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With this country and most of the western world becoming more obese, it seems that fewer diaper manufacturers are offering diapers in youth and small. I mean, what in the hell are little people or young children to do, piss in a fucking towel? So, I'm guessing that most would expect that when you outgrow baby diapers, you have to wait until you are large enough, or hopefully can fatten up yourself enough, to wear a fucking medium. Well, that is not practical or is it fair because there are people like me who will stay little forever, and it would not be at all healthy for people my size to get fat, even if it were possible. No matter how much I eat, my metabolism keeps me from gaining. I actually have weight gaining problems so much to the point I have to consume supplements on a daily basis, several times a day to insure that my body stays at a proper weight and does not drop too low. I'm sorry for the rant. Secure Personal Care has stopped offering diapers in my size. I order them back in 2009 and really loved them. Now when we are doing okay financially and my husband consents to getting them for me, they no longer sell them. This fucking sucks! I've been wearing tranquility because our health insurance provider pays for them. We finally got that worked out, and it has been working well because we do not have to spend much on diapers for me anymore. But what our insurance will cover is very limited because they are cheapscates, and it was a fight to even get them to cover tranquility. My husband had to fight for that for approximately four months. I'm kind of sick and tired of wearing tranquility, though, but what I will say is that they do not leave out little children or little people. They are practical than most. I was hoping to try something different, though, hence the reason for checking with Secure Personal Care. I looked at the website, and it said that the youth size and the small sizes in all of their diapers were sold out. I had my husband call to verify this, and they said they did not know when they would get a small in for any of their diapers and that he could check back in a few months. A few fucking months? Hell, I need diapers now! I liked everything about the diapers at Secure Personal Care, the leg gathers, the maximum absorbency, the landing zone for the tapes to keep the diaper from tearing, and the fact they are made of plastic. But, I guess that I will never get to have them again, which absolutely blows.

Noooooo! Not the soap! Not the spanking! LOL I was just upset because it seems like my options are decreasing. I'm trying to talk to my husband about getting me Bambino diapers, but he says that they are a bit expensive. But he also told me that if I am really not happy with sticking to the Tranquility, he will get me those because he wants me to be comfortable. I'm really glad I have a man who really loves me, cares for me, and is concerned about my personal comfort. Bambino diapers seem awesome, and they are definitely worth the purchase. I've also explored the possibility of purchasing Abena X+ which, for now, still is carried in my size. I can fit Pampers size 7 and Loves Ultra Leek Guard Stretch size 6, but the absorbency is not as good as what some adult diapers will offer. If this current trend keeps up, then I will be relegated to baby diapers and will have to purchase diaper stuffers for better absorbency.

