Sarah S

[Sarahs]

Hi 

I am new here, Sarah, 49, From Australia

I was a chronic bedwetter from 8-9 and wore diapers to bed,  from 11 wore diapers to school as well after some daytime accidents in class and in moms car.

I didnt leave home until i was 30, somewhat short on confidence.

Diapers in my moms day meant a soaker, cloth diaper and plastic pants, disposables were never an option and wearing cloth to school meant everyone knew, there was no hiding that, i had some confidence issues and left school when i was 17, stayed home with mom a lot after that.

 

I still need diapers for bed and have daytime leakage issues, much easier to manage now with pads and panty girldles, no one at work knows 

 

Happy to chat  to anyone who has real issues, not interested in ABDL, i always found diapers a necessity and somewhat of a drag.

 

[AbabeBill]

Hi Sarah S, and welcome to DD. Nice to meet you, and glad to have you join us. No need to worry, there’s lots of different people here, not all are adult babies. And, there are lots of people, like yourself, who just need diapers. It’s a good broad site, you can take away what you like, just have a look around. Sorry to hear about your early years. Bedwetting can be rough on young people. I too, suffered with bedwetting, from about 4-6 years old. I feel lucky, it didn’t last longer, but it still left lots of memories, and impressions on me for sure. I didn’t have diapers to deal with it. Mom thought, I would become to accustomed to it, so I only had a plastic mattress cover. Hated that thing. 
Hope you don’t mind my asking, but you said you wet from age 8. Do you know, what was the cause, and why you started then? I can imagine, how that was, having to wear cloth diapers and plastic pants to bed. And later during the day. Kids care nothing about others feelings. The more they can hurt someone else, the better they feel. 
By the way, just so you know. I am AB/DL. I always have been, even before my bedwetting. But, that’s not all of who I am, or my king interest. 
Well anyway, just wanted to welcome you, say hi, and tell you to have fun, and enjoy! 

[Sarahs]

Hi Bill

Thanks for your reply, You will have to excuse my memory on the ages, i am 49 now and the memory is not as good as it was.

I am not sure why i started wetting the bed but i know mom was not impressed and after the second night i soaked my mattress i was put in diapers and a plastic sheet went on my bed, that was the end of that story, mom was never the sort of person you argued with, all that got you was over her knee very quickly and she was not impressed with wet sheets, diapers to bed was non negotiable.

I think i was about 9 when i started having daytime accidents, i had a couple of wetting accidents at home on the weekends or in the holidays and moms answer to that was i wore diapers at home for  2 weeks after each accident and if i remained dry for that 2 weeks then i could come out of diapers, that probably happened half a dozen times where i spent 2 weeks in diapers and then came out again, i think i was 10 when when i had my first accident in public, in her car, she was furious that the seat on her car was wet, some time after i wet myself at school, not much but enough to stain my skirt, she had to leave work and come and pick me up, going home in the car i wet again (my memory is pretty clear on that days events!).

That sealed it, from then on i wore diapers, mom always said it was not good manners for me to wet in public as it was a nuisance to others and was unhygienic, i started the summer holidays early and had a month off school, then the 6-7 weeks of summer holidays, all in diapers and then when i returned to school i went in diapers, I was 11 at that stage. Mom was really good about it, she didn't embaress me or show my diapers off to others and she helped me to hide that i was in diapers to the best effect but it is not a secret  you can hide at school in the long term so other knew, and they hurt my feelings a lot too, there was no chance of me dating and i never had close friends, but i survived too.

 

Nice to meet you.

 

 

[AbabeBill]

Thanks Sarah, no worries about exact dates, times. I’m getting to that point, lots! LOL. That was a rough time, I’m sure. No real good way through. You don’t have protection to wear, you wind up with pee on everything. Not good in school, or anywhere. And if you wear protection, you still run that risk of others noticing. I have to say though, protection is the lesser of the two evils. 

