What aspect of "diaper" life for "just found out" wife?

[sayacintanasi]

What aspect of "diaper

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[Three Rivers]

No pun intended,

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[sayacintanasi]

But which aspect of "diaper life" would draw her in to something that integrates both

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[Elfy]

Stop asking us and ask her...

We can't tell you what your wife will and will not like. Just go talk to her about it, maybe showing her some sites, and explore together, start small and see what happens.

You can't "make" someone like something, if she isn't interested in this stuff then it doesn't matter what you show her.

[sayacintanasi]

I've

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[Little BabyDoll Christine]

Plyaing "mind reader" is the most futile thing in the world. Since you' have "connected the dots" she should have a general knowledge. Now, it is up to her to ask questions

[diapered1964]

When my wife found out she was not yet my wife, however she was not put

[Bettypooh]

[billy1234]

Personally if she has already said its not for her then you need to respect that. You say that she doesn't want a divorce well pushing the subject could change that very quickly if she really hates the idea.

You really don't have the right to push anything on her the same as she doesn't have the right to push anything you wont like on you, if you don't like that either leave and try and find someone who will or man up and accept your in a relationship

[Baby Brian]

Yes, you can actively influence the situation- and that's when it will backfire Facilitate? Maybe, but you'll have to decide what path to take regards this because you know her and we don't. To just have her acceptance is a major win, so don't do anything to risk losing that. Find a way to meet her needs better because that can open the door you want to go through. Even if it doesn't open it, you should do this anyway even if it means taking care of yourself later on- she deserves that doesn't she? Whatever approach you decide to take, go very slow watching for signals from her of how she is taking things and if it seems she doesn't like your way, back off and find another way. If all roads are a dead-end, then accept that and find a way for you both to be as happy as you can manage to be.

At her age she is beginning to see menopause somewhere ahead so she will likely want to at least keep going till then. It's your job to provide that somehow. She's also seeing her own body's aging begin so remind her that she is and will always be young to you. Remember that any relationship is at least 50% them, not you, and relate accordingly

Honest conversation is the only way. Respect for each other and each others needs is mandatory on both sides. Give of yourself because you cannot expect anything in return if you don't. And if you're lucky, what gets given back may become the biggest win for you ever

Bettypooh

Sorry, but for once I have to partially disagree. Yes there is only so much you can do to change a person's mind, but you certainly can try facilitating their changing it.