A Celebratory Post :)

[lovelylittle]

for those of you who haven't met me yet, my name is lovely, and i'm rather new here. i'm a 22 year old female who has been a DL (with AB tendencies) since the age of 15. i "came out" to my boyfriend of 7 months a couple weeks ago, just wanted to share the story...

so a few weeks ago i went to look something up on google on my phone and he caught a glimpse of an ABDL site, but he didn't know what it was. he asked me and i told him it was porn and he got all guy-like, trying to steal the phone to see and getting hot and bothered by the thought of me watching porn... and i freaked out. he didn't understand why i wouldn't let him see and thought it had to do with another guy or something, so finally to ease his mind i told him i had a fetish that was rather unconventional and i was kind of embarassed and didn't want to talk about it. after a lot of trying to get him to understand why it was such a big deal, i told him it was complicated and very emotional for me and promised to tell him when i was ready.

well of course i had never planned on telling anyone in my life, so now with the thought of having to tell him even 'eventually' i was sick to my stomach for a week... i have some mild anxiety problems anyway, and they were at an all time high. after a while i couldn't handle it anymore so i had a little liquid courage, just a beer or two, and told him. i admitted that i wore diapers at night until i was 12 because i wet the bed, and that after i grew out of it, i missed them, and that i discovered the ABDL community and realized i found the thought of being in diapers and sucking my thumb and generally acting 'little' every once in a while very comforting when i was stressed.

he asked me a few questions but he was so logical and calm... i couldn't believe it. i'm sure he thought it was weird, but not freakishly so, and he didn't show it at all. he said it made sense psychologically because of some things i went through in childhood and my teenage years, and joked about playing 'baby' with me, but i know he will. funny story, he calls me baby affectionately all the time and after i had spilled my guts we had an intimate cuddle moment... he said "I love you, baby. um, i mean... i love you, dear" and just started laughing hysterically. it was awesome and broke all the tension and now it's an inside joke between us

sorry, that was long. i just feel like a million ton weight has been lifted off my shoulders and i can't dance around and throw confetti and be excited to anyone else i could have cared less if he would participate in any of my AB fantasies, all i really wanted was not to have to bottle it up, and for him to be able to find an ABDL site on my computer or a pack of diapers in my closet and not freak out... his real reaction was so much better.

*bounce bounce bounce bounce bounce* i'm just so happy. i hope everyone finds love and acceptance like this someday, you all deserve it.

[tcc]

We, in our community, are most hard upon OURSELVES. It's only diapers. They are a legal and legitimate product for a legitimate need, or they wouldn't be so readily available, affordable, and have such a huge market. Those of us who CHOOSE to make use of this ABSORBENT UNDERWEAR have a plethora of issues we deal with, but the fact remains, it's just diapers, and it's OUR choice. Nobody ELSE has to endure OUR choice of underwear, and whether we use it or not.

It's great that you have a weight off your shoulders. So many ABs and DLs "just want to tell somebody" about their "thing". If it's not presented properly, or with plenty of thought, and at a good time - especially when talking about a partner - the revelation often goes badly.

Good luck in your relationship. Good luck in your diaper side/life/world. For me, I find being a DL who is frequently diapered, with a wife that knew long before we were married about this side of me, and it would BE a part of me, and was NOT going away, to be very content and fulfilled. Having a fetish or kink or quirk is all what you make it. Make the best of YOUR thing!

[happyindprs]

Coming out to your boyfriend reminded me of the time I came out to my girlfriend, I can a test to the feeling of a ten ton weight coming off your shoulder, euphoria comes to mind! I hope all works out well for you and you relationship. I to was blessed with the fact that my girlfriend was so accepting and understanding, it was remarkable. It appears your boyfriend really understands you and is one of the few open minded ones out there. I was twenty-two when I came out to her and I am now fifty-six, yes a lifetime ago it seems but I am still in diapers and she is still in love with me. I can only hope this for you as well.

[oliver d]

I know exactly what you felt of a wieght being lifted from youre shoulders ,I came out to my wife about after 17 yrs of marriage.She accepts it but wont be a part of it.She knows its part of who I am .I only regret I didnt tell her years ago ,then my life most likely would have been less stressed out about being a dl.Her aceptance goes as far as buying me diapers and being able to wear when I want to in bed or around the house as long as they are out of sight.

[DL88]

It feels good to get it off of your chest, being able to confide in someone close, and having it be accepted. From personal experience, I can tell you that from here on out, not only will communication be easier, but knowing you're with someone who knows your "deepest darkest" secret and doesn't care will be unimaginably freeing.

Congrats!