Telling your partner

[Stickybuddy112]

Just curious about how you told your partner about your diaper wearing, and If you didn't tell them willingly, how they found out? What happened after you told them? We're they willing to try things with you and how did you start things?

Just curious because my fiancée recently told me and I really want to surprise him one night after work but wasn't sure how to go about doing it. Open to advice and suggestions. Thanks!

[WakkoWannaBe]

Ah, well it's nice to see someone on the other side of the "coming out" story. Usually people ask about how to tell their partner, not how to react to being told!

[D-Tech]

I told my girlfriend some years ago. We had been dating for a little over a year. We lived some distance apart, and did one see each other In the weekends. I told her about it the day she was going back, because the then would have time to think about it. I can't remember what I said, as I was so nervous. But she took it well.

She told me, that if that was my thing, then she would give me room to wear diapers if I wanted, and that it was okay if it was just covered up or if I was in separate room.

It was strange the first time I had a diaper on when she visited. I did stay in a different room or covered up the diaper, but she soon told me that I could be in the same room as her, even if the diaper was not hidden. But it took time before I was in a wet diaper in front of her.

Later it has changed, and I walk freely in diaper when I want. And has been in diapers in public with her.

She does not want to participate in changing me, or have diapers on. She has tried one of my diapers once, when her period was heavy, after she stopped taking birtcontrol. She put it on her self, and it was not a nice fit. And she did not like it. She now use pull-up tena pants when she has her period.

Would love if she would let me put her in a diaper and baby her one day, or if she would change my wet diaper. But I don't think it will happen.

We have tried sex with me in diapers. It has only happened, because I had a diaper on to bed, and we were both kissing to much. So more a moment thing, that let's do it in diapers.

I do now have diapers at hand for when the moment is there. So I place one under her when we do it, as it saves us from changing the sheet each time.

If you want to surprise him. Then this is what I wish would happen one day. I come home from a bad day at work, and she is home. She is in a cute dress, on on the bed is a fresh diaper and all the tings you need to change a diaper. Who gets to diaper who is not that important. The best would be for me that we both diaper each other. And the had the best evening with a movie and sex :-)

Or maybe just show interest in his fetich. Ask him about it. What makes it special for him. What is his fantasy. And don't judge.

Hope you could use that.

[Stickybuddy112]

Thanks for your response! should have said that he told

Me he is only into wearing and wetting diapers. Not into being treated as a baby, etc. I am completely comfortable with wearing a diaper for him because I want to try all of his fantasies. He also told me he likes being changed.

[Jilly Poo]

Telling my husband was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do.

[Stickybuddy112]

We have only been dating for Over a year, but we are now expecting our first child together. A few nights ago is the first night he was ever comfortable enough to wear a diaper in front of me last night. We were going to have sex and I went out of the room for a quick sec, and he had already taken it off. He knows that I am completely comfortable with him wearing diapers and would love for him to do so freely, and I have even expressed that I would feel comfortable enough wearing for him, and maybe in the near future changing him, but he is the one that is reluctant to it. Guess I will just have to play it day by day and let him get comfortable enough on his own time! I really do want to surprise him one day by just being in one when he gets home from work but I'm not sure how he will react.

[Stickybuddy112]

He is just a DL. He has told me he wants me to take control but I found it very difficult because I have NO IDEA where to even start.

[Elfy]

We have only been dating for Over a year, but we are now expecting our first child together. A few nights ago is the first night he was ever comfortable enough to wear a diaper in front of me last night. We were going to have sex and I went out of the room for a quick sec, and he had already taken it off. He knows that I am completely comfortable with him wearing diapers and would love for him to do so freely, and I have even expressed that I would feel comfortable enough wearing for him, and maybe in the near future changing him, but he is the one that is reluctant to it. Guess I will just have to play it day by day and let him get comfortable enough on his own time! I really do want to surprise him one day by just being in one when he gets home from work but I'm not sure how he will react.

[Stickybuddy112]

Sorry I'm new here and I haven't gotten to change anything yet... Literally just joined today haha

[Stickybuddy112]

I am in fact very female

[Baby Brian]

Everyone here knows I'm a big proponent in telling others close to you about your diaper desires, and I'm glad to see that once again it has turned out for the better like so many others here. Still, there are some very narrow minded people out there and I'm glad to see your boyfriend isn't one of them.

[tc1210]

Maybe set a date night with him to go to dinner.

[D-Tech]

@Stickybuddy112 did you manage to surprise him yet? And hos did it go?

[PlstkBakdnghtnday]

Telling my husband was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do.

[PlstkBakdnghtnday]

Pretty much every guy on this site would kill for a girl like you Jilly poo