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Has anyone been experimenting with the tens units any further, or is this thread pretty much dead?

I don't hardly ever smoke cigarettes as much as I used too. Mostly just smoke a tobacco pipe which is relaxing too me. I will sometimes smoke the pipe while wearing a diaper. Chad

actually you did not ask for the names of professionals, and i never mentioned professionals, i asked if you were going to have other speakers at your event other than you and your husband who may also have a certain level of experience in abdl.. and stated perhaps some well established members who are professionals in their 'other' life i.e. not abdl life..I personally would never name people and put them in danger of being contacted by someone as insecure as you. You continuously spout petty insults and passive agressive posts in an attempt to make yourself look better by putting others down. Personally i will never read your book because I don't need to. I only engage in ab play as sexual role play scenario with my boyfriend who only engages in ab play as a sexual fetish roleplay scenario. Your book offers me nothing as you have made it clear it has nothing to do with those who participate in this for sexual reasons. So why would i waste my money on a book that will offer me nothing? and not once have you ever told me your research methods, but you have NUMEROUS times stated you did 'research' for your book including interviews with other abdls... this implies research... hell research can be as much as reading other books or articles.. but other than stating you have talked with other abdls you have yet to give any specifics. Aside from collecting stories on the internet form people who may or may not even be who they say they are.. did you do anything else? and honestly i don't care at all about 'educating' people about abdl or whatever.. thats always been clear from my posts.. i've never pretended to have any desire to 'educate' people about anything related to this.. except to give my own opinion when people post here looking for advice...

I never saw "continence" itself as a BIID issue. Rather, I saw having normal male genitalia as the issue given all the problems they can cause when you're wearing a diaper. Like some people have mentioned in other DD forums, having an erection while diapered can be uncomfortable. Leaking out the waistband is irritating. It seems like most incontinence products work better for the female anatomy. So, I frequently wished I had a birth defect that left me incontinent with a more female-like anatomy, but still with a male gender. (Complicated isn't it?) As you get older and become more confident in yourself, you no longer feel the need to justify yourself to others. For years, I wanted a "legitimate" reason to be wearing diapers for justification to my employer or others if they found out. Now that I understand where my DL desires come from, I no longer need that "legitimate" physical disability to justify my wearing diapers. Age and related medications also solve anatomical problems associated with being male and wearing diapers. Erections are no longer a problem and my penis is so short that it can't get anywhere near the waistband of the diaper. These days, I just consider diapers to be my normal underwear. Occasionally, I still wear regular briefs when they are more convenient. But those occasions are happening with decreasing frequency. By the way, my "regular" briefs ... they are adult-sized training pants from Comco. I threw my Fruit of the Loom briefs in the trash years ago.

I am pretty sure I suffer from BIID, when I wear and use diapers I like to feel like I am disabled, that to me is more natural than pretending to be a baby which does nothing for me at all..I am pretty much obsessed with wheelchairs and diapers. To me it feels like how I want to live my life. I suppose it boils down to the same thing, being cared for and looked after. A couple of years ago I had GBS which left me paralysed from the chest down and incontinent. I had to use a wheelchair and diapers then and it was brilliant. However my boyfriend isn't really the caring type and basically made me feel unloved and a burden to him. I felt so confused, happy in one respect but completely let down at the same time. In time I recovered but it's been very difficult to leave that part of me behind, as in some ways I crave to be in a wheelchair again but I know it's not normal to feel like that so I strive to have a normal life and just keep that part of me secret. Only 1 person knows how I feel and he totally understands, and he has feelings like that too. Such a shame he is gay!

sounds like you need a hug. Thats what needy people need

DSpace finally dead? That's too good to be true.

Lol I ran away screaming from that site years ago.

Ah, you have found my conundrum I can't explain why, but I love the feeling of a thoroughly soaked diaper And it has to be me making it that way by peeing- nothing else even comes close. I can't find any reason for me being like this. All I can say is that I am this way, I like it, and since it's not hurting any innocent people I don't have a problem with it Well, maybe one problem- it's too impractical to do in my daily life so I just do it at home when the mood strikes me and I have the opportunity to do it For me the best feeling is being in a thick and thoroughly soaked cloth diaper. Cloth lets you feel it all over Cloth diapers also give me some 'play options' doing this. I have some rubber panties that don't leak until liquid piddles in a big way. I also have plastic panties of all sorts, some which leak at the first provocation If I feel like I want to be visibly wet I go with those and jeans which show wetness nicely. If I just want to feel wet and am not concerned about appearances I'll go with the rubber ones. And sometimes I feel like having to change diapers a lot, so for those occasions (when I can afford it that is) I make a game of soaking as many pull-ups and pants as I can until the joy of wetting begins to fade I've thought about this and how I am and I can't find any reason for me being this way. Than kind of bugs me because I'm one of those who always wants to know why I'm the way I am But I don't need to know why as much as I need to let this part of me have an outlet when it needs to happen, so I just do it and enjoy it often enough to make sure it doesn't drive me crazy The most important thing is that it makes me happy and hurts no one, even if it sometimes leaves a lot of laundry to be done afterward Oh well, that's not much of a price to pay for happiness, is it? In fact I'd say it's a bargain! Bettypooh

1 trash bag, a lot of duct tape, and a roll of paper towels. I saw a tutorial video for it, but I can't remember how to find it.