am a deep sleeper and it takes multiple alarms to wake me I don;t think I have ever gotten up to go to the bathroom. When I was younger I hated having to wear a diaper and most of the time I just dealt with the sheets.

Why lie?

If you didn't get the 'sharpened stick' reference, it proves that I was a Punk before you (a reference you probably won't get either)

Mainly quoted for posterity as there are too many points to address and most here should see them. "Five big garbage bags...no room in dumpster"

This is the ABSOLUTELY BEST reply here. Spot on. Your relationship always improves by putting INTO it, not expecting more OUT of it. The very worst that can happy is that she is happier. The very best that can happen is that she is happier AND you get some of your wants met as well. It's one of those rare scenarios where you cant lose. This is of course, why so few people do it!

Best idea? Next time you're about to get sexual and she goes for a diaper, stop her and say "no, this time let's just have this be about me and you!" Reinforce to her the importance of HER, and that you can separate the two and enjoy her without the fetish. Then, when she DOES engage, she'll be more likely to go farther because she's doing it more for you... and knowing that you love and respect HER more for doing so.