Public spanking

[BabyBear85]

Hi, I’m still pretty new around here, so apologies if this topic has been covered…

I have a major fantasy around being spanked in a public place or in front of witnesses otherwise. In reality, I’m sure I’d be super embarrassed and likely not enjoy the experience. But curious if others have similar perspectives or if anyone has actually ever received a public spanking??

[Spanky]

I was spanked in public as a little kid when I was bad.  It was common back in the 70s.

 

I  really don't fantasize about being spanked out in the general public.  But, I've fantasize about going to one of the AB/DL camps and getting my butt paddled there, in front of others. 

Running around outside in just a diaper and getting some good spankings would be great. 

[BabyBear85]

@Spanky Totally agree - I’m not at all in favor of involving the nonconsentting general public. Not a turn on, and would be rude. 

But yeah.. paddled in front of other littles, made an example of in front of the class…

or in a private back yard, or secluded beach or something with your diaper yanked down and spanked bare in the outdoors…?

?… or just me?

PS - sorry you were spanked in public as a kid, must’ve been rough growing up with that so commonplace. ?

[1950potty]

I was a child in the 1950s and kids being spanked in public was an everyday thing (and I mean everyday).  I was a spanker by the 70s and I tried not to spank in public.  Except for a warning swat or two.  Attitudes were changing in that time.  But in 1970s misbehave and I wouldn't hesitate to tan their hide in private.  In a store all I'd have to say was "Do you want me to take you to the car?"  We kept a paddle in the car and it was frequently used.

[BabyBear85]

Thanks for sharing @1950potty  I grew up in the 80s and 90s as spanking went out of vogue, so I never got more than an occasional single swat here and there, and certainly never in public. I often wonder how my spanking kink may have evolved differently if I’d been subject to more regular (and more humiliating…) spanking as a kid.

Keeping a paddle in the car gives new meaning to the phrase “I will pull this car over!” Yikes ? 

[Spanky]

8 hours ago, BabyBear85 said:

@Spanky Totally agree - I’m not at all in favor of involving the nonconsentting general public. Not a turn on, and would be rude. 

But yeah.. paddled in front of other littles, made an example of in front of the class…

or in a private back yard, or secluded beach or something with your diaper yanked down and spanked bare in the outdoors…?

?… or just me?

PS - sorry you were spanked in public as a kid, must’ve been rough growing up with that so commonplace. ?

I deserved it when I got it.  I believe that things these days would be better if we still used corporal punishment.  Kids grow up learning that there are no real consequences for their actions. 

As for spankings in public, misbehaving in a restaurant resulted in being escorted to the restroom for a good licking.  And you knew that everyone knew why you were being taken to the restroom as they watched you walk by.

Wow, keeping a paddle in the car would really encourage good behavior.  We didn't have a paddle in the car, but I remember those warnings, " I'll take you out to the car right now "

[WBxx]

Back in the 50’s when I misbehaved dad would start to remove his belt and I immediately shaped up.  He always gave me a second chance, but never a third.

[BabyBear85]

55 minutes ago, Spanky said:

I deserved it when I got it.

Definitely not here to pass judgement on parenting techniques, as long as it wasn’t abuse. 

 

56 minutes ago, Spanky said:

everyone knew why you were being taken to the restroom as they watched you walk by.

I imagine everyone knew as you walked back to your table too, with puffy eyes and rubbing your bottom. Only spared some of the embarrassment…

Were you spanked by both your mom and dad? I imagine being hauled into the ladies room and having your bottom bared in front of other women would carry some extra humiliation for a young man. 

Thanks for sharing your experiences - sorry if I’m being too prying! Like I said, I grew up in a different time. 

[Spanky]

44 minutes ago, WBxx said:

Back in the 50’s when I misbehaved dad would start to remove his belt and I immediately shaped up.  He always gave me a second chance, but never a third.

We usually got a warning too, unless we were really bad, then we just got it.

We usually shaped up after a warning,  but I remember times where I didn't, and remember regretting it as soon as I pushed too far.  Dad's belt would come off or Mom would get the wooden spoon and it was too late. Pants would be pulled down and butt would hurt.