Hey guys, sorry for the short, short update but theres a lot more to come. Ill have it up shortly. ------------------------------------ Jess just sat at the table blushing, nervous that someone in the restaurant might have heard her conversation with her best friend. Shelby smiled a little before pulled her blonde hair into a pony tail and closing her menu. "So diapers have actually made Sam a better man, huh?" said Shelby with a small smirk on her face. "Shelby! Shhh, not so loud, okay?" said Jess looking around nervously. Jess always hated talking about her husband's bedwetting but, after their purchases from the medical supply store nearly a month ago, Shelby was all too curious about how things had turned out. Still smirking a little, Shelby leaned in a little bit and looked at Jess. "Okay, okay, I don't want to embarrass you. But things have been better between you guys?" "Yeah, they really have. Its not so much that they've made him a better man or anything, its just that we get along better. We're both sleeping better so we're both less cranky when we wake up, you know?" "But didn't you say that Sam put up a bit of a fight for a while?" asked Shelby. "No, I laid down the law that day and I told him he was going to be wearing... protection to bed. He just kept arguing about the whole 9:30 rule. Now he's much better. He's home by 9 every night and he's all ready for bed by 9:30." "Good for you. No leaks?" "No, no, we haven't had any leaks. They're... really absorbent." "Well its good to know you showed him who's boss." "Yeah... actually, it sounds kind of weird to say this but..." "Jess? What is it?" "Its nothing... its just that..." Jess had a small, shy smile on her face. "Ever since he's been wearing... protection, we just haven't been fighting as much. He's home by 9 every night. Sometimes he even comes home early. He doesn't drink as much. And its kind of cute how shy he is about letting me see him in his diapers. I think this whole experience took his ego down a few notches, you know? Instead of groping me in the middle of the night or constantly looking for sex, he'll... put his arm around me. Or sometimes we'll just lay down in bed and cuddle." "Thats nice. So... I take it the diapers haven't exactly improved your sex life." "Shelby! Thats kind of a personal question." "Okay, I'll take that as a 'no'. Jess, we're best friends. If I met some cute guy or got any action, I'd let YOU know. Wasn't last week Sam's birthday?" "Yeah, it was." "And?" asked Shelby inquisitively. "Well, he had a stressful day at work and he was really tired but... I guess you could say I gave him a hand." Shelby smiled. "Now, could we please change the subject?" asked Jess. "Sure. So are you all packed for your trip to L.A.?" "Yeah, I'm all set. Actually Shelby, could I ask a favor of you while I'm gone these next two days?" "Sure, anything." The digital clock on Sam's dashboard read 8:57. He slid his tie out from around his shirt collar and tossed it onto the passenger seat. Just a few more minutes and he'd be home. While Sam knew that he would miss Jess while she was away, he was still looking forward to having the house all to himself. In some strange way, he felt like he did when he was a teenager and his parents went out of town. Of course, he didn't have any wild parties planned for tonight. Quite the opposite really. He planned to use the night as a chance to sit on the couch, drink a beer, relax, maybe watch an action film. All day, he'd been debating whether or not he'd wear a diaper to bed. Over the past month, he'd almost gotten used to taping a thick disposable diaper around his waist every night before 9:30. It was just part of his routine at this point. Still... there was something freeing about the idea that he wouldn't have to follow that same schedule and, if HE didn't want to wear a diaper to bed, he didn't have to. Washing the sheets the next day would be a simple maneuver and Jess would be none the wiser. Sam fumbled a little with the keys to the front door before opening it and stepping inside. He took off his jacket and set it down on the couch along with his keys. Suddenly, Shelby walked out of the kitchen. Startled, Sam jumped a little as she emerged from behind the corner. "Shit, Shelby you scared me." he said. "I'm sorry, Sam. I didn't mean to scare you. Jess gave me a key." Seeing her standing in his living room, Sam instantly felt nervous. Even though Shelby was one of Jess' best friends, he'd always been kind of shy around her. She stood about 2 inches taller than Sam and despite the fact that she was older, Sam always thought she was fairly attractive. Attractive, but intimidating. At 24 years old, Sam was more than 10 years younger than Shelby and he'd always had a suspicion that she looked down on him a little. After all, Shelby and Jess were best friends and told each other everything. And even though Shelby had never said anything to him, he was fairly certain that she knew about his bedwetting. Her friendly smile did little to reassure Sam. 'Why is she here?' Sam wondered. "You know, I'm sorry, Jess actually left for L.A. this morning." said Sam. "Yeah, I know. She asked me to drop by. She wanted me to pick up the mail, water your plants, just make sure everything's okay while she's gone." said Shelby. "Well, thats nice I guess but, you know, I'm home. I could have done all of that." said Sam hesitantly. "I know, Sam but Jess said you work late a lot and I told her I would be in your neighborhood." "Okay, well, thanks for stopping by." "Actually, Sam, Jess also wanted me to stop by so I could check on you." "Check on me?" Sam asked, raising an eyebrow. "Yeah, I guess she was in such a hurry to make it to the airport that she forgot to mention it. One of the reasons Jess wanted me to stop by tonight was to make sure you got diapered by 9:30." "Wait, w-w-what?" asked Sam, tired and unsure if his ears were deceiving him. "Jess told me its kind of an embarrassing subject for you. But she said you know 9:30 is the rule and you wouldn't give me any trouble." "Oh, uh, no. I mean, of course not. Yeah, I was just about to go in there and get... uh, all ready for bed. I actually had kind of a long day." "Great. Well, I'll just be out here if you need any help." said Shelby smiling. "Oh, um, thats okay. I'll be okay, I mean, I know how to do it." "Yeah... okay, Sam, Jess told me that you're still having trouble with getting the fit right and putting the tapes in the right places so since she's out of town, I'm going to be helping you out tonight. Jess said sometimes its easier for her to just get your supplies out and diaper you herself. I work at a hospital so changing adult diapers is something I'm really well versed in. If you want, I'd be more than happy to give you some help. If not, thats okay too. But at the very least, I'm gonna have to do a quick diaper check when you come out just to make sure the tapes are in place." "L-l-look, I don't know what Jess told you exactly but... I'm fine. Really, its no big deal. I can handle it." "Sweetie, I understand this is a little embarrassing for you, okay? I understand how you feel but... this isn't up to you. I'm here for Jess. Now when I leave here tonight, I want to be able to text my best friend and tell her that her husband is ready for bed and is going to be all dry tonight. So... I'm looking at my watch and its 9:19. You've got plenty of time to get ready and you can come out here at 9:30 and I'll check your diaper for you, okay?" "Look Shelby, I know you and Jess are best friends but I really don't think-" "Look, Sam if its not about your diaper, then I really don't want to hear about it. This isn't up for discussion, okay? I'm trying to be nice about this but I'm not leaving here until I see that your wearing a diaper and you've got the tapes fitting, okay? You better get in there, you're wasting time." Sam was feeling so many emotions. He couldn't believe that Shelby could talk to him like that in his own house. But he was really mad at Jess. Now feeling defeated by Shelby's assertive personality, Sam hung his head and shuffled into his bedroom, shutting the door behind him.

