Consequences or punishments

[dlsafrica]

Actions of babies have consequences. Thats just how it is.  I believe that consequences should prevail over punishments.  Yes. Pubishment may be a consrquence, but I was thinking about this today in the restaurant when, for the second week in a row, I spilt a topping all over me and on the floor due to not being able to hold the small container.

I thought of the consequences and events if I were made to sit in the restaurant in nothing but a diaper and T shirt, possibly in a high chair. Maybe that kind of threat or thought will help me to handle the sauces more carefully.

[Rachael-Little]

Yes good thought, sitting in a high chair, frilly short baby doll dress, diaper on full display wearing a bib.

 Then made to wet a mess the diaper while others watch and tell you what a sissy baby you are 

[happyindprs]

I would have to say that the first consequence of an adult baby not being able to feed himself should suffer the humiliation of being fed. Further protests should follow with a swat or two across ones bottom and that LOOK, that you’re really going to get it when you get home.  

[Spanky]

4 hours ago, happyindprs said:

I would have to say that the first consequence of an adult baby not being able to feed himself should suffer the humiliation of being fed. Further protests should follow with a swat or two across ones bottom and that LOOK, that you’re really going to get it when you get home.  

Back in the day, we'd be escorted to the restroom to get a good licking. And,  everyone knew that we were going to get it.

[dlsafrica]

I suppose the upside it.. at least I'm behaving like the one and a half year old that I am

[happyindprs]

This reminded me of a time when I worked at a shoe store while attending High School.A young Mom and her four kids in tow walked in and to the kids department in the back of the store. mom knelt down and pulled her two and a half year old across her knee while grabbing a sandal off of the display. She then proceeded to administer a fast and sound spanking to his deserving bottom albeit over his diaper, nonetheless making sure what ever behavior he violated would not soon be repeated.

[Little Cub Pants]

This reminds me of the time I broke that window and Daddy got all mad. I was being very naughty!??? It was fun. I love getting the attention even if it was negative. it made me feel like such an little kid!?☺️????❤️ (This happened in roleplay by the way!)

[Diapered Butt]

Because of my Stroke I have bad hand/eye and hand to mouth control. This makes for eating to be pretty messy for me. I always wear a bib even when I go out and I drink from a sippy cup. I don't get looked at because of my medical condition even when my caregiver even helps and feeds me sometimes with really tough food for me. 

[Pooh Bear]

Yes I do have consequences to my behaviors if I throw a tantrum. I may get a spank on my bottom or have to sit in a chair for some time. 

[Cushy Tushy]

I think consequences for bad behavior is need or us babies or we will just keep up the same behavior over and over again. Like for me when I am eating and sitting in my booster high chair seat at the table I tend if I don't like a food that is on my tray I will push it onto the floor. My mommy or babysitter doesn't like that too much and I will get a consequence and time out for a few minutes and then made to help clean it up off the floor. 

[I Love Warm Hugs]

Bad Behaviors most definitely need consequences and good behaviors need rewards and need to be recognized. I feel that with bad behaviors and I think this is more because of my upbringing and when I was brought up in the 70's that a strong disciple with have a strong effect on the bad behavior not occurring again.  For me when I was growing up it meant a spanking on my bare bottom. This of course occurred at home. In public it was a bit difference. I was sternly warned with a swat on my bottom and if the behavior continued I was led off to nearest rest room for the bare bottom spanking. This hit home pretty quickly with me. Also my mom was usually the disciplinarian over my Dad. My Dad was more the yeller. I survived this and I suppose I am not damaged. ? I have never been married or have zero kids and plan to not have kids so I don't have to worry about that .  As for my adult baby lifestyle discipline is very difficult as I would have to do it on myself and I am not sure how I could transition from doing the behavior to dishing out the discipline so quickly. So that is pretty much eliminated from my adult baby lifestyle right now. Hopefully down the road I will find a caring mommy who can carry out the disciple as well as the caring for me. 

[Baby Foo Foo]

In the ABDL lifestyle I am a 9 month old baby. My mommy disciplines me this way. She uses the word "NO" a lot. She also redirects me by having me move to another location or do something else. She also re-enforces that she loves me and she is just trying to keep baby safe and not hurt. She is not too strict, but enough to get her point across. She is also firm in the tone of her voice when she uses words like "NO", "HOT" , "SHARP". She never shames or criticizes me or hits me.  She is always consistent and when I do something good she will praise me. 

[KPAXOR1987]

On 9/5/2021 at 12:01 PM, dlsafrica said:

Actions of babies have consequences. Thats just how it is.  I believe that consequences should prevail over punishments.  Yes. Pubishment may be a consrquence, but I was thinking about this today in the restaurant when, for the second week in a row, I spilt a topping all over me and on the floor due to not being able to hold the small container.

I thought of the consequences and events if I were made to sit in the restaurant in nothing but a diaper and T shirt, possibly in a high chair. Maybe that kind of threat or thought will help me to handle the sauces more carefully.

I had a consequence at about 5am this morning when Little me spilled my soda all over the floor and big me cleaned up the mess and sent little me to bed ?. Don't ask how In little space I managed to spill a whole bottle of soda on the floor because I truely still don't have a clue how it happened ?.