Mamalias Posted October 29, 2012 Share Posted October 29, 2012 When my husband and I age play, he is almost always the baby and I the mommy. Whenever it turns sexual, that is always the way it is. And I love that. But there are times at the end of the day when I picture myself as a little girl- not a baby, but about six years old- and I just want to crawl into Daddy's arms. I don't think it is attached to anything sexual, just comfort and security particularly since my own Dad sucked something hard in that regard. Do any other mommies and daddies switch sometimes? Link to comment
ForbiddenFruit Posted October 29, 2012 Share Posted October 29, 2012 Yes, but I'm a switch regardless, rather than a top with little tendencies - do I count? Link to comment
Mamalias Posted October 29, 2012 Author Share Posted October 29, 2012 I have no idea what counts! Link to comment
BabyJune Posted November 4, 2012 Share Posted November 4, 2012 I like to role-play a little girl aged 3-6 when I dress up, which sometimes includes a diaper and waterproof pants. Link to comment
Mamalias Posted November 5, 2012 Author Share Posted November 5, 2012 Yes, but are you typically a mommy/daddy? Link to comment
annee Posted November 5, 2012 Share Posted November 5, 2012 I myself love being a grown up mother. I think it is because I like being the in charge care giver. I have also started playing dress up myself. I picked up some cool outfits on Ebay. I found some cool stuff from the 50s. I love the aprons I have with pockets. I keep diaper pins and such in them. When I feel he needs to be reminded who is the boss mother I wear this blouse with big shoulders. When he sees me wearing that he knows he not being my good boy. Then he kind of hides to avoid being spanked. But in the end he knows mother knows best and accepts his bottom will be hurting. Link to comment
Mamalias Posted November 5, 2012 Author Share Posted November 5, 2012 I love being a mommy too....about 80% of the time. I guess I'm just feeling as though I'm not fit to hold the title of Mommy if I am not into that particular role 100% of the time, and I was hoping there were others out there who played little themselves on occasion. Link to comment
thick and dry Posted November 18, 2012 Share Posted November 18, 2012 Hey now, I'm sure you do a great job. There's a ton of 'switches' whom can still 'hold the title' of caring for their littles. Don't let the whole title thing mess with your head- everyone has some sort of caring needed. It's a big part of the two-way street of a relationship. I suggest you have a talk with him, and be honest about what you want. Make sure you tell him you still want to be the caretaker, but that sometimes you want the roles changed- whether for stress relief or for simple variety, let him know why. Be specific. Perhaps if everything goes well, you should find a cue item that lets him know you want to be pampered . Like a teddy, or a certain toy. The only thing I could see causing a rift in this hypothetical is if he was deep into 'baby mode' and you wanted to switch roles? Maybe after he's been "relieved"? Make sure he gets his, both sexual and nurturing before you start asking for a change . Although it goes back to honestly. Talk it out with him when you both aren't in your roles, see how he feels about it. Now, for me. I won't ever be a baby. But I love wearing, and I love caring . She's never had a problem seeing me as the controlling figure with a (usually covered) diaper bulge. In a story-setting, would it make sense for the one doing all the caring to have a diaper, too? Probably not, but we're both okay with it. All that being said, there are some times where she has to care for me. Whether it's making dinner, cuddling me in bed, massages, ect. Sure, it's not diaper changes or story time... but it's sure a caring role, and I appreciate it (and can tell it's done because I'm appreciated ) There will always be some nurturing that I want (even though not babyish) that comes from my little . So, in short- tell him what you want, make sure to keep it light- don't give him an ultimatum. Find out if it's okay, and report back Link to comment
BabyFergstar Posted November 18, 2012 Share Posted November 18, 2012 I'm online friends with a girl who is a little herself, AB more specifically, and she has an online Daddy that she also visits every now and then. We started off as just baby friends, but now when we talk, I'm a baby and she's the Mommy. It started off because she wanted to try filling the Mommy role, but her Daddy said he didn't think she had it in her to be assertive and in charge, and she just wanted to prove him wrong...LOL. I don't think I could ever be a switch - I'm just too much of a submissive and a baby - but for many people it works. You should definitely try talking to your baby about this, and expressing your desires to feel loved and protected in a Daddy/little girl dynamic. Link to comment
Sooosaaan Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 Definitely! I am super happy to be Mommy, but when I get tired/stressed/insecure I find myself feeling more of a little girl. When I feel confident and well rested, being Mommy is much more natural and easy for me. Link to comment
Gennie Posted September 23, 2013 Share Posted September 23, 2013 Okay, this is going to sound kind of weird. Link to comment
nanamartinez Posted November 10, 2013 Share Posted November 10, 2013 It takes someone very special to make me feel like or want to be a 'little' girl, but it is awesome when it happens. Link to comment
inkbaby13 Posted November 10, 2013 Share Posted November 10, 2013 i been a little and Link to comment
BabyJune Posted November 10, 2013 Share Posted November 10, 2013 Yes, but are you typically a mommy/daddy? Both, I guess. I never imagined sharing my "alternate lifestyle" with anyone. Link to comment
bigbabybilly Posted March 17, 2014 Share Posted March 17, 2014 it has to be give and take you both should enjoy it. i perfrer the women as mommy and incharge. but i know that cant always be the way . Link to comment
Stashu Posted July 13, 2014 Share Posted July 13, 2014 Being switchy is fun because you get to see exactly how it looks from the other side and make it more awesome for your partner. It also removes a lot of the "bad vibes" that can develop in a standard D/s relationship. You won't be a bad Dom because you know how it feels when things go sideways as a sub. And let's face it, even the best relationships have their moments. It's how we get through them that matters. Link to comment
pax87 Posted July 13, 2014 Share Posted July 13, 2014 I'm responding from a littles perspective, however, I used to switch. Switching can be fun with the right person and will also depend on the dynamic. Personally, I can't switch anymore. I need the take charge and nurturing person my mommy is. Mind you, I fluidly go in and out of headspace. So in turn, my mommy does as well. She recognizes when I'm slipping into headspace and will go 'mommy mode' too. You're an adult and so is your partner. You just have a unique relationship that makes balancing more fun! Just because you're not mommy 100% of the time doesn't mean you're not a great mommy!! It's really kind of silly to expect my mommy to be that way alllllll the times. She has needs too! Link to comment
BabyJune Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 I suppose I'm a mommy, but only to myself. I don't share any of my role-playing, and nobody knows about my "interests." Link to comment
BluCollarDada Posted July 28, 2014 Share Posted July 28, 2014 It's a strange exchange for my little and I. I am firmly Daddy when we play and when she gets in the mood. I don't need her to change me when I wear (as a DL)... and surprisingly, I've never really felt the need that many ABDLs to be changed by a lover/mommy/anyone. I always felt like I could do it better myself, anyhow! Link to comment
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