It's closed minded viewpoints like this that I can't stand. Diapers and intercourse are two totally separate things. Do you go out in a tight top, short skirt, thong or bikini? Do those things make you feel sexy? Do they turn you on? How about high heels or sandals? Some people have a foot fetish, does that mean they should not ever wear shoes in public? Hell, there is a whole national restaurant chain based off of women dressing sexy. Maybe everyone should just wear a burqua instead. Wouldn't want anyone in public being stimulated or exposed to something they might find unattractive. Get over yourself. ABDL is not just a behind closed doors thing.

Show Cindie what sweetie? I ask as I finish diapering you.

Well as someone who requires to wear a diaper 24/7,for urinary incontinence i know this for sure it is no fun,and can be very deressing at times when you know that you have no control over what you do. I am incontinent due to nerve damage due to diabetis,and i do not have any feeling of wetting myself,so at the start it was very emarrasing to be out and about and then all of a sudden you were soaking,and having people stare at you with wet trousers,and not being able to do anything about it. But wearing nappies has totaly changed my way of life,i can get out and about and i do not need to worry about when i am wetting,as my nappie will keep all of my urine in and will not show through my clothes for everyone to see that i have wet myself. When you look at other people who are a lot more dissabled than this,thenwetting yourself if hard to live with,but it could be a lot worse.

Again it comes down to not WHAT you see, but WHY you are seeing it. If you are going about your business and happen to be in a diaper and it happens to become visible, most people will not notice anything more than that. But if you are prancing around, or even trying to not be seen so that if you are seen you are "caught" and you get your kicks, there is an uncomfortable vibe that people will notice about the situation, and they will find it strange and wierd. And it is when the public is uncomfortable with something that it finds strange and wierd that there is a potential for the ABDL community to get a bad rap.

ohhhh all this talk about me going to australia to be ur lil gir.... i'm as moist as a snack cake down there!!!! where do i sign up???

In a medical context, it seems irresponsible to lie about something like this. Doing it so a nurse will have to come and change you is flat out wrong in my book. People come to the hospital with STDs and stuff stuck up their ***. So what. In any other context, I would say, "I had some accidents, it's probably just stress and it'll pass, and I don't want to talk about it?" "Have you seen a doctor?" "Look, I don't want to talk about it". That's my strategy.

