talking to wife

[2sail2]

The few times I try to mention something about Depends (we have never said diapers), my wife seems to change the topic.

[BriGuy]

Bluntly, honestly, and tactfully.

[Baby Brian]

Seconded. Pick a time when the two of you can sit down uninterrupted and talk to her about your needing diapers. If she starts to change the subject again, don't indulge her by answering, instead tell her you need to talk about your diapers more and push the subject back to them again.

Your wife is probably just uncomfortable talking about diapers, hence why she changes the subject. You just have to keep her on them and get the talk done and over with, this way you don't have to keep hinting and trying to bring it so often.

[AwakenEvil]

I would be upfront and honest about your needs but if you wear for incontinence reasons she seems to be accepting of your situation but if you are wanting her to mommy you I would say that's a other whole can of worms and you'll need to explain to her what you want and listen to her what she is willing and unwilling to do.