@BabyBear85no problem.  Yes, both Mom and Dad would spank us.  Unless I was really bad, then Mom would send me to my room to wait for my Dad to get home from work.  That was probably the worst,  because I had to stay there and think about it all day.  And it wasn't going to be a hand spanking with my pants on. Dad's belt was coming off and it would probably be on my bare bottom. 

[Spanky]

So @BabyBear85, what's your idea of a good spanking?  OTK by hand? Diaper on or pulled down, bare bottom? Or would you prefer some implement,  paddle,  belt, wooden spoon....? Or some other spanking position?

I  really prefer a good punishment spanking with a paddle.   More like a school paddling,  either bent over grabbing my ankles or over a desk.

I'd also like to get a good paddling on my messy diaper.  Or, with a giant wooden spoon. 

[BabyBear85]

42 minutes ago, Spanky said:

what's your idea of a good spanking?

I have LOTS of ideas of a “good” spanking ? 

I guess I’d say ideal scenario is over the knee, diapers pulled down, a stern warm up with her hand followed by a stinging round of the hairbrush. (I am really drawn to the brush as an implement - it’s very domestic, maternal and feminine, and it’s effective!). After I’ve been spanked, then I’d be propped in the corner with my diaper still just below my red bottom for all to see what a naughty little boy I’d been. 

I wouldn’t turn down a paddling like you describe though either. I don’t mess my diapers, but spanked over a squishy wet one would definitely be quite fun, and humiliating (if not super painful).

But like I said up above, I’d get a major rush (I think) from being spanked in public. In the backseat of the car on the side of the road, or at a rest stop. Pulled over her knee on a park bench. Arm around my waist for a quick flurry of smacks while out shopping, scolded loudly enough for other shoppers to hear. Bent over for a switch while out in the woods.

Any of the above please! Misbehave in public, get punished in public (and promised a second dose when we get home!).

Unfortunately, my wife doesn’t see things the same way, so my fantasies are largely just fantasies. The only actual real hard spankings I’ve ever had have been self-spankings. 

[Spanky]

I'm a self spanker as well @BabyBear85.   My paddle is like a big hair brush, really. A picture in one of my posts in this spanking forum.

I've never told my wife about my fantasies. 

A switch out in the woods would be awesome.   I've never gotten it with a switch or a cane. I  bet they really hurt.

Good, hard blows can inflict some pain through a diaper. 

I  do like the idea of corner time after a spanking.   Either diaper still down or sitting on a hard wooden stool.  I wouldn't be able to rub my sore bottom or I'd get more spanks.

[BabyBear85]

@Spanky oh, how did I forget:

what about in the diaper position during a change? Wet diaper squished underneath me on the changing table, legs in the air while my CG reddens my bottom with her paddle or hairbrush. 

Now that sounds like a good spanking ?

[Spanky]

51 minutes ago, BabyBear85 said:

@Spanky oh, how did I forget:

what about in the diaper position during a change? Wet diaper squished underneath me on the changing table, legs in the air while my CG reddens my bottom with her paddle or hairbrush. 

Now that sounds like a good spanking ?

Yeah.   That sounds like an awesome spanking. 

My fantasy is to be a little who refuses to use the potty.  It diaper changes,  I'd be asked if I was ready to use the potty.   Of course I'd say no and that would result in a good, bare bottom spanking.   Then a fresh diaper put on.

I've thought about how great it would be to get my bare bottom beat at a diaper change and asked to use the potty.  I'd say no. 

Then, as soon as the fresh diaper was put on, I'd squat down an pee n poop in the fresh diaper.  My parent would be furious and paddle my dirty diapered bottom unmercyfully. Then I'd have to sit in the corner, in my messy diaper. 

[1950potty]

21 hours ago, Spanky said:

I deserved it when I got it.  I believe that things these days would be better if we still used corporal punishment.  Kids grow up learning that there are no real consequences for their actions. 

As for spankings in public, misbehaving in a restaurant resulted in being escorted to the restroom for a good licking.  And you knew that everyone knew why you were being taken to the restroom as they watched you walk by.

Wow, keeping a paddle in the car would really encourage good behavior.  We didn't have a paddle in the car, but I remember those warnings, " I'll take you out to the car right now "

Oh yes you can see the difference in mom's face and the way she held onto the child.  Of course the expression on the kids face.  Often they were pleading not to be spanked.   Never worked as I remember many of these scenes.   Once the parent got up from the table a red bottom was guaranteed.