Question for U, Bettypoo -- what do you feel has made this current change? Daddy Fred.

hahah i already necrod a ton of old threads after this

No. just no. Diapers should only be something to do in private with someone else. Not exposing that to the rest of society. Gross. Sorry. Do you and your partner engage in sex in the middle of a mall with kids around..? No. Same with diapers: Leave it at home or get a room! (Sorry if that sounds harsh but it's true)

Are you talking about massaging a baby's genitals to masterbation? Dude if not, REWORD THAT SHIT. You sound like yo are talking about molesting kids. If you ARE talking about that....then dude. NO WORDS except get out.

And the bleaches and dyes used to make the cloth, the electricity used to wash and dry them, the cost of plastic pants which aren't exactly 'green' to manufacture, etc, etc, etc... There's just no way on earth that cloth diapers are that much better for the environment. If there is a difference either way, it's negligible. The people who spout that stuff are just trying to be different and rebelious. The environmental impact of cloth diapers is just in a different place in it's lifecycle than disposables. It's just like people who say electric cars have zero emissions. Sure, maybe nothing comes out of the exhaust pipe but what about what the magnets to make those motors (from filthy rare earth mines in China), the shed load of li-ion batteries not to mention where the power that charges those batteries comes from (coal and nuclear power mostly). It's not 'zero emissions' or 'environmentally friendly', it's just that the nasty crap is offset and takes place somewhere other than under the bonnet.

Use enough quotes and CAPS there? Come on, you are just coming off as closed minded and overly judgmental.

I can see it now US health care overhaul heading to supreme court Chaos in the streets of Cairo We are getting word of am impending terrorist threat that could have a major impact on.... This has just been handed to me, a woman in walmart partially exposed her adult diaper. No less than a few people may have seen it. Now keep in mind people this is a product they sell at walmart but she wasn't medically authorized to wear them outside of her own bedroom. When asked for comment, President Obama indicated the AB/DL community may just behind the incident and promised justice will reign not just for the victims in walmart today, but for all Americans. In Flint Michigan, Micheal Moore led a demonstration to get adult diapers pulls from the shelves of walmart. When asked to comment, a spokesman for the AB/DL community stated, on the condition of anonymity "It was a tragedy and we could have stopped it we knew it could happen, but we didn't know when or where." We will have up to the minute information as this story unfolds on our website. Coming up, Amy with weather and Stu with sports

people seem to forget that cloth isn't exactly easy on the enviroment either. consider the chemicals you wash them in, where do those go? down the drain. Consider the amount of water used as well.

Could you make another Facebook account using a different userid/email and password? That is why I tell person to have different email accounts for different purposes. This is especially true for ABDL activities

Women get married hoping their husband will change, they don't. Men get married hoping their wife will never change, they do.

I wear miniskirts in 40F .... only put on a coat (jacket really) if it's colder than 50F .... when I walk (and I'm skinny) more than a block my body temperature rises to the point where I can get hot in the snow. Seriously, some people can stand even colder temps, though I prefer warmer temps it's not impossible for someone to be warm or even hot in "cold" weather. Also, if you are judging someone by "what's attractive" ... then you really should get your head examined.

The fact that it was an underwear clone diaper, I have to agree more with D_Rainger on this matter. Retardation comes in varying degrees, being over weight can cause other issues which require just a little more protection than vanilla underwear can contain, and the underwear clones are not made well at all for adults, their fit is just inhuman. A medium "pull up" as you called them comes almost to my chest, while the padding just below my hips, for most brands, Depends being the worst. Most who use these do so because they think no one will notice the difference, that is their selling point as a whole, and they are not made like a child's "pull up" at all. Also the fact that there was vanilla underwear over them, he may have actually attempted to hide them. There is just so many nonperverted possibilities, but this kind of snap judgment shows a flaw in the "fetish" community, not in this man's behavior, because you still haven't gotten over yourself. Hate to be blunt, but you were, are you so caught up in your own sexual perversion that you believe everyone who wears the same thing is also a sexual pervert? Can you not see how quickly you jumped into frame of mind? The vanilla folk I expect such knee jerking from, but someone who wears for pleasure should be a little more knowledgeable and thoughtful than they are.