Back when I was wetting my bed, I had the plastic sheet, nothing more. I was hugely self conscious of it. My older sister didn’t help, she liked to tease me for it. It was very strange, and difficult for me then. As I had mentioned, I already knew I like plastic baby pants, and diapers. At that time, more the plastic pants. I have memories of playing with them, when I was about 3. I would wear them on my head, and run around the house, yelling, RUBBER PANTS, RUBBER PANTS! I had no idea why, but I knew I liked them. Now with all of that, you would think I’d be fine, if I had got put back into diapers, for my bedwetting. But, I was scared of that very thing actually happening. But, my mom wouldn’t have any of that anyway. She thought, I’d never stop, if I had comfy diapers to pee in. So, I was kinda glad, but also sad, and it was upsetting when I did wet everything. These days, my feeling is, I should have had diapers! Would have gotten use to them, and my sister teased me anyway, so... That was a weird time for me, but the lucky thing was, I stopped around 6-7ish. Never stopped liking the diapers and plastic panties though. 
It’s good, we now have the internet, and places like this site to come to. And for, whatever your reason it is, that brings one here, there are others who know where you are coming from. Be it AB/DL, a Little, furry, incontinence, diaper wearing convenience, sissy baby, whatever. It works out to be good support. 
OK, didn’t meant to run on, but I wanted you to be welcome here basically. I think you are ?

[Sarahs]

Hi Thanks for the reply, i had no idea this place was for more serious discussions, i have always looked at AB as something that i was not interested in, then i find there are some people here who are more serious, and i do feel welcome, thanks.

You are totally correct, in my moms eyes (and in mine) it is far better to be in protection rather than running the risk of leaving marks on clothing or even worse, puddles on her car seat (I never got forgiven for those 2 in the car, moms car smelt like pee for ages, and she had no problem reminding me).

I never developed much of a love for diapers, a lot of the time i plain hated them, but i needed them too and wore them pretty much continuously right through high school and onto university although i did finally get to change myself once i was at university and could use pullups and lighter protection that was easier to hide.

 

My mom was the opposite to yours, once i was in diapers she liked the protection they gave me, she must have said a million times i was safer in diapers and also better behaved than others, which was true, any time i wasn't at school i was with her at home and i only went out with her for many years, that kind of suited her too, she liked me quiet, under control and safe.

 

Thanks
Sarah

[AbabeBill]

Yes, there is something for just about anyone here. Common denominator, diapers. Lots of people come here, who just need diapers, health issues or incontinence, once here, there find they can except and maybe even have fun with their diapers. There is lots of serious information here, that can help those who need medical diapers. 
I think I can see, how your mom used diapers to help you, herself, and as a way to control you too. 

 

 

[Sarahs]

Yes, that is so correct, she helped herself, myself and made sure i could not get up to anything, there were a lot of angles to me being in diapers, it felt safe, i can never deny that, when you are walking around in public and you have a diaper on i always felt it made me feel more confident when i was younger, it gave me strength, when i got older it was the opposite and i got a bit more love / hate, yes it was good to feel safe, but i would have loved to date and maybe be a little 'unsafe' but that wasn't going to happen with mom in charge of me.

As i got older other things turned up, rear zipper PJs and leotards were a big favorite of hers, once those go on you then your diaper is not coming off, not without mom.

[AbabeBill]

Yes, now I love the idea of PJ’S that zip up in back. 

[Sarahs]

I wasn't so Keen as a teenager

[babyalan]

Welcome to DD Sarah S being a female and in diapers isnt something to be ashamed of,especially since you live down under in auzzie land where that are probably 100s if not 1000s of you there on the female side that wear and use diapers some for everything some for pleasure some not but by embracing them rather than hating them your in good company and as far as dating well there are plenty of gentlemen in diapers that only dream of having or being with a female SO in diapers.

Just my 2 cents worth 

Wetly yours 

Babyalan 

[Sarahs]

Thank you very much, I am not so sure about embracing my diapers, i tend to try to wear pullups and pads more these days but still need diapers for bed, I understand that some like diapers but when you have been like me and worn all your life sometimes they can be a bit of a drag, but i appreciate what you said to

[Sarbear]

I agree Sarahs (I like your name...  no H in mine.

i don’t care at all if people like them, I’d kinda like to get to that point some day, but they are still a necessity and tool to help me get through my life. 

[Sarahs]

Hi Sara, thanks for that, exactly right, they are something that gets you through the day, dry on the outside.