Hard Find Friends :( *Help*

[Guest]

Over the last couple of months I don't understand on what I am doing wrong in finding friends *crys* I like to hang out in nappies and to cuddle upto someone to chill out with and have fun in my toddler bedroom cuddling each other

please please please contact me if you like to be a baby/toddler like me or please help on what I'm doing wrong

[DiaperFriend]

You aren't the only one who can't find friends. =P

You aren't probably doing anything wrong, it's just that people can be picky about who they want to talk to (i guess?). ^^; I mean, majority of the people here are men (atleast that's what i have heard), and i think it's kinda obvious that most want to find a talk to women (me included, doh). And i bet most women are bit skeptical about us. =D I'm sure that if you start to be active on forums, you'll get friends eventually. =) And if you absolutely need to have someone to talk to, will free to contact me. However, i'm not really that active so......Anyway, hopefully you'll find some friends soon. =)

[timmy boy]

hi add me on fb timmy sissy or mail me timbetts75@yahoo.com i like to chat

[babyally]

I know we've spoken briefly but I thought it would make sense to reply here, the issue I have with meeting people Is confidence, you could be the nicest person in the world but we have not yet met then by default you are intimidating to me. The fact that I don't currently gave msn makes it hard to have those first few ice breaking chats. As stated early I'm more interested in relationships with women, doesn't mean I wouldn't want to meet like minded guys but does mean I'm less likely to throw myself into a new situation. There is also the issue of ab/dl although I'm open to ab play, I've taken on a daddy role with an ex girlfriend but would love to try the submissive position. Some people won't want the full ab experience and some like me need to break down a lot of insecurities before assuming a submissive role with someone who is in essence still a stranger. Hope this makes sense and at least gives you one slightly lost, lonely opinion on the troubles of socialising through your fetish

[ItchyTasty]

I haven't got any real life DL friends.

However I do know a few online AB or DL 'friends' really well. Someone who's nickname is robbiexrainbow is a really fit scene guy into diapers. Also 'know' someone called lilannie/annierightthurr. She is fucking lucky as hell to meet her bf through diaperspace.

Don't know why but usa and canada seems to have the biggest population of AB/DL's, and seems to be more accepted there as they have diaper parties there unlike the uk.

And used to 'know' someone called jack from the uk who was an ab from london. But as he didn't really have any interests in common except diapers and I'm NOT ab, I kind of got bored chatting to him in the end.

Also I don't why but flexigirl( I think her name was jane?) isn't even talking to me anymore. When I clearly messaged her that I used to come on here as sparkplug. She ignored the message and didn't bother to reply or even say hi or welcome back. How rude when I never said anything bad to her...

But up until recently I tried to purge this fetish but failed.

Shame because we used to chat on here and now she is totally ignoring me.

[Guest]

still having no luck and evern got a cot/crib now in my room lets hope people contact me *crys*

[Steveorstephanie]

Love the cot

[timmy boy]

still having no luck and evern got a cot/crib now in my room lets hope people contact me *crys*te]hi contact me at timbetts75@yahoo.com please please i love to come and play

[timmy boy]

love the cot aswell

[LilFozzyJ5]

hiya Junior,

we used to chat way back when we still had a presence in yahoo groups...

glad to see in some ways [your own place] things are working out. be a lil patient mate, the rest will fall in place. maybe if you went to the leicester munch you might find some friends local that you can get to know. its just a thought...

cheers

Fozzy

[SomeThing]

Over the last couple of months I don't understand on what I am doing wrong in finding friends *crys* I like to hang out in nappies and to cuddle upto someone to chill out with and have fun in my toddler bedroom cuddling each other

please please please contact me if you like to be a baby/toddler like me or please help on what I'm doing wrong

I've known you for a while so I think I can say... and I'll do it bluntly: you come across as a creep. You try too hard. Your website doesn't make me feel any easier about you either: you've got stories involving underage characters on there, for example.

I know you're one of the 'innocent' type of ABs and I probably would enjoy ABying out with you, but the way you conduct yourself online shows that you have difficulties with people. I don't know much about your non-AB life, but your seeming obsessiveness with AB hints that you don't have much of a 'real-life', and to me that's a warning sign because it tells me that person has problems getting their priorities in-order.

In a nutshell, successful people are 'allowed' to have quirky private lives because they've demonstrated they can manage their affairs correctly; whereas 'loser' individuals are looked down upon if they have biazarre lifestyles and it's perceived that their lifestyle is the reason (or at least a key contributory cause) to their lack of success.

Point is, you need to check yourself, maybe see a life coach; get things in order and learn how to interact with people. You don't find playmates by begging people on the internet, it just puts people off.

Out of curiosity, have you had yourself checked up for an autistic spectrum disorder like aspergers?

[Guest]

I've known you for a while so I think I can say... and I'll do it bluntly: you come across as a creep. You try too hard. Your website doesn't make me feel any easier about you either: you've got stories involving underage characters on there, for example.

I know you're one of the 'innocent' type of ABs and I probably would enjoy ABying out with you, but the way you conduct yourself online shows that you have difficulties with people. I don't know much about your non-AB life, but your seeming obsessiveness with AB hints that you don't have much of a 'real-life', and to me that's a warning sign because it tells me that person has problems getting their priorities in-order.

In a nutshell, successful people are 'allowed' to have quirky private lives because they've demonstrated they can manage their affairs correctly; whereas 'loser' individuals are looked down upon if they have biazarre lifestyles and it's perceived that their lifestyle is the reason (or at least a key contributory cause) to their lack of success.

Point is, you need to check yourself, maybe see a life coach; get things in order and learn how to interact with people. You don't find playmates by begging people on the internet, it just puts people off.

Out of curiosity, have you had yourself checked up for an autistic spectrum disorder like aspergers?

well at least you being honest about me thanks !

[Daddy Fred]

Toddler Junior didn't come across like that to me at all.

The underlying feeling seemed to be "I'm fed up with being alone".

Not exactly unusual with this fetish, wouldn't you say?

Daddy Fred.

[ItchyTasty]

Although I haven't been there in donkeys years.....

The ABC in london that's on every month would be the best AB/DL fetish night to meet people for friends or so.

http://www.adult-baby-club.co.uk/The_Adult_Baby_Club/The_ABC.html

It's NOT cheap however,