Shame on you! You are judgemental and cruel. How do you know this person did it on purpose? Did you talk to him? Tell him that he was "showing"? Maybe he would have appreciated the help. You didn't know what was really going on, you simply jumped to conclusions. Get off your high horse and have some human compassion. -DR

About 25 years ago, Infantae Press did an article on about waterproof panties being used in female prisons. I have forgotten most of it but if someone has it, they can cite or scan it. What I do rmember of it was that, historically, the inmates had to wear panties or bloomers made of that hideous brown rubber and in more recent times, rubberized canvas. It did not say anything about what may have been worn under them and left the impression nothing was.

if you are asking if you should wait then YES YOU SHOULD WAIT! if you have to ask, clearly you have reservations..... thats your mind telling you not to do it... so don't.... wait until you don't feel the need to ask anymore... then you will be ready....

Well even though it sounds sexual to you, above poster, it's still nice to know others mess themselves even though reasons vary. It is strange the act of messing or sitting/stewing in my mess doesn't turn me on sexually, but I get a euphoric high that literally lasts all day every day as long as I am in contact with my feces. Which means rashes and or open sores are my worst enemy. I hate anything that removes me from my mess exposure.

Tris, Always great to read your posts. It's been awhile since I've logged in, great to see you're still participating and keeping things interesting. Btw, where on the west coast are you? --Lex

First problem was that you got married and THEN told her about your DL side/life AFTER two YEARS. You are lucky you have gotten to indulge yourself to the degree that you HAVE. Unless you can reach some kind of compromise - and you HAVE been to counseling - if you want to keep the girl, you have to decide HOW important your DL side/life/world IS to you as compared to your love/marriage to your wife. It may mean that you have some kind of agreement that allows you indulge yourself only when she is not around. Get used to instability and the emotional rollercoaster with your wife. It's normal. A woman is a woman - and NO slam intended here. It's called female hormones and is very natural. You have to get used to it and learn how to deal with it if you love her and have no intention of splitting up. Sometimes, in the compromise, if she will let you indulge yourself, you can make sure she gets something SHE likes/wants/needs, and maybe way MORE than what you perceive as the "value" of what YOU receive out of the compromise. She's entitled to her opinion(s), but it's not fair or right to change the rules of the game in the middle of the game. So, you have to reach a common ground. And, that's the only way it's going to work, or your only option is to withdraw, and for most of us DLs, that is just not acceptable and doesn't work for very long. The worst thing you can do is indulge yourself "on the sly". She will always be suspicious, and it WILL damage your relationship over time, to the point of destroying it. Good luck.

Once again it is not a form of being a pedo !! i wish people would get that!!! .I was also in the same position with my now x wife i told her long before we got married and even moved in together .She thought she could handle it or i would change and the diaper wearing would stop .I went to counciling (she would not go )they seen to shrug it off and when i told her it was either she acceppt it or our marriage was doomed she thought i was lying .In the end it did not work and my now x GF can't get wrap her head around it .Sorry to be negative !but it takes open communcation and understanding on both parts respct her wishes and do it when she is not home .At least you have that option my stuff was always under lock and key good luck and i hope the best for you

