UPDATE!!, Ok first, thanks for all your advise, i went wearing my tena super stretch, she ask me everithing about my urgent incontinence, she ask me why i wear diapers and i answer her " just in case because i feel sometimes that my blader will explode, she was ok with that, the diagnostic was that i have urgency urination, urge incontinence and nocturia, my prostate was a little enlarged and everithing will be ok. Again thanks for your advise.