[lilstevie]

I while back , my partner and myself were with a couple who were the Auntie and Uncle . We were the littles . Riding in the car down a country highway , us littles in the back and misbehaving . The Auntie called me out and said , Stevie you pick on her one more time and I will pull this car over to the side of the road and spank that lil butt red !

Of course testing the waters , I did pick on her one more time. The next thing I know she's got the car on the side of the highway , frantically looking for something to beat my butt with and she grabs these slim jims. Opens the door and grabs me by the arm , she pushed me over the back fender , pulled my britches down and wore my lil butt out with those slim jims. Cars flying by on the highway !  She actually brought tears to my eyes , it hurt, a lot ! In the mean time my partner is giggling so much in the back of the car ,she just about lost it .  They tell her , you are next ! True story and sooo  much fun ! 

 

[Spanky]

2 hours ago, 1950potty said:

Oh yes you can see the difference in mom's face and the way she held onto the child.  Of course the expression on the kids face.  Often they were pleading not to be spanked.   Never worked as I remember many of these scenes.   Once the parent got up from the table a red bottom was guaranteed.

Yeah I remember pleading and saying I was sorry, after pushing too far, but it didn't work.  

They made sure I was sorry with a good butt whooping. 

[BabyBear85]

@lilstevie Thanks for sharing! That sounds exhilarating. 

[Spanky]

@lilstevieI bet those Slim Jim's were like little whips and I bet they did hurt.

So, did your partner end up getting it too?

[lilstevie]

17 hours ago, Spanky said:

@lilstevieI bet those Slim Jim's were like little whips and I bet they did hurt.

So, did your partner end up getting it too?

They large ones  hurt almost like a cane. At first glance , you might not would think a inconspicuous  snack food would make a dandy pervertible spanking toy . They do ! My partner got her butt beat too , not quite as bad as I did. 

Funny story . I was telling this same incident to my lifestyle Sister. Later on a few months later. I was her demo bottom for a presentation she was giving locally.  After I got there and helping set things up and we were just about ready to start , she pulls this bag out . Inside were all this slim jims , each one had my name sharpie  marked on them. She address the room and tells everyone she is raising money for the club . Each slim jim is a dallor and you can wack lilstevie a dallor per wack. She sold the whole bag. 

[Spanky]

Wow.  That had to be a shock, a little embarrassing and exhilarating at the same time. 

A great way to raise some money. 

Did folks show some mercy or wack as hard as they could?

[BabyBear85]

Wow @lilstevie talk about a PUBLIC spanking! Lots of active participants. Must have been embarrassing and exciting at the same time. 

[lilstevie]

12 hours ago, Spanky said:

Wow.  That had to be a shock, a little embarrassing and exhilarating at the same time. 

A great way to raise some money. 

Did folks show some mercy or wack as hard as they could?

 

I thought she was very creative in coming up with this idea . I was not really embarrassed , more surprised than anything. I`ve had birthday spankings before in front of a group of like minded people before where everyone got a few wacks . I`ve found some people just don't get it that its all in fun and in this case to raise money and will wail away pretty hard. You get used to it and conditioned . Most people are pretty cool about it. In any case , it`s a lot of fun to go out and do these things and I enjoy it. 

[Spanky]

Man, @lilstevie, that fundraiser is such an amazing idea.   I've thought about if you could take it a step further and have a name your price slim jim . A $1 slim jim would let you administer 1 whack.  A $5, two whacks.  $10, 3 whacks. $20, 4 whacks.

 

You could raise a lot of money,  but you could also  end up with a very sore bottom. 

I'll admit,  I'd be the one giving the really hard whacks.

 

This all reminds me of a story a coworker told me.  He went down to Mardi-Gras. They were out in the crowd one night and a guy was walking around in a pair of assless chaps and a riding crop.   He'd just let random people whip is ass with the crop. The guys behind was beet red, but he seemed to be enjoying it. 

I  really don't know how many licks I could take from a riding crop. 

[Cushy Tushy]

I was born in the late 70's and by the time I was 3 years old the decade turned to the 80's. I remember in the earlier years if I got out of line I would get a swat on the bottom or a spanking, but as time went on that quickly changed to time outs.  Never did I get a spanking in public though.