As an individual member, I could not do that "outreach" since I have no standing other than as a member and cannot claim to represent or speak for Daily Diaper in any way shape or form. Now, A.C. Medical is "AB unaware", not that they do not know, but that they cannot integrate AB into their "act" because they operate under Canadian tax code in such a way that would forbid that. Someone who could represent DD as a body could address that to them or accept a "no thanks" officially whereas a member can only legitimately speak for herself. Beyond, that, and this is what made DPF the 800 lb gorilla of the ABDL world,. Tommy brought together the vital resources, whether it was Amber E, the early stages of Carolyn's Kids, Edley Enterprises, Infantae Proess or Li'l Wrnagler and made them partst of the DPF "family"/ While the individual members could and did add to the Rewource Guide, The main parts were sought out and put in by Tommy. He created a working relationship with these companies which meant that DPF as an entity, was aware of these and they were aware of DPF as an entity, not just a rumor. If a business could truthfully say they had a connection to DPF, that was a powerful assertion of quality and some of them advertised in the DPF Newletter. DD is now at the "breakout stage" where it can move up to the next level. Getting back to the original post,, the need for that next level is apparent. I doubt that ABU set up the account at Facebook with the idea of compromising its customers. I do not have an AB account at FB because I do not know their attitaude and policy respecting Adutl material and just how effective that secrets can be kept there. I was burned by Yahoo! which claimed to have an Adult section and still delted their AB/LG groups and accounts. and many companies want no part of Adult material.

Yeah, people like this are just trying to pick fights. There's nothing wrong with the wording. It's crystal clear to everyone, even those that claim it isn't.

Soft poo is awesome, Goden. Not only does it feel great slipping out, it's comfy to sit in. Unlike, what we have here, a hard piece of poo.

If it did not stink then how would anyone else know that you have just messed yourself is that not what the best part of it is to fill you nappie and be all stinky

Let's not and say we did. There are some things that I cannot get away from in the media. That is one of them. I am OD'ed up to the top of my tiara on it

I have been getting at least 1 bottle full of REAL baby formulas all most every night since I was about 9 years old and put back into diapers at bedtime,I am now 25.My bio-logical mommy after my diapering would hold me and give me my bottle.For the last year,I have made a bottle of SIMILAC SENSITIVE for SPIT UP.I have never had a bottle of formula I didn't like the taste of.Yes I must admit,it has a taste the either you like or don't like.But for this baby,I truely love the taste.I have never had any adverse side effects,from using baby formulas,either.

If he had not done wrong then he would not have be tasered

So me and the wife had a fight yesterday about how weird I am. We have been together for five years now going on two married. She has known from the second year we have been together about my fetish. From the day I've told her I've tried not to push anything on her and let her participate as she want. So far we are to the point that I can have diapers in the house and wear/use them at limited time. Mostly when she is not there. I don’t wear often. I just recently bought diapers after about a two month hiatus and have been wearing more often. But of course I get the cold shoulder. I bought diapers that aren't very noisey of pronounced so she wont have to hear or see them. Because she doesn't notice them right off she will be normal to me until she does and then it's back to re cold shoulder. I'm really getting irritated by all the mood swings around them. She has known for years. We've gone to counseling where she was told i'm normal and my fetish is harmless. She see that as me just getting my way and her being told she is wrong again. Any suggestions on dealing with her. I love the girl and she seems to love only part of me. Or any advice. P.s. sorry for grammar and formatting. My phone isn't the best

Gone

Insane? Give it ten years, they will be worth a lot more.

Oh sorry ms Leilin lets not take into consideration that this is a perishable item. Sure you could own a production line but to recreate these attends is futile. You have to think of these attends in the terms of antiques. The more years equals less existence. Less existence equals higher price. I was selling these six to eight years ago for about 100.00 a pack, they were already eight to eleven years old back then and very hard to find. They are now about sixteen years old and extremely hard to find. I noticed a price ceiling from about 2005-2010 but it seems to be breaking. Foolish is a childish term, Are you telling me that these people who can not only afford these attends but also and most likely afford a home in which to use them or even perhaps an automobile to drive to the post office where they are also able to afford a po box. These people who have worked to provided them self's what they desire, ya ms Leliln they are foolish, your right. What a bunch of foolish fools, you should mark a negative point on there post to let the world know some random and anonymous as& hole thinks they suck.

hi there if you would like my free AB pic set then send me 3 1st class stamps to cover posting and i send them by return post